Guy i met on okcupid turned out to be underage..thoughts?

  • LoveAndPeace

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    Jun 27, 2013 3:30 PM GMT
    So i was on okcupid browsing my locals and i said hi to this guy and kinda hit it off.Started talking to him more and more for a couple of days and found out he was actually 16...(his profile said 1icon_cool.gif.I was taken back because whenever i message a guy on okcupid or jackd or even omegle I always get hit on by underage guys.I think he is cute but i'm not gonna go through getting arrested for a guy.Anyone been through the same predicament?
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    Jun 27, 2013 3:32 PM GMT
    It shouldn't be a predicament.

    Don't do it. If you want to chat, do so only as a helpful "big brother." Don't go anywhere else.
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    Jun 27, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    had a friend go through it... he ended up getting invited to the 16 year old's prom. I was just like "dude, you need to stop talking to this kid."
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    Jun 27, 2013 3:37 PM GMT
    What's the legal age and when is his birthday?
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:01 PM GMT
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  • LoveAndPeace

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    Jun 27, 2013 4:07 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidWhat's the legal age and when is his birthday?
    The legal age is 18 and his birthday is January 5th a day after mine
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    phenom40205 saidhad a friend go through it... he ended up getting invited to the 16 year old's prom. I was just like "dude, you need to stop talking to this kid."
    That must be horrible :O are they still together?
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    showme saidIt shouldn't be a predicament.

    Don't do it. If you want to chat, do so only as a helpful "big brother." Don't go anywhere else.

    Honestly I don't even chat with someone who is or might be underage. Cops use online sting operations, pretending to be underage kids. Depending on your jurisdiction even merely discussing sexual matters with a minor could be a crime, since most men are not gonna be trained counselors operating in a controlled clinical environment with parental/guardian consent.
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:11 PM GMT
    Duh
  • LJay

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    Jun 27, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    Cut it off but not before you explain to the kid that he is putting himself at risk of a lot of hassle and the older guys at risk because their lives could be ruined.
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    LoveAndPeace said
    phenom40205 saidhad a friend go through it... he ended up getting invited to the 16 year old's prom. I was just like "dude, you need to stop talking to this kid."
    That must be horrible :O are they still together?



    nope, thankfully
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Jun 27, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    phenom40205 said
    LoveAndPeace said
    phenom40205 saidhad a friend go through it... he ended up getting invited to the 16 year old's prom. I was just like "dude, you need to stop talking to this kid."
    That must be horrible :O are they still together?



    nope, thankfully
    Thats good icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 27, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
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    Jun 27, 2013 6:12 PM GMT
    I think the age of consent in Washington, DC is 16, though.
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    Jun 27, 2013 6:19 PM GMT
    Stan24 saidI think the age of consent in Washington, DC is 16, though.


    Depends if you're a congressman or not.
  • PharmKY

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    Jun 27, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    I don't know, I mean was in a situation like that a few years back... I couldn't do it haha. I mean if legally you are okay and there is a connection then go for it. But otherwise, I'd run far away.
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    Jun 27, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
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    Jun 27, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
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    Jun 27, 2013 7:17 PM GMT
    The age of consent for anal sex is 18 in Canada. Might be the same for US
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    Jun 27, 2013 7:21 PM GMT
    Wow he needs to learn how to lie if he wants to have a good time in life.

    When I was 16 I was always 18 when it comes to the gays.

    Hhahaha hahah haha ahaha haha ahaaahhahaha ahaaha
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    Jun 27, 2013 7:24 PM GMT
    Shawnathan said
    stevee90 saidThe age of consent for anal sex is 18 in Canada. Might be the same for US

    Hmm, I've never heard that before.

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    Jun 27, 2013 7:28 PM GMT
    You should always question a guy's age if he looks really young and claims to be 18 or 19 on his profile.
  • fitartistsf

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    Jun 27, 2013 7:28 PM GMT
    I don't know, I don't agree with society saying 16 is too young. The only reason it appears to be young now, is because we are living longer. In centuries past, people were married at 14, 15, or 16.
    Add to the fact that there are quite a few males and females who are physically and emotionally mature, even at 15 or 16. I know I was very emotionally mature at 15. I knew who I was, and I knew what I wanted.
    I was contacted a couple of years ago by a just turned 16-year-old in Florida, who told me after getting to know me, I was his first crush. He was so hurt that I lived so far away. And I was disappointed, he was a very cute Latino, a high school wrestler, and was very physically mature for his age... We chatted online, texted, etc., for almost 2 years before he went off to college. We both discovered we had a lot in common, even with the age gap.
    Even now, at the gym here locally where I live, I see 15, 16, 17, 18 year-olds who are very physically fit, compared to when I was the same age. And I know I've been given quite a few looks of interest....
  • wellwell

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    Jun 27, 2013 7:43 PM GMT
    Happened 2 me 3 times here on RJ; I've reported them each time & RJ always removed the accounts.
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    Jun 27, 2013 7:46 PM GMT
    xrichx saidYou should always question a guy's age if he looks really young and claims to be 18 or 19 on his profile.


    and have a written evidence of it, if you get in legal trouble.