Are Men Weak?

  • Joeyphx444

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    Jun 30, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    I was thinking about this when reading the "gay men are all about sex thread" lol

    Are men just weak beings who have little or no control over their sexual desires?

    If you met a guy and you were both attracted to each other and you were hanging out, how easy would it be to seduce him? I mean, he may say he doesn't hookup, etc but in the moment he gets excited and you end up doing stuff. I know this doesn't go for every single man out there but it seems to be pretty sweeping.

    When would a guy say no to you feeling him up or stroking him LOL Think about it? Would you really stop it completely? (Attraction is not a factor for this example)
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    Jun 30, 2013 12:28 AM GMT
    Yes please allow me to give you the list of attributes that unilaterally apply to every single male of the species.
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    Jun 30, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    I want to feel up the OP.
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    Jun 30, 2013 12:32 AM GMT

    "When would a guy say no to you feeling him up or stroking him LOL Think about it? Would you really stop it completely? (Attraction is not a factor for this example)"

    Are you asking us if we would stop coming on physically to someone saying stop if we WEREN'T attracted to them?

    If I wasn't attracted to someone, why would I come on to them?

    -confuzzled

    ...or do you mean would I really want someone who was feeling ME up etc to stop if I wasn't attracted to them?

    If I wasn't attracted and said no and they kept trying....well that's nothing a bucket of cold water can't fix. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 30, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI want to feel up the OP.


    +1
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    Jun 30, 2013 1:28 AM GMT
    It depends on the person, how attracted they are to you and their convictions.

    In other words, if a guy is really attracted to you and you start putting on the moves, the temptation to keep it going will be high.

    To be fair though, it's not really limited to sex. Take a guy with a sweet tooth, whip out a thick, rich slice of chocolate cheesecake topped with whipped cream and drizzled with chocolate sauce and say "want a bite?" What do you think's going to happen? icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 30, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    Joeyphx444 said

    Are men just weak beings who have little or no control over their sexual desires?



    My answer is no. Because it takes a lot of energy to travel across town for a hookup.
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    Jun 30, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    Joeyphx444 said

    Are men just weak beings who have little or no control over their sexual desires?



    My answer is no. Because it takes a lot of energy to travel across town for a hookup.


    Yes but that energy is being supplied entirely from the blood engorged inside the penis.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jun 30, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    "When would a guy say no to you feeling him up or stroking him LOL Think about it? Would you really stop it completely? (Attraction is not a factor for this example)"

    Are you asking us if we would stop coming on physically to someone saying stop if we WEREN'T attracted to them?

    If I wasn't attracted to someone, why would I come on to them?

    -confuzzled

    ...or do you mean would I really want someone who was feeling ME up etc to stop if I wasn't attracted to them?

    If I wasn't attracted and said no and they kept trying....well that's nothing a bucket of cold water can't fix. icon_lol.gif


    I meant attraction is not a factor in that, there's not question of attraction between the 2 guys

    Obviously if a guy was not attracted to a guy coming on to him, he would stop him. But why allow it for a guy he is attracted to? Just cuz he attracted to him? What about his standards or morals they he claims to have, etc

    Like, no, I find you attractive but I don't wanna go there with you right now
  • omgazn

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    Jun 30, 2013 3:46 AM GMT
    Its all depends on your mentality.

    When I was in the military I didn't really had time to think about sex. I would go a year or so before going home and hooking with a regular friend with benefit.
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    Jun 30, 2013 4:08 AM GMT


    "But why allow it for a guy he is attracted to? Just cuz he attracted to him? What about his standards or morals they he claims to have, etc

    Like, no, I find you attractive but I don't wanna go there with you right now."

    ..which is completely fine; you don't want to go there yet.

    As for morals et al, sometimes it's a third rate romance, but sometimes, sometimes, there's a whole lot more.

    Here, for a lol:

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    Jun 30, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    IrishDarren said
    paulflexes saidI want to feel up the OP.


    +1


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  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 30, 2013 5:59 AM GMT
    Matiz saidYes please allow me to give you the list of attributes that unilaterally apply to every single male of the species.


    This ^ ^ ^
  • Beeftastic

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    Jun 30, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    I think the question should be are men weak because they have a high sex drive and are successful in fulfilling that frequently in their lives?

    I say the answer is no, as it's part of nature, and a sign of a successful male of any species icon_smile.gif
  • selim

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    Jun 30, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    dc0776 said Take a guy with a sweet tooth, whip out a thick, rich slice of chocolate cheesecake topped with whipped cream and drizzled with chocolate sauce and say "want a bite?" What do you think's going to happen?

    Diabetes?


    lolllllicon_lol.gif



    back to the thread about easy sex with other guys, i prefer a monogamous relationship, even though i´m single i´m not going to have sex with any guys no matter how sexy and handsome they are, i never think it to be nasty or what, but i prefer not to, it´s all up to our values.

    All of us have to be responsible for what we choose to do,
    that´s it. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 30, 2013 6:59 AM GMT
    The amount of offers I get from men I just met or dont know for random hook ups + everytime a gay friend hits on me = YES
    In my limited experience most men have no morals, control, and in a lot of circumstances any credible analytical skills when it comes to self perception.
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    Jun 30, 2013 7:24 AM GMT
    The more pressing question is, are men wok?

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    Jun 30, 2013 8:06 AM GMT
    I think men, gay men in particular, have more opportunities for sex and therefore have more sex. I don't think this makes them weaker. I think if women or even straight men had as much of an opportunity for sex then I think they would take advantage of that.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jun 30, 2013 8:23 AM GMT
    Maybe if I werent so irresitable icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 30, 2013 8:57 AM GMT
    Self-control is a virtue of maturity.
    Are we "weak"? Depends on the definition/usage, i.e. lacking (emotional) self-control? Tendency to 'operate' in the immediate, superficial, if-it-feels-good-do-it mentality?