money for a straight fwb.

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    Jul 05, 2013 6:44 AM GMT
    So if you read my other discussion post you would know this but..... I have a straight friend and i like him a lot... nothing i would not do for him... only knew each other a few months.... he claims he is too straight to do anything with a guy for free.... but offered for me to be his sugga daddy lol ( only a 2 year difference )....

    I like him a lot and i would help him regardless as i had been doing that before.. but now is it wrong for me to help him out financially with the cost of us playing around with one another.... i dont want him to think thats the only thing i want, because i like the emotional part of our friendship....

    WHAT WOULD YOU BE FEELING IF YOU WHERE IN MY SHOES OR HIS SHOES......

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    (he is also looking for a girlfriend...ugh my feelings are wrapped around this guy)
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    Jul 05, 2013 6:49 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    but now is it wrong for me to help him out financially with the cost of us playing around with one another....


    Nah, people do it all the time with street walkers.
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    Jul 05, 2013 6:50 AM GMT
    I'll make some popcorn.
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    Jul 05, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    icon_eek.gif..... pop corn??
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    Jul 05, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    imthatguy saidicon_eek.gif..... pop corn??

    Yes. I have a feeling this thread is going to get good.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:05 AM GMT
    Two months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:05 AM GMT
    oh.. haha... i hope it does get good.....
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:05 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif

    Is that with or without fine dining and expensive watches?
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:08 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?


    How good looking is this guy? Is he Kellan Lutz fine?
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:12 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:13 AM GMT
    he looks like he would have been a backstreet boy ... but he is like 6"2, 130lbs, loose curly brown/blond hair.... blue eyes
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...




    I DONT WANT IT TO BE A LIMIT... I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING... BUT..... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED ME TO HELP HIM FIND A GIRLFRIEND.... WAS LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE...
    I just ..... look this guy is straight and i am already emotionally crazy for him , i just don't want to become financially unstable trying to buy a straight guy over.... just a bit confused ......
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:30 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...




    I DONT WANT IT TO BE A LIMIT... I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING... BUT..... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED ME TO HELP HIM FIND A GIRLFRIEND.... WAS LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE...
    I just ..... look this guy is straight and i am already emotionally crazy for him , i just don't want to become financially unstable trying to buy a straight guy over.... just a bit confused ......

    Admitting there's a problem is the first step. You're on your way to healing, my friend.


    ...Unless...you're truly set on buying him and no amount of therapy will cure you (idk why: you can pick up boys for much cheaper on the street, but I digress...). In that case, estimate your absolute limit, the amount that if you gave it to this fantasy guy of yours, it would push you into poverty. Then double that amount.

    Follow that formula and the two of you will have years of bliss together. Or you'll be broke but having regular sex with a "straight" guy. Either way, I think your secret lover will be happy and he'll be able to buy nice things for his girlfriend, and that should make you happy. Right?
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:32 AM GMT
    EuphoricDanger said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?


    How good looking is this guy? Is he Kellan Lutz fine?


    looks almost just like this guy... like .... really similar... same face ... eye brows... kinda the same hair but my firends is more curly when its not done fresh... nose is a little different ... but thats his look alike.... same lips=).. pink lol i like.....
    tumblr_lb58umhj841qe4nyno1_500.jpg
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:37 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    EuphoricDanger said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?


    How good looking is this guy? Is he Kellan Lutz fine?


    looks almost just like this guy... like .... really similar... same face ... eye brows... kinda the same hair but my firends is more curly when its not done fresh... nose is a little different ... but thats his look alike.... same lips=).. pink lol i like.....
    tumblr_lb58umhj841qe4nyno1_500.jpg

    Young twinks are a dime a dozen. Don't break the bank over this one.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...




    I DONT WANT IT TO BE A LIMIT... I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING... BUT..... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED ME TO HELP HIM FIND A GIRLFRIEND.... WAS LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE...
    I just ..... look this guy is straight and i am already emotionally crazy for him , i just don't want to become financially unstable trying to buy a straight guy over.... just a bit confused ......

    Admitting there's a problem is the first step. You're on your way to healing, my friend.


    ...Unless...you're truly set on buying him and no amount of therapy will cure you (idk why: you can pick up boys for much cheaper on the street, but I digress...). In that case, estimate your absolute limit, the amount that if you gave it to this fantasy guy of yours, it would push you into poverty. Then double that amount.

