I have done extensive research, and discovered where to meet hot guys

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    Jun 25, 2013 10:22 PM GMT
    1. The gym. This may seem obvious, but not just any gym will do. I have found the hot young guys frequent 24 hr. fitness, due to its lower cost. The one here in Sac is swarming with great looking gays icon_smile.gif

    2. Chipotle. Every chipotle I have been to (at least in California) always has a handful of hot jocks inside, many of whom are friendly to other boys. Must be the big stuffed burritos.

    3. Races- marathons, triathlons. These types of sports seem to have the highest per capita of great looking men in the best shape. And you know they have stamina!

    All right, now I've done you a favor. No more "Where do I meet hot gay men?" Posts. Follow my blueprint Jedi, and enjoy the eye candy!
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    Jun 25, 2013 10:26 PM GMT
    timshel saidThe gym.

    First in thread to say #YCYL
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    Jun 25, 2013 10:29 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    timshel saidThe gym.

    First in thread to say #YCYL


    I don't endorse cruising, but a simple "spot me?" can go a long way.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 25, 2013 10:44 PM GMT
    I think the key word here was young ... don't get me wrong, I like looking at hot young men just as much as the next guy, but available guys in my age bracket are virtually non-existent. The few there are, are still deep in the closet, or on a cruise with their wife and kids, or don't go out or total pervs. I'm sure they're out there somewhere, but somehow I don't think I'm going to find them at Sunday mass or any of those places unless they are cheering on their sons and daughters.
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    Jun 25, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    timshel saidI have found the hot young guys frequent 24 hr. fitness, due to its lower cost.


    You're 30 years old. Why is "young" even a factor? Are guys your own age or older not attractive to you?
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    Jun 25, 2013 11:43 PM GMT
    3 options and one of them involves fail-flirting over nacho chips and salsa?!

    "Extensive" mi culo!


    Looks like I'm grabbin' some Old El Paso and a skin mag from the 7-11...again.

    #siepresolo
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    Jun 26, 2013 12:34 AM GMT
    ihateyoutoo saidwell, it's easy to spot a "hot" guy. it's hard to meet a guy with sense, cool guy or someone with a great personality. icon_sad.gif don't really care about "hot" guys. that's some shallow minded shit.


    You subscribe to a site called "RealJock" for gay men about fitness and athletics, and you are shocked that there are guys here who are into physical appearance?

    The crocheting psychics forum is down the hall --->
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    Jun 26, 2013 12:37 AM GMT
    timshel said
    ihateyoutoo saidwell, it's easy to spot a "hot" guy. it's hard to meet a guy with sense, cool guy or someone with a great personality. icon_sad.gif don't really care about "hot" guys. that's some shallow minded shit.


    You subscribe to a site called "RealJock" for gay men about fitness and athletics, and you are shocked that there are guys here who are into physical appearance?

    The crocheting psychics forum is down the hall --->


    LOL!
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    Jun 26, 2013 2:26 AM GMT
    ihateyoutoo said
    timshel said
    ihateyoutoo saidwell, it's easy to spot a "hot" guy. it's hard to meet a guy with sense, cool guy or someone with a great personality. icon_sad.gif don't really care about "hot" guys. that's some shallow minded shit.


    You subscribe to a site called "RealJock" for gay men about fitness and athletics, and you are shocked that there are guys here who are into physical appearance?

    The crocheting psychics forum is down the hall --->


    there's two types of gay guys in the gym.

    the guys that LIFT and EXERCISE and the guys that watch the guys that LIFT and EXERCISE.

    i actually lift. you watch the guys that exercise and lift. maybe you should actually workout instead of looking for a hookup or trying to find material for your jerk off stash. you might walk away with something that will be useful to you.

    and for the record, you DO NOT have to go to the gym to find a "hot" guy. you're clearly looking for some love and you're looking in the wrong places. i'm sure you'll have some guys going WTF @ you all eyeing them down while they're working out @ the gym, eating some damn food or running a marathon with your pedophile grin.

    and there's nothing wrong with NOT being superficial and actually valuing a personality and intelligence. try it sometime and you'll simply look @ this thread as a bad joke. you sound really simple minded



    maybe you should just stop bitching.
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    Jun 26, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    ihateyoutoo said

    there's two types of gay guys in the gym.

    the guys that LIFT and EXERCISE and the guys that watch the guys that LIFT and EXERCISE.



