Do gay men go for external apperance more than nongay men and women?

  • immortality

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    Jul 07, 2013 12:58 PM GMT
    I notice most gay men in this site want to date very handsome and very well-builded men. I think gay men go for external apperance more than nongay men and women? Do you agree?
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    Jul 07, 2013 1:00 PM GMT
    No. However, because they meet most of their potential matches online or in a bar, they have less to go on when deciding who to pursue.
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    Jul 07, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    Broseph said
    immortality saidDo you agree?


    Nope. You're vastly underestimating the shallowness of straight guys :p


    ..AND straight women, too.
  • jayatl56

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    Jul 09, 2013 1:16 PM GMT
    I think this is something that crosses all genders and all preferences.

    If I went to a club or bar driving up in an older car, dressed in less expensive brands (or no brand), wearing a Timex, I'd get A LOT less attention, if any at all, than if I drove up in a BMW wearing branded/tailored clothing and upscale watch.

    I know a guy who wears fake brands from head to toe from a fake Rolex to fake Gucci loafers. He gets lots of attention but is an empty suit and wonders why he doesn't have a BF.

    The fact is you don't know how well invested the guy is; how successful he is etc. by just looking at what he's wearing. Some guys don't go for all the glitter or might just be budget conscience and don't see the need for "making impressions".

    So the bottom line is, if he's handsome, talk to him. You might be surprised.
  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 09, 2013 1:18 PM GMT
    yes
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    Jul 09, 2013 1:25 PM GMT
    I think anyone who says " no " is kidding them selves .... guys lets just be honest, gay men are some of the most superficial people, i mean some guys wont even talk to you as a " friend " if they dont think you're " hot ". Now of course not everyone is like that, but alot are. On the other hand i have seen many beautiful straight women date and marry men who dont even come close to them on the attractiveness scale, in fact I've seen them do this more often than not, but very rarely do i ever see gay men do this.
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    Jul 09, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    Women train Hetero men to listen but most men are visual not aural creatures and looks come first, then depending on the looks, either brain or cock.
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    Jul 09, 2013 1:46 PM GMT
    yes
  • rnch

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    Jul 09, 2013 1:53 PM GMT
    Under the age of 40, yes most gay men do.
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    Jul 09, 2013 1:57 PM GMT
    Straight men are attracted to looks just as much but they have a less complicated view of it. They notice a hot chick has great tits, a nice ass, that her hair smells nice and then daydream about if she's fully shaven "down there".

    Gay men notice a hot guy and analyze his chest, cheek bones, neck, vein structure in his arms, his fingernails, his eyelashes, eye color, blink rate, crows feet, hair color, hair length, frosted hair tips, lips, dimple length and structure, proportion of earlobe to ear size, Adam's apple size and projection, depth of armpit, amount of hair in armpit, armpit socket contrast with pec muscle, nipple color, nipple erection when non-stimulated, height of nipple and nipple placement, sinus cavity, body mass composition, heart rate, number of freckles, size of freckles, tan line etc.... And then we attach our emotions/perceptions to EACH of those details like bulbs on Christmas tree branches.

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    Jul 09, 2013 2:00 PM GMT
    Broseph said
    immortality saidDo you agree?


    Nope. You're vastly underestimating the shallowness of straight guys :p


    This. they are just as shallow as gay dudes.
  • CityofDreams

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    Jul 09, 2013 2:09 PM GMT
    Myol saidStraight men are attracted to looks just as much but they have a less complicated view of it. They notice a hot chick has great tits, a nice ass, that her hair smells nice and then daydream about if she's fully shaven "down there".

    Gay men notice a hot guy and analyze his chest, cheek bones, neck, vein structure in his arms, his fingernails, his eyelashes, eye color, blink rate, crows feet, hair color, hair length, frosted hair tips, lips, dimple length and structure, proportion of earlobe to ear size, Adam's apple size and projection, depth of armpit, amount of hair in armpit, armpit socket contrast with pec muscle, nipple color, nipple erection when non-stimulated, height of nipple and nipple placement, sinus cavity, body mass composition, heart rate, number of freckles, size of freckles, tan line etc.... And then we attach our emotions/perceptions to EACH of those details like bulbs on Christmas tree branches.



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    Jul 09, 2013 2:12 PM GMT
    Myol saidStraight men are attracted to looks just as much but they have a less complicated view of it. They notice a hot chick has great tits, a nice ass, that her hair smells nice and then daydream about if she's fully shaven "down there".

    Gay men notice a hot guy and analyze his chest, cheek bones, neck, vein structure in his arms, his fingernails, his eyelashes, eye color, blink rate, crows feet, hair color, hair length, frosted hair tips, lips, dimple length and structure, proportion of earlobe to ear size, Adam's apple size and projection, depth of armpit, amount of hair in armpit, armpit socket contrast with pec muscle, nipple color, nipple erection when non-stimulated, height of nipple and nipple placement, sinus cavity, body mass composition, heart rate, number of freckles, size of freckles, tan line etc.... And then we attach our emotions/perceptions to EACH of those details like bulbs on Christmas tree branches.



