Is my sister dating a gay guy...

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:10 AM GMT
    Didn't really know where to post this topic, so went the general route.

    My sister has been dating a guy for about a year now and as I've been spending more time with him I've become a bit suspicious. My sister and I are close (she's my twin) so her boyfriend potentially being gay is weighing on me a bit. I haven't gotten to the point where I'm following him and taking pictures from the bushes (I'm thorough ;)) but I am curious to see if anyone has comments or advice. We Canadians like gay sting operations too, so if you set up a plan up for me I'll try to make it happen.

    Bouahahaha.

    Only kidding.

    Your input is appreciated!
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 5:12 AM GMT
    What makes you think he's gay?
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jul 08, 2013 5:16 AM GMT
    Is he hot?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:17 AM GMT
    You should really consider thinking twice about hitting on your sister's boyfriend. This could really fuck up your relationship with your sister, and potentially with other members of your immediate family.

    Seriously think twice before you interfere any further.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:18 AM GMT
    Well this might make me sounds like a jerk, but I guess his mannerisms. I just get a general gay vibe from the guy and to be fair he's very nice, I'm just put-off a bit by him sometimes. I've never had a similar problem with her other boyfriends.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
    This will not end well.

    will_not_end_well.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
    He's attractive yes. And I never said I was going to hit on him...I'm not interested in him.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:22 AM GMT
    Still. You're messing with your sister's relationship. If you're right, your sister will be hurt. If you're wrong, your sister will be hurt.

    You're entering an arena where there is nothing but hurt for your sister. Do you want to be a part of it?
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 5:25 AM GMT
    Try flaming out and singing Britney when you're with him.

    If he's like, gurl, that's totes my favorite song. He's gay.icon_razz.gif
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jul 08, 2013 5:26 AM GMT
    Are you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 5:29 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidAre you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic

    Why would some hot guy's twin sister be dating a nerd???icon_neutral.gif
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jul 08, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk saidAre you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic

    Why would some hot guy's twin sister be dating a nerd???icon_neutral.gif

    Nerds make money
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk saidAre you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic

    Why would some hot guy's twin sister be dating a nerd???icon_neutral.gif

    Nerds make money

    I guess if you're a straight nerd with gay mannerisms you have to.... I'm so glad I'm not straight!
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    In lieu of more info, I'd go with GAMrican's advice.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk said
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk saidAre you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic

    Why would some hot guy's twin sister be dating a nerd???icon_neutral.gif

    Nerds make money

    I guess if you're a straight nerd with gay mannerisms you have to.... I'm so glad I'm not straight!


    IT'S TIME TO DANCE!!!!

  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jul 08, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk said
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk saidAre you sure he's not just a nerd ... sometimes people mistake nerds for being gay ... huge difference ... while there may be gay nerds, in general, nerds are usually not gay ... we are way to artistic

    Why would some hot guy's twin sister be dating a nerd???icon_neutral.gif

    Nerds make money

    I guess if you're a straight nerd with gay mannerisms you have to.... I'm so glad I'm not straight!

    hmm .. what exactly is a 'gay mannerism'? A lisp? A swish when you walk? Unless someone is overly acting like a queen, I'm not sure what a 'gay mannerism' is?
    Does he stare at a guys ass or crotch as they walk by?
    Does he flirt with waiters in the restaurant?

    What kind of gay mannerism are we talking about here?
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jul 08, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    Guess we'll never know.....
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 6:16 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidGuess we'll never know.....


    Patience...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 6:22 AM GMT
    Yeah, swish in his walk, chink in his voice kind of thing. Have you never met a guy and gotten a gay vibe from him? (gaydar?) I would never mention it to my sis unless I was sure, sure. Just figured some guys must have had similar experiences with family members, friends etc.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    mitchellmitch saidYeah, swish in his walk, chink in his voice kind of thing. Have you never met a guy and gotten a gay vibe from him? (gaydar?) I would never mention it to my sis unless I was sure, sure. Just figured some guys must have had similar experiences with family members, friends etc.


    So, he's Chinese! That explains it all! Some of these mannerisms are common among Asians.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 2:30 PM GMT
    set next to him on the couch and light reach over and grab his penis while she's out of the room.

    That should give you the definitive answer.
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jul 08, 2013 2:30 PM GMT
    Maybe he doesn't realize he is gay. Maybe you should invite him out to a gay bar.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 2:40 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidTry flaming out and singing Britney when you're with him.

    If he's like, gurl, that's totes my favorite song. He's gay.icon_razz.gif



    icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • Nayro

    Posts: 1825

    Jul 08, 2013 2:43 PM GMT
    maybe he's bi. And if he is, then what?..
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jul 08, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    I had suspicions at first about my sister's now husband. Even my dad was like, "Do you think he plays for your team?" But it turned out he was just uber comfortable with himself and his sexuality and didn't care at all about how he appeared to others.