I just added an 18yr old to my hot list....

  • drakutis

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    Nov 04, 2008 12:49 AM GMT
    I feel really weird about that! I'm no predator and I'm not taking anything away from the younger ones (40 IS NOT OLD!!!), because I can admire beauty and HOTNESS, but part of me is like "DUDE, HE"S 18!!!!"

    Has anyone else felt that way?
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    Nov 04, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    He could be even younger and lying about his age (happens a lot here)... Ooooo, add that to your wierd feelings.
  • triniboy

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    Nov 04, 2008 4:07 AM GMT
    Hot is hot.
    No worries.
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:08 AM GMT
    i'm feeling more conflicted about your explanation than your action... what's bothering you about this?
  • Delivis

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    Nov 04, 2008 4:12 AM GMT
    I added a few people twice my age to my hotlist, but damn, i wish i look that good and young when i am their age.

    More or less the same thing and i do not feel weird about it. You are letting social proprieties get to you a bit too much i think..icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:23 AM GMT
    I understand the physical thing, but age can be a problem.

    I'm almost 50, and I don't think a much younger guy would connect with me as a long term partner.

    But I'm not too sentimental to enjoy short term company.icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:26 AM GMT
    your name is mangina...
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:28 AM GMT
    18...yum
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:30 AM GMT
    Bah I made out with a 16 being 21 so its fine, you just added him to your hot list.
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:32 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidyour name is mangina...


    Username.

    My real name is Chuck.

    I thought Mangina was funny.
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    Nov 04, 2008 4:56 AM GMT
    Mangina said
    dancerjack saidyour name is mangina...


    Username.

    My real name is Chuck.

    I thought Mangina was funny.


    itsnt funny, is creepy icon_neutral.gif
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Nov 04, 2008 6:46 PM GMT
    Mangina said
    dancerjack saidyour name is mangina...


    Username.

    My real name is Chuck.

    I thought Mangina was funny.


    Were you Chucky in another life icon_question.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Nov 04, 2008 6:50 PM GMT
    The_Hussein_GuyNextDoor saidI have buddies on RJ that are 18, 38, 28 and 48... Why is age a problem at all? We are all MEN here aren't we? If you are hot you're hot. Your age has very little to do with who finds you attractive... If someone pays you that compliment,,, just say thank you. If you feel like paying someone a compliment, go for it. I do. Merely communicating with the younger crowd does not make you a predator by any stretch... One of my best examples is http://www.realjock.com/profile/?id=126152 ...Sed's the best! What a fun buddy to chat with... Personally, I think ageism sucks at any age... icon_wink.gif


    Totally agree! thanks
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:01 PM GMT
    My hot list goes from 18 to 56. It is not just looks but personality. After all I am not going to be intimate with anyone on my hotlist, I am happily taken. I hot list people on RJ to compliment them on a job well done in terms of fitness, personality, etc..

    Don't fret over it.
  • EricLA

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    Nov 04, 2008 7:06 PM GMT
    As long as they're legal, why worry? As has already been said, hot is hot. Do you think straight men worry about the 18 year old girls they find attractive? Why should we?
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:07 PM GMT
    MikePhilHussein said
    Were you Chucky in another life icon_question.gif


    Aaaaahhhhhhh!
  • auryn

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    Nov 04, 2008 7:08 PM GMT
    18 is legal everywhere, but 16 will get you 20.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Nov 04, 2008 7:11 PM GMT
    SurrealLife saidMy hot list goes from 18 to 56. It is not just looks but personality. After all I am not going to be intimate with anyone on my hotlist, I am happily taken. I hot list people on RJ to compliment them on a job well done in terms of fitness, personality, etc..

    Don't fret over it.


    Same here. My lists start at 18 and up. They are there because they are genuinely nice guys. I'm in a very happy and loving relationship. So there is nothing sexual behind my lists.
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:13 PM GMT
    now if you hotlisted a 4 year old THEN we would probably be worried =O
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:14 PM GMT
    chinosurfguy saidnow if you hotlisted a 4 year old THEN we would probably be worried =O


    If there was a 4-year old on RJ, the RJ administrators would be worried! icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    SurrealLife said
    chinosurfguy saidnow if you hotlisted a 4 year old THEN we would probably be worried =O


    If there was a 4-year old on RJ, the RJ administrators would be worried! icon_eek.gif



    If there was a 4 year old on RJ, the RJ administrators would be in trouble icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 04, 2008 7:31 PM GMT
    depends on if he's really 18 and mature.

    I have a straight married friend who's 39,been married for 18 years and he and his wife just had twins last month well he left her for a 19 year old girl who is still living with her parents and in school.His wife is a RN making good money,nice house and did everything for him. Now thats weirdicon_confused.gif
  • josephmovie

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    Nov 04, 2008 8:11 PM GMT
    For me the 19 year olds always look great in their pics but when you meet they they just look so...young. And no matter how mature they are they still don't have the life experience someone older has. Give me someone over 35 any day.

    But hey, hot is hot, and they're just photos anyway.
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    Nov 05, 2008 2:32 AM GMT
    Adding an 18 year old as a hot 'lil piece of meat with a great body is what it is. If they are hot, they are hot.

    What was more of a surprise for me though was the hotter older guys.

    There are some SMOKIN hot 40 year olds (and some older) on here that I would do in half a heartbeat.

    That was one surprise when I joined.

    The next surprise was how cool so many guys are and what fun it is to chat with them.

    The third frustration/surprise is that ALL THESE COOL GUYS LIVE THOUSANDS OF MILES AWAY. There's a really cool guy I hope to meet soon, and I found him on here.
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    Nov 05, 2008 2:43 AM GMT
    drakutis saidI feel really weird about that! I'm no predator and I'm not taking anything away from the younger ones (40 IS NOT OLD!!!), because I can admire beauty and HOTNESS, but part of me is like "DUDE, HE"S 18!!!!"

    Has anyone else felt that way?
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    Who cares, as long as theyre legal, hehe.....icon_cool.gif