The guys who just confuse you

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    Jun 30, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    I'm really confused atm. Ill start from the beginning and keep it short. Iv recently decided its time to come out as bi so i strategically told a friend of mine who has a big mouth knowing he would tell every1, luckily for me he did and it saved me the hassle. People really didnt seem to care that much or be suprised because im masculine but do give off some gay vibes.

    so anyway, after a certain friend of mine learned this information, we got drunk together 2 weekends ago and he was all over me. Like im not even joking he didnt stop touching me, its not like i didnt like it but i was taken by suprise so i didnt reciprocate. Fyi he is *straight*. That happened and i let it go and didnt think twice about it.

    This last weekend we got drunk again and abit rowdy. We got louder and eventually ended up full on arguing, This guy then started to call me a homosexual nonstop and saying things like come suck my dick you faggot bla bla bla your so gay your a homosexual. Like he would not let it go. Apparently i hit him in the face a few times (i was drunk too people around us told me this). The next day we spoke and he apologized saying he didnt mean any of it.

    now LAST night. we were on ecstacy at a house party and there was this openly gay white pretty boy there who i began to flirt with because he wouldnt stop giving me the (i wanna fuck you so hard eyes) Then my other friend started to get wierd interrupting us then when no1 was looking he would say to me *come over here and suck my dick right now* i would just laugh and pretend i didnt hear him. Then he even started trying to talk to this white boy so i wouldnt.

    FYI he has a gf who pretty much lives with him

    What is going on? so confused
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    Jun 30, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    What's going on is, y'all need to somehow manage to be in the same space w/o chemicals so you can ask him to his face "WTF!"
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    Jun 30, 2013 2:18 PM GMT
    That would be so akward tho..
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    Jun 30, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    IDK
    I have been cock blocked by straight buds before; however, NONE of my *straight* friends has ever (not even drunk off their asses) told me to suck their dick, even though I was drunk enough to ask.

    Sound's pretty classic closet case to me.
    Add in the name calling and I don't give a shit how hot he is; I'm out.
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:11 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidIDK
    I have been cock blocked by straight buds before; however, NONE of my *straight* friends has ever (not even drunk off their asses) told me to suck their dick, even though I was drunk enough to ask.

    Sound's pretty classic closet case to me.
    Add in the name calling and I don't give a shit how hot he is; I'm out.


    Yeah i was on my way to deducing hes another closet case too but i just want to be 100% sure before i confront him about it.
    How would i even do that ?
    I mean im very close to his girlfriend too lol.....

    Also a part i missed out, on the night of the last party he even told me *I wish you would tell me the truth* no idea what he meant but i think its cuz i havent come out to him yet.

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    Jun 30, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    Judo said
    dustin_K_tx saidIDK
    I have been cock blocked by straight buds before; however, NONE of my *straight* friends has ever (not even drunk off their asses) told me to suck their dick, even though I was drunk enough to ask.

    Sound's pretty classic closet case to me.
    Add in the name calling and I don't give a shit how hot he is; I'm out.


    Yeah i was on my way to deducing hes another closet case too but i just want to be 100% sure before i confront him about it.
    How would i even do that ?
    I mean im very close to his girlfriend too lol.....

    Also a part i missed out, on the night of the last party he even told me *I wish you would tell me the truth* no idea what he meant but i think its cuz i havent come out to him yet.



    there's so much freedom over here.
    ...the grass is DEFINITELY greener, bro.
    join me and the others.
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:17 PM GMT
    Blame it on the alcohol (and the ecstasy)icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:26 PM GMT
    Maybe the X wasn't that good! icon_sad.gif

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    Jun 30, 2013 11:28 PM GMT
    I will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:39 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:50 PM GMT
    Judo saidThat would be so akward tho..


    don't you think it's already awkward?
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    Jun 30, 2013 11:51 PM GMT
    LOL this sitch sounds so high school.
    OK, here's what u need to do.

    Tell ur bestie that like....ur not gay anymore and u just said that to get attention....

    and then out of "straight" friend as the faggot...cuz he kept tryin touch u and be all flirty with you when u were just pretending to be gay.


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    Jun 30, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.

    Well, a gay man is 10 X more complicated than a straight woman. Or maybe I'm just 10 X more dramatic.
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    Jul 01, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    huhwhat said
    HottJoe said
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.

    Well, a gay man is 10 X more complicated than a straight woman. Or maybe I'm just 10 X more dramatic.


    lol it always seem like the straight woman is the gay man's arch nemesis. some of the men here seem just as if not more so complicated, or emotional than straight woman.


    on another note. To the OP, I suggest you don't bother with your friend cuz he's committed. Sadly if he's really on the DL or curious this is not gonna end good for anyone,

    on another hand he could just be fucking with you out of spite because you didn't tell him. hahas that's human nature for ya. you never know what you're gonna get
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    Jul 01, 2013 12:05 AM GMT
    tmac said
    huhwhat said
    HottJoe said
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.

    Well, a gay man is 10 X more complicated than a straight woman. Or maybe I'm just 10 X more dramatic.


    lol it always seem like the straight woman is the gay man's arch nemesis. some of the men here seem just as if not more so complicated, or emotional than straight woman.


    on another note. To the OP, I suggest you don't bother with your friend cuz he's committed. Sadly if he's really on the DL or curious this is not gonna end good for anyone,

    on another hand he could just be fucking with you out of spite because you didn't tell him. hahas that's human nature for ya. you never know what you're gonna get

    I was being glib.
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    Jul 01, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    tmac said
    huhwhat said
    HottJoe said
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.

    Well, a gay man is 10 X more complicated than a straight woman. Or maybe I'm just 10 X more dramatic.


    lol it always seem like the straight woman is the gay man's arch nemesis. some of the men here seem just as if not more so complicated, or emotional than straight woman.


    on another note. To the OP, I suggest you don't bother with your friend cuz he's committed. Sadly if he's really on the DL or curious this is not gonna end good for anyone,

    on another hand he could just be fucking with you out of spite because you didn't tell him. hahas that's human nature for ya. you never know what you're gonna get

    Preach!
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    Jul 01, 2013 12:24 AM GMT
    vitaliyvloan said
    Judo saidThat would be so akward tho..


    don't you think it's already awkward?


    No not really cuz now when we see each other sober its always the *oh i dont really remember last night so fuck it*

    When i truth i remember most of whats happened and so has he im sure.

    But were guys so its not really akward, until a confronation about it
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    Jul 01, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    huhwhat said
    tmac said
    huhwhat said
    HottJoe said
    huhwhat saidI will never understand all the oddities of men and their ways.

    At least we don't have to worry about the ways of women. In some ways, we have it much easier than our straight counterparts.

    Well, a gay man is 10 X more complicated than a straight woman. Or maybe I'm just 10 X more dramatic.


    lol it always seem like the straight woman is the gay man's arch nemesis. some of the men here seem just as if not more so complicated, or emotional than straight woman.


    on another note. To the OP, I suggest you don't bother with your friend cuz he's committed. Sadly if he's really on the DL or curious this is not gonna end good for anyone,

    on another hand he could just be fucking with you out of spite because you didn't tell him. hahas that's human nature for ya. you never know what you're gonna get

    Preach!


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