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    Jul 09, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    Myol saidGay men notice a hot guy and analyze his chest, cheek bones, neck, vein structure in his arms, his fingernails, his eyelashes, eye color, blink rate, crows feet, hair color, hair length, frosted hair tips, lips, dimple length and structure, proportion of earlobe to ear size, Adam's apple size and projection, depth of armpit, amount of hair in armpit, armpit socket contrast with pec muscle, nipple color, nipple erection when non-stimulated, height of nipple and nipple placement, sinus cavity, body mass composition, heart rate, number of freckles, size of freckles, tan line etc.... And then we attach our emotions/perceptions to EACH of those details like bulbs on Christmas tree branches.

    WTF? If a guy does all that….his potential match is long gone. Depth of armpit? Nipple color? Sinus cavity? Where do you meet your guys? LOL
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    Jul 09, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
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    Myol saidGay men notice a hot guy and analyze his chest, cheek bones, neck, vein structure in his arms, his fingernails, his eyelashes, eye color, blink rate, crows feet, hair color, hair length, frosted hair tips, lips, dimple length and structure, proportion of earlobe to ear size, Adam's apple size and projection, depth of armpit, amount of hair in armpit, armpit socket contrast with pec muscle, nipple color, nipple erection when non-stimulated, height of nipple and nipple placement, sinus cavity, body mass composition, heart rate, number of freckles, size of freckles, tan line etc.... And then we attach our emotions/perceptions to EACH of those details like bulbs on Christmas tree branches.

    WTF? If a guy does all that….his potential match is long gone. Depth of armpit? Nipple color? Sinus cavity? Where do you meet your guys? LOL


    I have literally no idea what he is talking about. I think he's confusing himself with "gay men" in general. icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 09, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
    Gay or straight, pretty people stick to other pretty people.
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    Jul 09, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    I think his post is called "satire" guys.
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    Jul 09, 2013 3:31 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidWTF? If a guy does all that….his potential match is long gone. Depth of armpit? Nipple color? Sinus cavity? Where do you meet your guys? LOL

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    Jul 09, 2013 4:00 PM GMT
    SeismicMuscle saidI think his post is called "satire" guys.


    Lol, I hope so. Needs moar smilies.
  • The_Guruburu

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    Jul 09, 2013 4:01 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidI think anyone who says " no " is kidding them selves .... guys lets just be honest, gay men are some of the most superficial people, i mean some guys wont even talk to you as a " friend " if they dont think you're " hot ". Now of course not everyone is like that, but alot are. On the other hand i have seen many beautiful straight women date and marry men who dont even come close to them on the attractiveness scale, in fact I've seen them do this more often than not, but very rarely do i ever see gay men do this.

    No one is kidding themselves...this is said by people of all genders and sexual orientations all the time; straight women complain that guys only care about hot sexy, impossibly figured model women; straight guys complain that women are only into guys with cash and well-built physiques. Gay men (like you) say "gay men are some of the most superficial people". Hm, I actually dn't know what lesbians say, but I suspect it's a similar tune. Probably intersex, genderqueer, asexuals folks and the rest of the alphabet soup, too.
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    Jul 09, 2013 4:07 PM GMT
    Can't just say gay men are more worried about appearances than straight guys and ladies. Both sides have their quirks. They just vary from side to side.

    Gay men will show little or no response to a man they find unattractive. A straight guy will fuck an ugly woman, get his, and leave her on the curb to wallow in her own self-pity. So you see, gay men aren't always so bad lol.
  • DrobUA

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    Jul 09, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    I don't think gay guys are any more shallow than straight guys. It's just easier to compare 2 guys than to compare a guy and a girl.
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    Jul 09, 2013 4:38 PM GMT
    leo23 saidWhen you happened to meet a gay in your surrounding and fall in for him that decision would have not dominated by his looks but your compatibility with his overall personality. Whereas in whatever site, you name it, you tends to search for a well-built person. For the obvious reason that, “dumb! How do you know him personally?" and your primary expectation would be absolutely different over here. This holds equally true on straight people as well. No matter what your sexuality is, human propensities are same.


    What people are trying to say in this forum is that looks aren't everything lol. In the world in general, there are literally millions of people that won't talk to anyone they find unattractive. It's shallow and selfish but their choice. Of course looks have weight on who we grow feelings for but if looks have more weight than everything else, gotta ask what the fuck is happening to our sanity...
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    Jul 09, 2013 6:23 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Broseph said
    immortality saidDo you agree?


    Nope. You're vastly underestimating the shallowness of straight guys :p


    ..AND straight women, too.


    So lesbians are the only ones who go for personality then?
  • LJay

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    Jul 09, 2013 6:51 PM GMT
    Not always. Most straight guys I know worry more about how they look than I do.