Am I as ugly as I feel lately?

  • seanboe1

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:02 AM GMT
    This is about to sound terrible and very vain but I have been awkwardly shunned recently and it seems to be because of my looks. Am I as ugly as I feel right now? Damn I hate the gay community sometimes.
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    I dont think you're ugly .
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:11 AM GMT
    That's an ugly attitude to have. Think positive, think beautiful.
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:14 AM GMT


    Dear Sean,

    I went to your profile to find pics of an ugly guy and couldn't find any.

    I did find a rather handsome stocky-build man, though. You should take a look when you have a moment. icon_wink.gif

  • Import

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
    No, I dont find you ugly.
    You're just going through a depression. You have low self-esteem, low self-worth because something happened to you.

    Are u able to sleep?
  • seanboe1

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:22 AM GMT
    Thanks guys. Yeah I'm able to sleep. I'm a bit depressed nothing over the top. I'm just struggling to find someone whom finds me attractive.
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:25 AM GMT
    Dude...don't be THAT GUY.

    STFU

    You're dating the wrong guy's.

    are you a model--No.

    You're the cute guy next door--everyone wants the cute guy next door.

    I'm guessing it didn't go well with your buddy?
  • Karl

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:43 AM GMT
    why very attractive people keep saying they're ugly? icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:51 AM GMT
    Are you as ugly as you feel?
    Gee - I don't know. Let me feel you.
    (Going by your pics, it'll be a pleasure.)
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:01 AM GMT
    No you ain't ugly. Keep your head up and keep doing you
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  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 21, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    You are always as ugly as you feel.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]TheBizMan said[/cite]You are always as ugly as you feel.[/quote

    OMG! icon_eek.gif I know that's like some tough love stuff but you Never say that to someone who is seriously hurting...

    Its not just a gay community thing.. I feel this way ALL THE TIME... I am trying to learn to brush it off but it hurts even more just knowing I want to be famous.. worldwide..

    Sometimes I feel like how in the world am I supposed to become famous, that would involve me entering the most shallow industry in the world and im afraid I couldn't compete in the looks region despite how much praise my Talents have gotten me over the years.. this part hurts me the most... icon_sad.gif

    I truly find no one ugly, everyone is beautiful yet were all different, I know not everyone feels this way so I cant pretend they do so that why I'm a little sensitive when it comes to looks as well
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    You are a seriously cute guy, not ugly by a long shot icon_biggrin.gif

    Love the outdoorsy thing too.

    Don't get down man, I guarantee that there are tons of guys out there that would be interested in you.
  • MikeW

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    Jun 21, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    Don't know how ugly you feel but you aren't ugly at all. You could probably buff-up truly hot if you had a mind to.
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    Jun 21, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    Ditch the lavender tutu and pink dancing tights.
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 21, 2013 5:36 AM GMT
    No, everyone gets rejected sometimes.
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    Jun 21, 2013 6:25 AM GMT
    Oh I just got the actual Idea of going to your page and checking you out and Pfffffffffffffffft Maaaaan Shut Up! You're Cute... lol I thought I was gonna leave feeling some other kind of other way but I think your just reaching for compliments.. lol. Your a Beefy guy so maybe not the typical Gay guy so they just don't wanna impose their gayness on all that Man, all over u! lol chill doe, chill doe (the black in me made me say that last part 0_0)
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    Jun 21, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    Don't let other people's opinion about you validate your self worth.
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    Jun 21, 2013 6:46 AM GMT
    Mesmer saidDon't let other people's opinion about you validate your self worth.


    Unless they are saying good things about you! icon_cool.gif
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Jun 21, 2013 11:02 AM GMT
    You are NOT ugly at all! your looks gives off an authentic down to earth fun loving boy next door type, that everyone loves.
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    Jun 21, 2013 11:10 AM GMT
    No, of course not. I think most of us have been there at some point in our lives, on the outs because of a pack of mean girls. Hang in there and try to remember that these up guys aren't "the gay community" or even an important part of it. You can be bigger than they are just by being yourself and not letting the silliness get to you.

    Hugs.
  • NeuralShock

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    Jun 21, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    Yes! Holy shit omg of course yeah. What are you blind? There was never any doubting it!

    Wait, he wasn't asking if I'd go out with him? Dammit icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 21, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    I can only answer that if i know ur personality and character. That's what determines if ur ugly or not. But vanity and shallowness, those are ugly.
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    Jun 22, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    Of course, letting everyone gush like this forever, that's not so pretty.
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    Jun 22, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    Verdict: Not ugly! I hope you're feeling better about yourself and life in general than when you started this thread. I liked your profile not just the photos but also your thoughtful descriptions of your personality and your interests. If you're ever in Duluth give me a shout and we could go for coffee or a hike.