First small hook up?

  • lcie55

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    Jun 24, 2013 8:34 AM GMT
    Hey guys,

    Just wanted some general advice.

    I've been randomly experimenting with going on these chat roulette kinda sites, and I came across this really hot guy. We jacked off on cam together, and just continued to chat for a while after. He's 26, (I'm 19) and he's Bi. We exchanged email addresses and since then, we've skyped a few times.

    He seems like a really decent guy, we spoke about maybe meeting up just to mess around a bit. I'm always a bit cautious with these things though, he said he's the same. We're not really looking to do much, he said he really wants to blow me, and I just wanna give him a hand....

    I really want to meet up with him, but idk. It's not that anything seems off with him, but It's just my stupid brain making me all paranoid as usual...
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    Jun 24, 2013 11:03 AM GMT
    Go with your gut feeling. If you're not comfortable with it, don't do it.
  • lcie55

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    Jun 24, 2013 11:29 AM GMT
    The thing is, I'm never comfortable with anything when it comes to this, I just feel I kind of need to just go for it and I really do want to.

    It's like taking that first step into the world of sex haha. I've messed about with a guy before, but really want to try again
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    Jun 24, 2013 11:37 AM GMT
    Then do it! Once you do, you'll feel good about it and be more comfortable in future guys you meet.
  • lcie55

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    Jun 24, 2013 12:24 PM GMT
    Have you got any advice for me about the actual hook up?
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    Jun 24, 2013 6:47 PM GMT
    1. Be safe
    2. Set expectations with you and the other guy. I.E. tell him you only want to give him a hand.
    3. Follow through and don't chicken out.
    4. Be honest!
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    Jun 24, 2013 11:00 PM GMT
    If you're insecure about meeting a stranger to hook-up, you might consider telling a close friend/family member where you're going and give the address (so, you know, if nobody has seen you in a few days, they can know you're probably chopped-down in the guy's freezer...).
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    Jun 25, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    Jeffrey Dahmer.