asking a guy out

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    Jun 21, 2013 11:24 AM GMT
    so basically, there's a guy i like who i met taking cooking lessons. and i don't really see him anywhere except during my cooking class, which is only one time a week.

    i'm not sure this guy is gay tho. i think he is bc he flirts with me a lot. i know that doesn't mean he is gay, straight guys flirt with other guys too. but he is being really bold about it.

    also i caught him checking me out a few times

    on the other hand he is pretty manly and doesn't really have any feminine qualities about him, so it's hard to tell.

    i want to ask him out before the cooking course ends (we only have 2 lessons left before it ends) but i don't know how to.

    any suggestions?
    don't tell me to ask him out to a movie or anything faggoty like that.
    i was thinking we could get a beer.




  • helloandgoodb...

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:11 PM GMT
    Johnny_Sunshine saidso basically, there's a guy i like who i met taking cooking lessons. and i don't really see him anywhere except during my cooking class, which is only one time a week.

    i'm not sure this guy is gay tho. i think he is bc he flirts with me a lot. i know that doesn't mean he is gay, straight guys flirt with other guys too. but he is being really bold about it.

    also i caught him checking me out a few times

    on the other hand he is pretty manly and doesn't really have any feminine qualities about him, so it's hard to tell.

    i want to ask him out before the cooking course ends (we only have 2 lessons left before it ends) but i don't know how to.

    any suggestions?
    don't tell me to ask him out to a movie or anything faggoty like that.
    i was thinking we could get a beer.



    First of all "straight guys" do NOT flirt with other guys if they know the other guy is gay...unless they are considering experimenting. have you made it clear with subtle comments that YOU are gay? if he continues to flirt after that you know he is gay. that he is "pretty manly" has nothing to do with it as many guys on here will attest to

    Make the first move with something non specific, like. "you're a fun guy. we should hang out sometime after this class is over"
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:15 PM GMT
    you lost me at fagotty... I'm going to have to go google this.
  • Kel_

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:25 PM GMT



    I agree. Why do "masculine, straight-acting" gay guys think that being gay, or in this case, "faggoty" something to be embarrassed about?
  • musicdude

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    Jun 21, 2013 12:25 PM GMT
    just ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking
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    Jun 21, 2013 12:26 PM GMT
    "Hi, I am fagotty and would like to go on a date. If you would like to go on a date with me, say yes, if not say no. Either way, I will survive, but I am checking out your cooking and your body and I find you decently attractive and since I am basically a shallow, insecure guy who takes cooking classes to hit on other guys, I figured I'd test my technique on you."
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 21, 2013 1:50 PM GMT
    Everyone Loves the movies. It's not faggoty dood, and ask him if he is, get his number. Text him.
    You don't need forums advice to ask the guy for his number, one thing for sure is that straight guys do indeed give out their number.

    Go from there.
  • Hotgymguy22

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    Jun 21, 2013 2:11 PM GMT
    Just tell him that he seems like a nice guy, and ask him if he would like to grab a drink after class ends. Who knows, in time he could become the Andy to your Faggoty Ann.
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    helloandgoodbi said

    First of all "straight guys" do NOT flirt with other guys if they know the other guy is gay...unless they are considering experimenting. have you made it clear with subtle comments that YOU are gay? if he continues to flirt after that you know he is gay. that he is "pretty manly" has nothing to do with it as many guys on here will attest to

    Make the first move with something non specific, like. "you're a fun guy. we should hang out sometime after this class is over"


    this is actually a good suggestion.
    thanks


    i'm pretty sure that straight guys flirt with gay guys even if they are openly gay tho. but only if the gay guyz are not embarrassangly effeminate and no one is looking. lol

    people nowadays will flirt with anything that moves.
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    Kel_ said


    I agree. Why do "masculine, straight-acting" gay guys think that being gay, or in this case, "faggoty" something to be embarrassed about?


    I don't live in San Francisco.
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:28 PM GMT
    also, i'm being serious about this. so trolls, gtfo.
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    I think you should go for it
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    Jun 21, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    okay not that I'm an expert but are you sure he's gay at all?
    I mean I heard it was common for straight guys to size out other guys which can easily be mistaken for being checked out.