    Follow that formula and the two of you will have years of bliss together. Or you'll be broke but having regular sex with a "straight" guy. Either way, I think your secret lover will be happy and he'll be able to buy nice things for his girlfriend, and that should make you happy. Right?






    ugh i would honestly be pissed if he would take the money to spend on his girl.... like i want to help him out... money for HIM ...... icon_evil.gif
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:43 AM GMT
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    EuphoricDanger said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?


    How good looking is this guy? Is he Kellan Lutz fine?


    looks almost just like this guy... like .... really similar... same face ... eye brows... kinda the same hair but my firends is more curly when its not done fresh... nose is a little different ... but thats his look alike.... same lips=).. pink lol i like.....
    tumblr_lb58umhj841qe4nyno1_500.jpg

    Young twinks are a dime a dozen. Don't break the bank over this one.


    aww mann yes i have noticed twinks everywhere...... i kinda crushed on him then we became friends ... and i learned him... i just have a lot of feelings for him... like i cant go a day without texting him ... every morning evening and night..... he is cool with it ..... and i have told him this plenty of times before... then like the other night we where talking and he was like " wow youre sweet buddy"..... and of course... it blew my mind lmao.....
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 05, 2013 8:01 AM GMT
    OK this just got creepy. He's younger than you, and he's straight. He sounds like a confused fuck up, and you're grooming him to be your prostitute. You need to stop. Find a gay guy. Don't ruin some kid's life.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:13 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidOK this just got creepy. He's younger than you, and he's straight. He sounds like a confused fuck up, and you're grooming him to be your prostitute. You need to stop. Find a gay guy. Don't ruin some kid's life.


    see thats the thing.... he said he had done it before but would do it again only with someone he trust.....
    i am 22 and he is 20.... both adults
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:14 AM GMT
    This is a bad idea for you, too. You'll end up having horrible sex and losing the friendship. It will fuck him up. Then you'll blame yourself. It will crush your self esteem. If you honestly have feelings for him, you don't want to turn him into your prostitute. You can't buy love.

    You're a good looking guy. Find someone who sees that in you.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:19 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...




    I DONT WANT IT TO BE A LIMIT... I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING... BUT..... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED ME TO HELP HIM FIND A GIRLFRIEND.... WAS LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE...
    I just ..... look this guy is straight and i am already emotionally crazy for him , i just don't want to become financially unstable trying to buy a straight guy over.... just a bit confused ......


    Baby how are you willing to do anything for a man you've known less than a year?
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:20 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidThis is a bad idea for you, too. You'll end up having horrible sex and losing the friendship. It will fuck him up. Then you'll blame yourself. It will crush your self esteem. If you honestly have feelings for him, you don't want to turn him into your prostitute. You can't buy love.

    You're a good looking guy. Find someone who sees that in you.


    I think you may be right, and no i don't want him as a prostitute ..... but if not me ... he would just go find trouble with someone else..... i have never been in a situation like this before. and i know you cant buy love... but can money buy attention.....i give way more than i ask back just because i want him to see that someone cares, and he doesn't have to turn to anyone else...
    and wow thanks i don't get that often so i appreciate the compliment.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:22 AM GMT
    EuphoricDanger said
    imthatguy said
    The_Guruburu said
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidTwo months salary should be enough to show you really care.icon_smile.gif






    that would be .... smh.... nooo lol he is definitely worth it .... but ...what should be a limit to pay ....?

    You're trying to put a limit on your love before you've even propositioned made your first moves on him? This straight guy romance is already doomed...




    I DONT WANT IT TO BE A LIMIT... I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING... BUT..... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED ME TO HELP HIM FIND A GIRLFRIEND.... WAS LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE...
    I just ..... look this guy is straight and i am already emotionally crazy for him , i just don't want to become financially unstable trying to buy a straight guy over.... just a bit confused ......


    Baby how are you willing to do anything for a man you've known less than a year?




    he is a really good person and we shared some deep experiences with one another .... feels like i have known him longer than a few months.... i am a provider, and he ... well he needs a good support system and a good friend... so its a good fit i guess....
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:22 AM GMT
    imthatguy said
    HottJoe saidOK this just got creepy. He's younger than you, and he's straight. He sounds like a confused fuck up, and you're grooming him to be your prostitute. You need to stop. Find a gay guy. Don't ruin some kid's life.


    see thats the thing.... he said he had done it before but would do it again only with someone he trust.....
    i am 22 and he is 20.... both adults

    20 is legally an adult, but he's obviously immature if he's looking for a girlfriend and gay for pay in the meantime. Even if he's ok with it, you're not. You already said you'd be jealous if he spends the money on a girl. But once you pay him it's not your money. He'll never be your guy. He doesn't even sound like a good friend. Imo.

    You need to find a gay guy!!!!