    Not really. It's perfectly possible to check out the rest of the gym while focusing on your own workouts. If you're using your eye muscles to bench press, you're doing it wrong.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 26, 2013 8:23 AM GMT
    If you are after the elusive 30-45 demographic and looking for a "nice guy" you forgot the most useful place to look. Granted there are a lot of undesirables and crazies but the gems are worth it if it works right?

    antiqueguymontage.jpg

    and really, where else can you pick up a bed, saddle, and wedding ring all in the same store?
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    Jun 26, 2013 8:50 AM GMT
    ihateyoutoo said
    and there's nothing wrong with NOT being superficial and actually valuing a personality and intelligence. try it sometime and you'll simply look @ this thread as a bad joke. you sound really simple minded


    Sounds like something ugly people say...

    Oh wait it's you

    Totes makes sense now
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    Jun 26, 2013 8:51 AM GMT
    And apparently I have been beaten to the #YCYL punch.
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    Jun 26, 2013 8:57 AM GMT
    timshel said1. The gym. This may seem obvious, but not just any gym will do. I have found the hot young guys frequent 24 hr. fitness, due to its lower cost. The one here in Sac is swarming with great looking gays icon_smile.gif

    2. Chipotle. Every chipotle I have been to (at least in California) always has a handful of hot jocks inside, many of whom are friendly to other boys. Must be the big stuffed burritos.

    3. Races- marathons, triathlons. These types of sports seem to have the highest per capita of great looking men in the best shape. And you know they have stamina!

    All right, now I've done you a favor. No more "Where do I meet hot gay men?" Posts. Follow my blueprint Jedi, and enjoy the eye candy!


    4. Trader Joe's.
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    Jun 26, 2013 9:01 AM GMT
    Incendiary saidAnd apparently I have been beaten to the #YCYL punch.

    I'm curious, Where did you meet your boyfriend, since you seem so anti meeting anywhere besides online gay chat sites/apps?

    When I lived in Florida, I was once approached at the bus stop (guy sent his girl friend to relay the message) and another time at the car wash. Both of those were actually pretty damn good relationships. So neither one of them lost by cruising.

    YCYL is only for those people with no gaydar. Most straight men aren't even offended by a guy hitting on them. Makes them feel worthy.
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    Jun 26, 2013 9:19 AM GMT
    YCYL ICIW CYDKWTFYD icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 26, 2013 10:09 AM GMT
    now what restaurant would I go to meet sugar daddies
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    Jun 26, 2013 10:15 AM GMT
    I have never remotely approached physically attractive people in the gym mainly because they make me nervous. There's a huge cognitive dissonance because on a rational level I believe it would be shallow to specifically interact with people based on how I feel about their appearance. The temptation is thereā€¦ and since tomorrow is gym day I might even succumb to it.
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    Jun 26, 2013 10:38 AM GMT
    Don't forget truck stops!
    Have you ever been layed out in one of those Super Cabs..?
    They are quite comfy .. icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 26, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidDon't forget truck stops!
    Have you ever been layed out in one of those Super Cabs..?
    They are quite comfy .. icon_eek.gif


    Lot Lizard!
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    Jun 26, 2013 2:43 PM GMT
    I go to Trader Joes for the scruffy men icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 26, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    timshel said1. The gym. This may seem obvious, but not just any gym will do. I have found the hot young guys frequent 24 hr. fitness, due to its lower cost. The one here in Sac is swarming with great looking gays icon_smile.gif

    2. Chipotle. Every chipotle I have been to (at least in California) always has a handful of hot jocks inside, many of whom are friendly to other boys. Must be the big stuffed burritos.

    3. Races- marathons, triathlons. These types of sports seem to have the highest per capita of great looking men in the best shape. And you know they have stamina!

    All right, now I've done you a favor. No more "Where do I meet hot gay men?" Posts. Follow my blueprint Jedi, and enjoy the eye candy!




    I totally agree with the marathons and running events, however, those guys are addicted to running and have no time left to date.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 26, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    Jay1922 saidnow what restaurant would I go to meet sugar daddies

    Sugar daddies dump their boys once they get just a little too old and the sugar babies almost always end up on the street or prison with no talent or skills to survive on their own
  • PR_GMR

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    Jun 26, 2013 3:11 PM GMT
    I think this research isn't really extensive. Frankly, you can meet gay men anywhere. Just follow your interests, develop your gaydar and closely watch. Bottom line is that if you to be where there's a high concentration of homos, go to gay bars, Pride events, or the gym.
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    Jun 26, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    Apparition saidIf you are after the elusive 30-45 demographic and looking for a "nice guy" you forgot the most useful place to look. Granted there are a lot of undesirables and crazies but the gems are worth it if it works right?

    and really, where else can you pick up a bed, saddle, and wedding ring all in the same store?


    Haha, this post made my day icon_smile.gif