Sometimes I feel like saying 'if you're interested go for it'

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    Jun 18, 2013 4:31 AM GMT
    I find that for some reason the type of guys attracted do me don't always like to say it so I'm saying now if you're interested hit me with your best shot. Sure I wish I attracted extroverts more than introverts but hey I'm dealing with it.

    Does anyone else ever feel like saying this?
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    Jun 18, 2013 1:22 PM GMT
    A quiet one would be nice for a change, I always get the ones that are heavily into PDA and are loud(which I don't mind, its nice when they take charge) but i'd like to experience more of the gentler type of man
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    Jun 18, 2013 1:25 PM GMT
    Im with you. Way too many times i've been told that people get cold feet and changed their mind, so instead of having people to chat with when I go out i'm standing there like an idiot!

    Yea it sucks to be told "No" or "i'm not interested", but if you dont try, they you will never succeed! Gotta put yourself out there yall!
  • selim

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    Jun 18, 2013 1:39 PM GMT
    for some people, it means that we lose when we show our interest in someone first, maybe i´m wrong!!icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 18, 2013 1:41 PM GMT
    Is "gig" a new slang word I am not aware of?
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    Jun 18, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    Selim saidfor some people, it means that we lose when we show our interest in someone first, maybe i´m wrong!!icon_confused.gif


    You are, lol.

    You lose because you never put yourself out there and you miss gt on what could be.
  • BloodFlame

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    Jun 19, 2013 8:42 AM GMT
    I'd like to think I would get the confident to talk to guys I like but like another user said, sometimes people feel that they will be shunned if they show their interest. Some gay men can be quite vocally rude (of course, straight people are too but yeah).

    But yeah, I understand what you are saying. icon_smile.gif
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 19, 2013 1:25 PM GMT
    Selim saidfor some people, it means that we lose when we show our interest in someone first, maybe i´m wrong!!icon_confused.gif


    No, you're right.
    It's seen as desperate, or rushing into things.

    We're told to express our feelings towards another, to say what we have in mind.
    Yet the dating process, we're told and we don't act upon those feelings for the thought of being looked down upon.

    You're completely right.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 19, 2013 1:35 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    EuphoricDanger saidI find that for some reason the type of guys attracted do me don't always like to say it so I'm saying now if you're interested hit me with your best shot bring me a dozen doughnuts.


    Fixed.


    I can't stop laughing.
    No words.

    My words have failed me.