Bisexuals - Are they good in bed?

  • Philip101

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    Jun 24, 2013 11:05 PM GMT
    I'm interested to know your views of what it is like having sex with bisexuals. I mean, did you notice that their style with sex is often different than with gay people?

    I'd like to clarify from the outset that I know that there is a large spectrum of bisexual people - I realise that this is not black and white and that they, like any other group, have different likes, desires etc. What I am interested in is simply your experiences and anecdotes, nothing more.

    For me, I found that the bisexuals who describe themselves as "Pure Tops" are more likely to be the types of people that say to you "No kissing, no hugging - only anal and oral sex please". Is this what others have found?
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    Jun 24, 2013 11:12 PM GMT
    Philip101 saidBisexuals - How did you find them in bed?

    I found them inside my...
  • deep388

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    Jun 24, 2013 11:14 PM GMT
    Do married men count? If so, I probably rate them a little higher on the scale.
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    Jun 24, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    Well, a king-sized bed is a big scary place. I would use a fleshlight....


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  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 24, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    depends on the guy ... some are boring just lay there or just want to get their rocks off ... and then they leave right after with a huge guilt complex icon_evil.gif
    and other are hotter fire in bed ... and want to do it every which way icon_razz.gif
  • Philip101

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    Jun 25, 2013 12:40 AM GMT
    deep388 saidDo married men count? If so, I probably rate them a little higher on the scale.


    Yes, married men count.

    What did you mean when you said that you rate married men higher on the scale? Do you mean that you get more turned on if you know they are married (to a woman)?
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    Jun 25, 2013 12:50 AM GMT
    For the most part, they're lousy in bed...but not all of them. Usually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal. Talk to a bisexual about touching his ass and watch his face look like he just ate a lemon. I know it's subjective but this has been my experience so far with bisexual men.
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    Jun 25, 2013 1:01 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Erik101 saidFor the most part, they're lousy in bed...but not all of them. Usually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal. Talk to a bisexual about touching his ass and watch his face look like he just ate a lemon. I know it's subjective but this has been my experience so far with bisexual men.

    I will agree that most Bi men don't want anal... The First time! But after about 3 dates with you, they get curious to know if they could take all that themselves... and the next thing you know by date 3, they are legs in the air, ready to sing the high notes!
    Again, just my experience...icon_wink.gif
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  • Philip101

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    Jun 25, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidUsually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal.


    Erik, I am interested to see that you had the same experience as me.
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    Jun 25, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    In my experience they suck, cuz they won't suck. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 25, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Erik101 saidFor the most part, they're lousy in bed...but not all of them. Usually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal. Talk to a bisexual about touching his ass and watch his face look like he just ate a lemon. I know it's subjective but this has been my experience so far with bisexual men.

    I will agree that most Bi men don't want anal... The First time! But after about 3 dates with you, they get curious to know if they could take all that themselves... and the next thing you know by date 3, they are legs in the air, ready to sing the high notes!
    Again, just my experience...icon_wink.gif
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9N-wtq15sE0


    I have yet (and probably not going to) to find that bisexual guy that I can turn into Sarah Brightman. icon_wink.gif

    Philip101 said
    Erik101 saidUsually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal.


    Erik, I am interested to see that you had the same experience as me.


    No problem! The last bisexual guy I was with asked me if I thought he gave good head. I told him it was okay but to come back so I can give him a lesson. icon_smile.gif

    Overall, it just lacks passion and that's important during man-to-man intimacy.
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    Jun 25, 2013 1:58 AM GMT
    One guy just made me just suck his Dick and didn't even want to speak to me and one tried to be passionate but couldn't find my butthole.
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    Jun 25, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
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    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Erik101 saidFor the most part, they're lousy in bed...but not all of them. Usually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal. Talk to a bisexual about touching his ass and watch his face look like he just ate a lemon. I know it's subjective but this has been my experience so far with bisexual men.

    I will agree that most Bi men don't want anal... The First time! But after about 3 dates with you, they get curious to know if they could take all that themselves... and the next thing you know by date 3, they are legs in the air, ready to sing the high notes!
    Again, just my experience...icon_wink.gif
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9N-wtq15sE0

    Tra - LAAAAAAAAAA


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    Jun 25, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    Easy, he was the guy between me and that chic he brought home. Or the guy between me and that drag queen who wound up in bed with us.

    The sex was pretty good. But we mixed it up; we had a lot of fun. We probably had simultaneous orgasms more than not so we were real in tune with each other. It wasn't perfect but it was 10 of the best years of my life. Once we both came at the same time as the chic who was with us and right at that moment the fucking bed broke, crashed right down to the ground. That was great. It was like the rapid fire boom boom boom boom grand finale at the fire works.

    When it came to spooning before sleep I was usually the big spoon. He liked that. Sometimes now I hold myself like I used to hold him and I give myself a hug and I can almost feel how he felt in my arms and it makes me cry.

    As for bisexuals being "pure tops", we weren't into anal--I'm still not--but I've run into a number of bi's since. So sorry to ruin your fantasy but I've found that most of them--at least the ones who were attracted to me--were either bottoms or just into blow jobs, either way or mutual depending on chemistry.

    If you're thinking that you're going to find this bi guy who's a total top so that you can be the girl, I suspect most likely you'd be kidding yourself. Wake up.

    A total top is a guy who sucks dick, just not yours.
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    Jun 25, 2013 3:14 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Erik101 saidFor the most part, they're lousy in bed...but not all of them. Usually, they just want oral. No kissing, no cuddling and no anal. Talk to a bisexual about touching his ass and watch his face look like he just ate a lemon. I know it's subjective but this has been my experience so far with bisexual men.

    I will agree that most Bi men don't want anal... The First time! But after about 3 dates with you, they get curious to know if they could take all that themselves... and the next thing you know by date 3, they are legs in the air, ready to sing the high notes!
    Again, just my experience...icon_wink.gif

    And you bought that story? icon_lol.gif
  • Philip101

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    Jun 25, 2013 7:46 PM GMT
    Thanks for all the comments guys, I appreciate hearing about your experiences.

    I was with a bisexual today, and he was into:

    1. Kissing;
    2. Hugging;
    3. Oral (giving and receiving);
    4. Mutual masturbation; and
    5. He said he wanted to be a top also for anal sex, but he climaxed before we got that far.

    So after our encounter I was chatting to him in light of this forum topic LOL. He said that, whilst he likes both guys and girls, he is more into guys than he is into girls, which explains why he likes kissing and hugging.

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    Jun 25, 2013 9:45 PM GMT
    Usually closet cases who don't kiss, are cold fucks and only date women.
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    Jun 25, 2013 11:33 PM GMT
    They seem the same.. maybe more caring actually due to having to deal with sensitive women possibly
  • Philip101

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    Jun 26, 2013 12:05 AM GMT
    IrishDarren saidUsually closet cases who don't kiss, are cold fucks and only date women.


    Hi IrishDarren,

    Thanks for your post.

    I'm sad that you have also encountered these types of people who don't kiss.

    I now ask people in advance if they like kissing and cuddling, because I don't want repeat experiences of these bisexuals who are stone cold in bed. Sorry, but I don't want to make love with a dead man that just lies there still and expects to get sucked!