I think sex is nasty after I cum?

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    Jun 26, 2013 5:16 AM GMT
    I think sex is nasty after I cum?
  • MikeW

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    Jun 26, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
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    Seriously.

    I mean, ok, OP, erm, why the question mark?? I mean, if you do, you do, but do you?
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 26, 2013 5:23 AM GMT
    That's because you feel ashamed about it.
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    Jun 26, 2013 5:53 AM GMT
    MikeW said

    I mean, ok, OP, erm, why the question mark?? I mean, if you do, you do, but do you?


    That's the way annoying teens talk? Everything ends with the inflection of a question? Even if it isn't?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 26, 2013 6:00 AM GMT
    Guilt much?
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    Jun 26, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidThat's because you feel ashamed about it.


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    Jun 26, 2013 10:32 AM GMT
    Lotsa people think sex is nasty after they cum. That's why straight men want to kick their women out of bed after sex.
    For some people sex only feels right if they're in love.
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    Jun 26, 2013 10:56 AM GMT
    I still have Catholic Guilt,

    Father Fitzroy said sex is a very sacred act that should only be between an alter boy and his priest.
  • Just_Tim

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    Jun 26, 2013 11:03 AM GMT
    That is nasty. What the hell's the matter with you?!
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 26, 2013 11:07 AM GMT
    I've noticed a dick in the ass feels so fucking good after I cum. But that's just me. lol
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    Jun 26, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidLotsa people think sex is nasty after they cum. That's why straight men want to kick their women out of bed after sex.
    For some people sex only feels right if they're in love.


    I read somewhere that the desire to sleep after sex is nature's way of ensuring the bonding of the partners after sex rather than the male running out.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 26, 2013 12:32 PM GMT
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    JohnSpotter saidLotsa people think sex is nasty after they cum. That's why straight men want to kick their women out of bed after sex.
    For some people sex only feels right if they're in love.


    I read somewhere that the desire to sleep after sex is nature's way of ensuring the bonding of the partners after sex rather than the male running out.


    In this case OP, you're an asshole. =]
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    Jun 26, 2013 12:33 PM GMT
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    Jun 26, 2013 1:04 PM GMT
    We yack and yack about community but when young people come for advice, too many people are only eager to show how superior they are instead of actually helping out.
    I used to feel nasty after cumming too. Now, I wouldn't have it any other way.
    (Lily Tomlin joke)
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 26, 2013 1:12 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidWe yack and yack about community but when young people come for advice, too many people are only eager to show how superior they are instead of actually helping out.
    I used to feel nasty after cumming too. Now, I wouldn't have it any other way.
    (Lily Tomlin joke)


    I'm not trying to be a dick or anything but, no one was asking for advice. =]

    The thread wasn't started with a "why."
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    Jun 26, 2013 2:15 PM GMT
    I could be wrong but I took the peculiar punctuation to mean:

    "I think sex is nasty after I cum. Why?"
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 26, 2013 4:02 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI could be wrong but I took the peculiar punctuation to mean:

    "I think sex is nasty after I cum. Why?"

    Yeah, I think he is reaching out for advice..... Probably most of us can relate. Again, I think it has to do with guilt and shame, which is common to, but not exclusive to, young gay men.
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    Jun 26, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter said
    I used to feel nasty after cumming too. Now, I wouldn't have it any other way.
    (Lily Tomlin joke)


    Ohhhhhhh Hohohooo... icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
  • Nayro

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    Jun 26, 2013 9:45 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    JohnSpotter saidI could be wrong but I took the peculiar punctuation to mean:

    "I think sex is nasty after I cum. Why?"

    Yeah, I think he is reaching out for advice..... Probably most of us can relate. Again, I think it has to do with guilt and shame, which is common to, but not exclusive to, young gay men.


    I can actually relate quite well to this. I just never really dared to ask a question about it on here. But I guess it is what you say, guild and shame.. Definitly points out there are some issues to deal with..
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    Jun 26, 2013 10:17 PM GMT
    PursueLoveDream saidI think sex is nasty after I cum?

