Do guys typically want sex after the 3rd date?

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    Jul 08, 2013 1:47 AM GMT
    I don't wanna get dumped if I tell him no. Like Hell no.

    You know what I mean.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 08, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
    They usually want it on the first date!icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidThey usually want it on the first date!icon_lol.gif

    Take it a step further - dudes want it before they even have your name.
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    Jul 08, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    I am so screwed then. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 1:59 AM GMT
    Do you really think there is some set time that works for every couple and every situation?
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    Well, you don't want to appear like you're a worthless meat. icon_biggrin.gif
  • whytehot

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    Iceblink saidDo you really think there is some set time that works for every couple and every situation?


    of course not. It all depends on how slutty one chooses to be
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    I laughed when I read the title of this thread.
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    Aint no slut here. LoL!
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    Talk to him about it. There's a better chance of things working in your favor if you explain what you want, rather than leaving him in the dark (which will inevitably end with him getting frustrated).

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    whytehot said
    Iceblink saidDo you really think there is some set time that works for every couple and every situation?


    of course not. It all depends on how slutty one chooses to be

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:26 AM GMT
    DC that was nice, although I'll just tell him...bitch, no means no.icon_evil.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    Hottjoe is rolling his eyes b/c he's one of the slutty ones.

    J/K icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    HellNo saidHottjoe is rolling his eyes b/c he's one of the slutty ones.

    J/K icon_lol.gif

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    HottJoe saidThey usually want it on the first date!icon_lol.gif

    Take it a step further - dudes want it before they even have your name.

    True story
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:39 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidThey usually want it on the first date!icon_lol.gif


    I usually like to start the first date with sex...then go on the date. Sex makes for a great "icebreaker" and gets the conversation past the bullshit and to the authentic post haste.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:41 AM GMT
    I always save myself for marriage.

    And I've been divorced 100 times.

    Don't judge!icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:43 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    HottJoe saidThey usually want it on the first date!icon_lol.gif


    I usually like to start the first date with sex...then go on the date. Sex makes for a great "icebreaker" and gets the conversation past the bullshit and to the authentic post haste.



    NO! Are you asian? icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    told you he was a slut.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 08, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    HellNo saidtold you he was a slut.

    A slut with lots of wedding gifts!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    HottJoe saidI always save myself for marriage.

    And I've been divorced 100 times.

    Don't judge!icon_mad.gif


    wtf is your definition of marriage! icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
    IrishDarren said
    HottJoe saidI always save myself for marriage.

    And I've been divorced 100 times.

    Don't judge!icon_mad.gif


    wtf is your definition of marriage! icon_eek.gif

    I learned everything about life from Britney, bitch.
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    HellNo saidtold you he was a slut.

    A slut with lots of wedding gifts!!icon_biggrin.gif


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    I like your style, but completely opposite from me.
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    I always had sex on the first date. Im engaged now so, yes it is realistically the right/smart thing to do. There is nothing wrong in knowing in advance if you two are sexually compatible before you keep moving any further in the dating process. Specially among gays where sexual preferences are really complex and diverse. For instance the following pairings can have a really hard time in bed(which in most cases affects the quality of their relationship):

    1 - Bottom + Bottom
    2 - Top + Top
    3 - No-Anal + Top
    4 - No-Anal + Bottom
    5 - No-Oral + No-Anal
    6 - Extremely Low Sex Drive + Extremely High Sex Drive


    However, now that I think about it, most guys who wait for the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, Xth date in order to have sex tend to have a fairly low sex drive. So I guess in this case, the whole "lets wait for the right time" strategy will end up pairing you with a guy who also has a low sex-drive(can wait as long as needed).
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    Jul 08, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    IrishDarren said
    HottJoe saidI always save myself for marriage.

    And I've been divorced 100 times.

    Don't judge!icon_mad.gif


    wtf is your definition of marriage! icon_eek.gif

    I learned everything about life from Britney, bitch.


    OMFG that is eerie! I was going to say you had the morals of britney spears(or elizabeth taylor) but I prefered the response I posted, go figure icon_wink.gif