Stealing glances at guys at the Gym?

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    Jul 05, 2013 7:08 PM GMT
    I have noticed that I can't help but stare at all the fit cute guys at my gym.

    I often say if they catch me that I was looking for new workouts and studying their techniques for ideas and improvements of my own workout Schedule.

    Today I saw this guy I usually don't fancy at the Gym and he was looking guuuuuud.

    He walked right up to me and said "Is there something on my face?"

    I just went red and said I thought his crunch method looked worth adopting, but he seemed unconvinced.

    I am mortified now, but I enjoy looking at the hot boys in their tight shorts lifting and squeezing metal, I can't help it.

    Any of you guys find yourselves staring at other men unintentionally while working out?
  • killercliche

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    Jul 05, 2013 7:11 PM GMT
    IrishDarren saidI have noticed that I can't help but stare at all the fit cute guys at my gym.

    I often say if they catch me that I was looking for new workouts and studying their techniques for ideas and improvements of my own workout Schedule.

    Today I saw this guy I usually don't fancy at the Gym and he was looking guuuuuud.

    He walked right up to me and said "Is their something on my face?"

    I just went red and said I thought his crunch method looked worth adopting, but he seemed unconvinced.

    I am mortified now, but I enjoy looking at the hot boys in their tight shorts lifting and squeezing metal, I can't help it.

    Any of you guys find yourselves staring at other men unintentionally while working out?


    You really get caught/called out that often? People spend all their rest time between reps ogling each other at my gym, but no one calls each other out; it is just kind of an accepted gym social norm I thought.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:13 PM GMT
    Hell yeah. I stare all the time. Im old, I can get away with it... LOL.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:23 PM GMT
    I think that's why I love the Gym the most, it's better than porn and satisfies my sexual frustration without the need to masturbate afterwards.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
    There should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    IrishDarren saidI think that's why I love the Gym the most, it's better than porn and satisfies my sexual frustration without the need to masturbate afterwards.

    It's ok to jack off. Trust me, you won't go blind.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:52 PM GMT
    I know I have the same problem because just about every guy at my gym is a bodybuilder or fitness model. You've just got to be discreet with your looking and remember that (for the most part) they're at the gym to work out not to be ogled. I mean some guys obviously enjoy the attention but doesn't mean you should be drooling.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:52 PM GMT
    You cruise, you lose.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.


    i hope nobody ever looks at you, but I bet that would pretty much defeat the very purpose, amirite? actually, i wish there were separate gyms for antisocial people.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:54 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.
    Your just a douche! And u look like a bigger douche in your pink undies! Moron
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:54 PM GMT
    I go to the gym to get my beast on. Always appreciate a good looking dude but I need to stay focused on what needs to be done at the "gym"



    but it is distracting ha
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jul 05, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    how about you try not to stare too long. it really makes you look creepy
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:56 PM GMT
    I somehow don't do it and try to just finish my workout.
    I do chit chat but keep it to minimal as I have limited time for working out and afterwards I need to shower, cook, eat and sleep early so that I can work tomorrow.
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    Jul 05, 2013 7:57 PM GMT
    carabin said
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.


    i hope nobody ever looks at you, but I bet that would pretty much defeat the very purpose, amirite? actually, i wish there were separate gyms for antisocial people.


    The OP isn't talking about "looking" at people. He's talking about eyeballing people to the point they walk up to him and have to tell him to fuck off. You can defend that all you want but THAT is antisocial behaviour because it makes normal people uncomfortable.

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    Jul 05, 2013 7:59 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidYou can defend that all you want but THAT is antisocial behaviour because it makes normal people heterosexuals uncomfortable.

    Fixed.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    @Uoft23 You're a Moron
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.


    YES! THIS! #YCYL
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
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    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.
    Your just a douche! And u look like a bigger douche in your pink undies! Moron


    That was your first post? That escalated quickly...

    On topic: maybe say you wondered where they got their tshirt. But do people really notice that sort of thing?
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    You can look but don't stare.

    Also you'll notice the guys in great shape don't spend their time staring at others or chatting, for that matter. They get in, workout, get out.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    I hate when guys stare. Just work out and mind your own business.Tthat's all they do and two months later they haven't changed/improved one bit.
  • Timbales

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    Jul 05, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    there's a fine line between a gaze of interest and admiration and the piercing stare of a psychopath
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    Timbales saidthere's a fine line between a gaze of interest and admiration and the piercing stare of a psychopath


    I think it's something to do with the mouth. Best to avoid hungry grins or licking lips.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
    Lumpynose said
    uoft23 saidYou can defend that all you want but THAT is antisocial behaviour because it makes normal people heterosexuals uncomfortable.

    Fixed.


    No, not really. I know I wouldn't feel comfortable if someone was staring at me working out for a long period of time.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
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    carabin said
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.


    i hope nobody ever looks at you, but I bet that would pretty much defeat the very purpose, amirite? actually, i wish there were separate gyms for antisocial people.


    The OP isn't talking about "looking" at people. He's talking about eyeballing people to the point they walk up to him and have to tell him to fuck off. You can defend that all you want but THAT is antisocial behaviour because it makes normal people uncomfortable.



    Okay, everyone don't get angry with me, but I made up the part where the guy came up to me and called me out.

    I imagined he did though while I was stealing looks and that's what stops me from looking longer than the guy would notice.

    I don't eyeball guys, I steal a glance, here and there just.

    Please don't say "people like you" cause that's the phrase the the lowest of the low deserve.

    And this is the point of my whole thread, I fear I might creep the guys out or make them feel uncomfortable, so I was wondering if it was appropriate to merely steal glances for fun.
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    Jul 05, 2013 8:11 PM GMT
    IrishDarren said
    uoft23 said
    carabin said
    uoft23 saidThere should be separate gyms for people like you. Good for him on calling you out too. Maybe some people actually go to the gym to enjoy it and not have you make them uncomfortable? Just a thought.


    i hope nobody ever looks at you, but I bet that would pretty much defeat the very purpose, amirite? actually, i wish there were separate gyms for antisocial people.


    The OP isn't talking about "looking" at people. He's talking about eyeballing people to the point they walk up to him and have to tell him to fuck off. You can defend that all you want but THAT is antisocial behaviour because it makes normal people uncomfortable.



    Okay, everyone don't get angry with me, but I made up the part where the guy came up to me and called me out.

    I imagined he did though while I was stealing looks and that's what stops me from looking longer than the guy would notice.

    I don't eyeball guys, I steal a glance, here and there just.

    Please don't say "people like you" cause that's the phrase the the lowest of the low deserve.

    And this is the point of my whole thread, I fear I might creep the guys out or make them feel uncomfortable, so I was wondering if it was appropriate to merely steal glances for fun.

    icon_lol.gif you are such a little scamp, Irish boy!