Success stories: Which sites work - Match.com, Chemistry, none of the above?

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    Nov 03, 2008 7:57 PM GMT
    Help me out - get lonely every once in a while, don't meet guys when I'm out, etc etc etc. Anyone had success with the dating sites? Is there a difference between Match and Chemistry? (or any others)

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    -SB
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    Nov 03, 2008 8:08 PM GMT
    It's a crap shoot. Even though a guy's pics and profile look great, and you talk to him you might finally meet him and there is no chemistry....or maybe there will be.

    I've met a lot of guys through these sites........some men are really terrific, but not for me.....nothing long term.
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    Nov 04, 2008 1:05 AM GMT
    things_n_stuff_n_cents saidHelp me out - get lonely every once in a while, don't meet guys when I'm out, etc etc etc. Anyone had success with the dating sites? Is there a difference between Match and Chemistry? (or any others)

    Help a brother out.

    -SB


    You must be kidding!!!
    You are a great looking guy and you aren't meeting anyone even when you go out? Are you anti-social or too picky?
    Hell, man! Come to Columbus!
    LOTS OF GUYS and great, fun bars to go to!
    Come on up!
    It's only 2 hours from Cincinnati!

    Match.com doesn't do gay and Chemistry does.
    I have had better luck with "outincolumbus.com", and there is an "Outincincinnati.com" site.
    They have a better stock of locally available guys.....try all of them...the one that makes my match may not be the one that works for you. Depends what you are really looking for too.... LTR or hookup, twink or bear, Daddy...chubby, muscle, leather, S&M, Dom....etc. All different sites.
    Good luck and COME TO COLUMBUS!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 04, 2008 2:22 AM GMT
    Hey guys - thanks for the responses! Sporty, you're WAY too sweet!

    I love Columbus, but I've, well, had some bad luck with guys there. Hehe.

    -Sean
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:32 AM GMT
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    Nov 04, 2008 5:01 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidmanhunt icon_twisted.gif


    Haha. At some point I want more than sex ... hehe.
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    Nov 04, 2008 5:31 AM GMT
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    Is this a site for love or lust??

    Once again...all we (gay men) want to do is________!!!
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    Nov 04, 2008 6:13 AM GMT
    Azstreaker said
    dancerjack saidmanhunt icon_twisted.gif


    Is this a site for love or lust??

    Once again...all we (gay men) want to do is________!!!




    am i supposed to fill in your blank? icon_wink.gif


    sorry. let me get out of the gutter. you're feeling philosophical tonight, and i don't want to undermine that by being sexually jaded.
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    Nov 04, 2008 6:19 AM GMT
    In my experience match.com and chemistry.com are the faces associated with the pp and hoho pics on manhunt.

    I've found bars and the internet to be bad places for meeting guys in general. I think social organizations, volunteering, and sports leagues are much better outlets. You're not going to get instant gratification, but lasting relationships aren't built on instant gratification assuming that's ultimately what you're looking for. Could be wrong. Just don't be one of those guys who goes to AA or NA meetings to find a date.icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 07, 2008 6:18 AM GMT
    Or a funeral ....
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    Nov 07, 2008 6:27 AM GMT
    no, no, no, that's for finding an apartment in nyc
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    Nov 07, 2008 8:13 AM GMT
    Can't you do both at the same time?

    "Ooh, so sorry for his life. Where did he live ... and better yet, would you like to go to dinner?".