Never have unprotected sex.... unless u just dont give a fuck then by all means have it.
Thanks for that story. We are human, after all, with weaknesses & temptations. We hear the warnings, but feel the urge. Or maybe our judgment is impaired, from alcohol or other things. A story I've told before:
I was bottoming with a guy, using a condom as we always did. We spent most of the night fucking, me topping him, as well, both of us versatile. At dawn we both went into his shower before I drove home.
Suddenly he bent me over, and started to enter me under the shower spray. I asked if he had a condom, and he said no, there was none in his bathroom, and he didn't want to go dripping wet into his bedroom to get one. He said he was negative, not to worry.
I was SO in lust, and as he entered me it felt SO good. But suddenly a voice in my head screamed at me: "What the HELL are you doing???"
I pulled away from him, and he got mad. But I was mad, too. I knew he was a player, with a virtual revolving door to his apartment, but he always assured me he never had unsafe sex.
Well, this was unsafe sex he wanted with me. And if he would do this with me, what was he doing with other guys? I could no longer trust him.
We remained friends, but I never had sex with him again, never got into his bed with him again. Those are called survival skills, and I have them in abundance. I hope others here do, too.