Jun 26, 2013 6:50 PM GMT
So I have heard this in the past, and have heard it again recently from a new group of a friends/co-workers. I've been told I am "too available" when dating, and that I need to play the dating game better. Thing is, I fucking hate games, and don't understand this advice at all; if it can even be considered that?
This all comes from dating a guy recently, who has cancelled on me twice in our 2 months of dating due to being sick with respiratory issues. Most recently he bailed on plans we had for today due to moving to a new place, among other reasons. Whenever it has happened, I say ok no problem, shoot me a text when you're free and we can figure out another day. I've been told I'm being too available and that I need to wait for him to
make the next move and ask me out.
Problem is, I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, said guy and I have been out 8-9 times and I actually like him so the idea of being passive-aggressive and hostile to an extent just isn't something Im familiar with.
tl;dr: Is being too available a real thing?
This all comes from dating a guy recently, who has cancelled on me twice in our 2 months of dating due to being sick with respiratory issues. Most recently he bailed on plans we had for today due to moving to a new place, among other reasons. Whenever it has happened, I say ok no problem, shoot me a text when you're free and we can figure out another day. I've been told I'm being too available and that I need to wait for him to
make the next move and ask me out.
Problem is, I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, said guy and I have been out 8-9 times and I actually like him so the idea of being passive-aggressive and hostile to an extent just isn't something Im familiar with.
tl;dr: Is being too available a real thing?
