Has anyone been in a friend with benefits type thing and regretted it?

  • Jake__Wright

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    Jul 07, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    When I was 17 I was having anal sex with a 24y/o I was the reciever, the retarted part was that he had a girlfriend and she was ok with It, I met them through my friend... He, im not sure about her, was a drug addict and did home job tattos, This older guy was keen to mess around with younger boys (I think he was a gay man!) I used to pretend I was going to college every second thursday and just walk to there house. I don't know why I was doing it! I was lonely I didn't get to see people much because I worked friday to sunday and went to college monday to Thursday and I hated my family (teenager) It went on for 3 months it felt so good though (the first time was very uncomfortable I was shaking It strange being touched like that and my butt was SORE!!) but I wanted friends and a relationship not a fuck buddy and then he wanted to not wear condoms and started getting weird by being interested in cuffing people to beds and weird sex positions he was a control freak! im glad I got out of that messed up relationship by blocking them from my number and never went there again.
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Jul 11, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    If your gonna say something is retarded ATLEAST spell it correctly...
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    Jul 11, 2013 11:23 PM GMT
    LoveAndPeace saidIf your gonna say something is retarded ATLEAST spell it correctly...
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    lol One day people will only communicate using a series of gifs.
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    Jul 11, 2013 11:56 PM GMT
    AtlasHarper said
    LoveAndPeace saidIf your gonna say something is retarded ATLEAST spell it correctly...
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    lol One day people will only communicate using a series of gifs.
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    Sad.. And probably true.

    I've done the friends with benefits thing before, I don't regret it.. But it can get a bit complicated when there's others involved.. On the plus side threesomes become a regular occurrence. icon_smile.gif
  • The_Guruburu

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    Jul 12, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    moose123 said
    AtlasHarper said
    LoveAndPeace saidIf your gonna say something is retarded ATLEAST spell it correctly...
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    lol One day people will only communicate using a series of gifs.
    .

    Sad.. And probably true.

    I've done the friends with benefits thing before, I don't regret it.. But it can get a bit complicated when there's others involved.. On the plus side threesomes become a regular occurrence. icon_smile.gif


    Ooh, do tell…
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    Jul 18, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    This is something that I can't do. There will surely be some form of feelings that will develop if it's an ongoing thing and I wouldn't want to risk me getting hurt by someone who would have no interest in dating long term.
  • mybud

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    Aug 09, 2013 4:24 AM GMT
    LoveAndPeace saidIf your gonna say something is retarded ATLEAST spell it correctly...
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    Got one better..Stop using the word altogether....