Jun 29, 2013 11:23 PM GMT
Thanks for reading - I would appreciate any positive detailed information, so that I can better be in a position to provide the best level of sexual pleasure to my boyfriend.
I am 30 years plus - recently discovered I am bi/gay (about 8 weeks ago).
I now have a wonderful boyfriend who I want to pleasure sexually. In terms of background, my boyfriend's previous 'interaction' was clearly something significant in his life. I noted correspondence between them, whereby, my boyfriends referred to him as a 'high calibre' - a level of sexual pleasure like no other. Obviously, my boyfriend doesn't want me to worry about the above, however, as an individual with next to no experience with a man, I do want to take a proactive approach in this, so to ensure I can pleasure him at a whole new level - hopefully, something more significant than Mr High Calibre.
So here goes, I am aware he likes when:
- I kiss his neck and ears whilst inside of him.
- I grind him.
- I moan
- when we hold hands whilst intimate
- when I shoot hard inside (he says he can feel I shoot hard -???)
Anyway, I hope that the above information isn't inappropriate, or offensive for some. I would really just like to enhance our experience (for him), so if you can provide a detailed list, steps 1 to 10 (lol.. anything).. some form of something, so I can be at my best.
Oh.. for your information, I am totally happy with him, and sexually also. However, just need some insight... We also have been tested - we have unprotected sex. .... Ooops... also just to mention, I get extremely wet, so we haven't actually used lube to date. However, I plan to from here on in... I believe it would be more comfy for him.
Lastly, whilst you've probably already identified, he is the bottom in the relationship. I am also curious what the roles of a TOP as opposed to a bottom are.. should I ask him to try to be a TOP? would that provide him more pleasure?
Thanks in advance