Are Fleshlights worth it?

  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 28, 2013 9:26 AM GMT
    I think I jack off way too vigorously and that might partially be the reason why I can't cum sometimes when I'm banging a guy. I'm too desensitized.

    I figured that a Flashlight might resemble a man's ass a little more in the sense that it will mimic the feel and pressure.

    How is your Fleshlight experience and do you think it will solve my occasional problem?
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 28, 2013 9:27 AM GMT
    THIS IS THE WRONG FORUM! icon_eek.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 28, 2013 9:28 AM GMT
    Dude I definitely clicked adult
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    Jun 28, 2013 9:31 AM GMT
    I enjoy mine, but I don't use it every day.

    I do think it would be worth it.
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    Jun 28, 2013 10:50 AM GMT
    I am always wanted to try them out, never had the courage to though.
  • Marko89

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    Jun 28, 2013 10:53 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidI think I jack off way too vigorously and that might partially be the reason why I can't cum sometimes when I'm banging a guy. I'm too desensitized.

    I figured that a Flashlight might resemble a man's ass a little more in the sense that it will mimic the feel and pressure.

    How is your Fleshlight experience and do you think it will solve my occasional problem?


    Actually I've had that problem in the past, getting hard is no problem, but cumming can be a fucker at times. I bought a fleshlight about 4 months ago, I prefer the feeling of it to my hand, also I haven't had the no cumming problem ever since.
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    Jun 28, 2013 11:09 AM GMT
    Admin will move forums. Don't know why.
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    Jun 28, 2013 11:18 AM GMT
    I don't know if it will solve your problem, but you will enjoy it. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2013 12:41 PM GMT
    I stopped enjoying mine at some point, I cum much better with very little to no head stimulation and just shaft.
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    Jun 29, 2013 2:41 AM GMT
    Best purchase I ever made. Fleshjack is what you probably want. I heard that the Fleshlights are priced higher. Same company though. Ice is my favorite. Wonder Wave is #2. Speed Bump overdoes it. Lube can be an issue; they seem to use it up a lot, so to speak. I make my own.
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    Jun 29, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    I think it was $70 bucks?, the end cap you can keep loose, no suction or tighten fully creating full suction, but you want to keep the end cap on cause you will shoot through the end and create a mess icon_lol.gif, for longer life and better movement, use water based lube as the silicon reacts and can degrade the "flesh" part, worth the investment, always wash after each use.

    heres a trick, put your fleshlight, tightly capped end, between your bed box spring and mattress with the hole exposed, slip your cock in and go, its better than holding the dam thing, instead, hold onto your mattress and visualize, icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 29, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    I can't emphasize enough how incredible the sensation is with the fleshjack ice jack. Regardless of whether or not it will help you I think it's absolutely worth getting; everyone should experience it.

    That aside, here are some thoughts of mine regarding your problem.

    Age I don't think is your problem, but as we get older I think we can't squirt as often as we could when we were younger. Nevertheless, if you know you have a date or will be going out that evening, don't spank the monkey that morning. Give yourself at least 24 hours for the system to recharge.

    The other thing that I have to be careful about is having my bladder empty. If I have to take even a small piss it can make it less likely that I'll be able to squirt. So before you hop into bed, treat yourself like your parents did when you were a little kid about to go on a long drive and force yourself to try and take a piss.

  • Apparition

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    Jun 29, 2013 3:00 PM GMT
    Learn not to masturbate using the "deathgrip" try using fingertips only until you can. Have someone else do it for you if need be. Alternate hands. Untrain yourself.

    Try trojan bareskin condoms that helped too when banging.

    Try masturbating with condoms on, if you deathgrip they fall off so you are forced to try other techniques.