in an ltr but living apart?

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    Jun 23, 2013 2:14 AM GMT
    Do you know or have heard of a couple that are in a long term relationship but live apart?
    A friend of mine has a friend like that. Heterosexual. They do things together like a regular couple would, have sex, but they each live in their own place.
    Sounded kind of nice to me.
  • rnch

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    Jun 23, 2013 2:21 AM GMT
    Lumpynose saidDo you know or have heard of a couple that are in a long term relationship but live apart?
    A friend of mine has a friend like that. Heterosexual. They do things together like a regular couple would, have sex, but they each live in their own place.
    Sounded kind of nice to me.



    This type of LTR has worked for me and my man for 5 years.

    Neither one of us want the other (or anyone else, for that matter) around them 24/7.

    We both need our alone personal time and do not take offense in the other enjoying his.

    He works the night shift, I work the mid shift. He has to work every other weekend. His sleeping time alone would reek havoc on us in the same house together.

  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Jun 23, 2013 2:26 AM GMT
    I do! my bf and I are in a long term relationship, but we both have our own place! some days I sleep over his place and some days he comes over and sleep in mine! we are both homeowners!! we are both fine with that arrangement!!
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    Jun 23, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    LEANDRO_NJ saidI do! my bf and I are in a long term relationship, but we both have our own place! some days I sleep over his place and some days he comes over and sleep in mine! we are both homeowners!! we are both fine with that arrangement!!


    Same! One of these days, we'll share a mortgage but now is not the right time and we're completely fine with it.
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    Jun 23, 2013 8:02 AM GMT
    I heard its what Helena Bonham Carter and her hubby do