    Not sure how you mean nasty. But up until my 20s when I had an orgasm it was often like a switch had been thrown inside me. The porn material I had been lusting over moments ago suddenly became distasteful to me, and I'd quickly put it away. (At this time I was only masturbating, wasn't having sex with others yet)

    It was such a dramatic change, from one instant to the next, that I thought it was hormonal in some way, connected to the orgasm. I didn't really think it was guilt, because perhaps 30 minutes later I had the same porn material out again, ready for a second round.

    I still don't know what it was, and I don't experience it any more. But my suspicion is still that it was some kind of hormonal or other chemical reaction, caused by the orgasm.
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    Jun 26, 2013 11:55 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    PursueLoveDream saidI think sex is nasty after I cum?

    Not sure how you mean nasty. But up until my 20s when I had an orgasm it was often like a switch had been thrown inside me. The porn material I had been lusting over moments ago suddenly became distasteful to me, and I'd quickly put it away. (At this time I was only masturbating, wasn't having sex with others yet)

    It was such a dramatic change, from one instant to the next, that I thought it was hormonal in some way, connected to the orgasm. I didn't really think it was guilt, because perhaps 30 minutes later I had the same porn material out again, ready for a second round.

    I still don't know what it was, and I don't experience it any more. But my suspicion is still that it was some kind of hormonal or other chemical reaction, caused by the orgasm.

    I KNOW! I had the same experience. Why didn't somebody tell that poor boy what was going on?
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    Jun 27, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    when i was younger i'd feel the same, every time after cumming i'd feel gross even looking at my partner's ass. it wasn't shame or guilt, i think at this very moment i felt like a straight men would've felt while having sex with other guy. i guess it is ok to feel it within first minute after cumming, to me it actually means that your homosexuality is gained and your psych is still reacts to it how it was meant to be in harmony, i mean after your body got the needed release. i'm sure, because most gays who are 'genetic' homosexuals don't feel anything like that. curious, huh? i have heard somewhere that straight guys feel indifferent towards the woman they just fucked. it's like cumming after serious blueball: now you just wanna sleep... and i wish she would just go home. lol
  • Hothouse

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    Jun 28, 2013 2:04 PM GMT
    I think it's a pretty common response for men, gay and straight, to see a dramatic drop in sexual desire after orgasm.
    I'm sure we've all experienced it ourselves and have experienced it with partners. They reach orgasm and the play is over. They're done. How many times have you, or someone you're with, thought or said all the stuff you want to do - then you cum, or he does, and there's no more interest in doing those things.

    One example I know is guys who want to try tasting their cum, they think about doing it, and even plan on doing it, but once they shoot - they don't follow through because the desire disappears.

    What I'm not quite sure of is the OP's description of "thinking sex is nasty" after he cums.
    What exactly does that mean?
    Feelings of guilt? Feeling dirty or embarassed? Regret?
    This could change over time, as he matures and becomes more comfortable with his sexual desires, or me may need to do some soul searching to determine if there's a deeper problem he needs to address.
    It's perfectly normal to quickly loose sexual desire, but no one should feel "nasty" or have negative personal feelings of any kind after sex, unless you're engaging in unsafe practices or making another person do something against their will.
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    Jun 28, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    PursueLoveDream saidI think sex is nasty after I cum?

    Not sure how you mean nasty. But up until my 20s when I had an orgasm it was often like a switch had been thrown inside me. The porn material I had been lusting over moments ago suddenly became distasteful to me, and I'd quickly put it away. (At this time I was only masturbating, wasn't having sex with others yet)

    It was such a dramatic change, from one instant to the next, that I thought it was hormonal in some way, connected to the orgasm. I didn't really think it was guilt, because perhaps 30 minutes later I had the same porn material out again, ready for a second round.

    I still don't know what it was, and I don't experience it any more. But my suspicion is still that it was some kind of hormonal or other chemical reaction, caused by the orgasm.


    OMG u deserve an award for saying that lol, I have actually done "it" but I agree and still feel the same way myself
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    Jul 13, 2013 10:35 AM GMT
    Rene_Aensland saidI've noticed a dick in the ass feels so fucking good after I cum. But that's just me. lol




    icon_biggrin.gifHell it feels great after I cum, just like Rene _Aensland said, a dick in the ass after i cum feels good, icon_surprised.gif, I go borh waysicon_cool.gif