Not that interested in sex...

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    Jun 29, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    I am definitely very emotionally attracted to guys. I also masturbate to guys daily. When it comes to actually having sex, I find myself bored and uninterested. This can't be normal! Most of the time, I'd rather just jerk off by myself than have sex. Should I be seeing a doctor about this problem?
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 29, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    Maybe you're submissive and you need a man who can toss you around, throw you into any position and tear that ass up.
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    Jun 30, 2013 2:52 AM GMT
    I don't know if you should see a doctor but you said that you are emotionally attracted to guys. Perhaps you haven't found that one guy whom you are emotionally attracted to; therefore, you can't enjoy the sex. Maybe once you find that one guy whom you care deeply for, then you'll be banging him all the time.
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    Jun 30, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidI don't know if you should see a doctor but you said that you are emotionally attracted to guys. Perhaps you haven't found that one guy whom you are emotionally attracted to; therefore, you can't enjoy the sex. Maybe once you find that one guy whom you care deeply for, then you'll be banging him all the time.

    Bingo!
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    Jun 30, 2013 3:43 AM GMT
    Broseph said
    mikkeb saidI am definitely very emotionally attracted to guys. I also masturbate to guys daily. When it comes to actually having sex, I find myself bored and uninterested. This can't be normal! Most of the time, I'd rather just jerk off by myself than have sex. Should I be seeing a doctor about this problem?


    Are you bored/uninterested during the sex? How many people has this happened with?



    Yes. I've only done it a handful of times, but the most recent time I became bored about halfway thru and wanted to stop (though I kept going). Maybe I do need to be emotionally invested in someone for it to be worthwhile. It just seems odd how most gay guys seem to be crazy about sex and me it's just bleh. I've read that lack of testosterone may be a factor, but who knows.
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    Jun 30, 2013 10:18 AM GMT
    mikkeb said
    Broseph said
    mikkeb saidI am definitely very emotionally attracted to guys. I also masturbate to guys daily. When it comes to actually having sex, I find myself bored and uninterested. This can't be normal! Most of the time, I'd rather just jerk off by myself than have sex. Should I be seeing a doctor about this problem?


    Are you bored/uninterested during the sex? How many people has this happened with?



    Yes. I've only done it a handful of times, but the most recent time I became bored about halfway thru and wanted to stop (though I kept going). Maybe I do need to be emotionally invested in someone for it to be worthwhile. It just seems odd how most gay guys seem to be crazy about sex and me it's just bleh. I've read that lack of testosterone may be a factor, but who knows.


    No, it's not low testosterone. You said you jack off daily and guys with low T have a hard time maintaining their erection. They also have other symptoms such as weight gain and hair loss. It's all in your head, dude!