    I suppose if you aren't sure he's straight, asking him on a date or something isn't the best step.
    Maybe just ask to "chill" or hang out that way you can actually learn if he is gay or not instead of asking him out and being shot down because he isn't into men.

    Beer is probably a casual start I'd say (honestly I have no idea though but it sounds less 'faggoty') but since you are in cooking class together, why don't you preface it by saying that you want to try go over something you've learned in cooking class (i.e. a recipe or something) would he want to give it a go.

    Then you can eat whatever you've cooked, have some beers and watch sports.
    Spit every so often to maintain the straight act but if he turns out to be gay, you can totally go all rainbows.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
    Just asked him if he wants to grab a drink of something. Guys do that fairly often regardless of sexual orientation, so it's not that big of a deal. It's even more natural if you two have obviously enjoyed each others' company.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:10 PM GMT
    Johnny_Sunshine saidso basically, there's a guy i like who i met taking cooking lessons. and i don't really see him anywhere except during my cooking class, which is only one time a week.

    i'm not sure this guy is gay tho. i think he is bc he flirts with me a lot. i know that doesn't mean he is gay, straight guys flirt with other guys too. but he is being really bold about it.

    also i caught him checking me out a few times

    on the other hand he is pretty manly and doesn't really have any feminine qualities about him, so it's hard to tell.

    i want to ask him out before the cooking course ends (we only have 2 lessons left before it ends) but i don't know how to.

    any suggestions?
    don't tell me to ask him out to a movie or anything faggoty like that.
    i was thinking we could get a beer.





    If you can't simply ask a guy out for a beer then your aren't mature enough. Wait a few more years when it will seem as natural as breathing to be social with other men.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:25 PM GMT
    Johnny_Sunshine saidso basically, there's a guy i like who i met taking cooking lessons. and i don't really see him anywhere except during my cooking class, which is only one time a week.

    i'm not sure this guy is gay tho. i think he is bc he flirts with me a lot. i know that doesn't mean he is gay, straight guys flirt with other guys too. but he is being really bold about it.

    also i caught him checking me out a few times

    on the other hand he is pretty manly and doesn't really have any feminine qualities about him, so it's hard to tell.

    i want to ask him out before the cooking course ends (we only have 2 lessons left before it ends) but i don't know how to.

    any suggestions?
    don't tell me to ask him out to a movie or anything faggoty like that.
    i was thinking we could get a beer.






    you answered your own question... just ask him to go grab a beer.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:34 PM GMT
    musicdude saidjust ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking


    This. The booze will loosen him up and then you can start asking some 'questions' to deduce whether or not he is into the cock. Make sure you pay attention to his body language/eyes.
  • Fable

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    Jun 21, 2013 3:40 PM GMT
    musicdude saidjust ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking





    Lolololol burn.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:44 PM GMT
    Man up... You already have the no, go for the yes.

    He says no, then Move on Mary ... There are plenty of others out there... Life's too short.
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    Have a conversation and then see if he wants to go for a drink after your last class?
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    Jun 21, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    musicdude saidjust ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking
    Haha!
  • TroyAthlete

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    Jun 21, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    Broseph said
    texas24 said
    musicdude saidjust ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking
    Haha!


    Yeah that was my favorite reply icon_smile.gif


    We have a thread winner!
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    Jun 21, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    TroyAthlete said
    Broseph said
    texas24 said
    musicdude saidjust ask him if he wants to go grab a drink in order to celebrate the successful completion of of this faggoty cooking class you both are taking
    Haha!


    Yeah that was my favorite reply icon_smile.gif


    We have a thread winner!


    em. then i don't even want to know what the thread loser's post look like.

    god
  • madsexy

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    Jun 21, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    DUDE, "faggoty" is offensive - even you have to be able to grasp that.
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    Jun 21, 2013 8:41 PM GMT
    i'll invite him to a drink.

    and then i'll report on here whatever happens.