Jul 08, 2013 6:19 AM GMT
I'm looking for ideas for a guy I really like and I'd like to make a good impression! He's out of my league so I need to make this count!!!
Blakesg123 saidThanks to everyone who had an input!! I'm thinking about going to a game and after dinner at mine? Is that too much?
Writer22 saidA nice quite dinner at small restaurant with a walk through the park or beach, then back to your place for a movie and some cuddling.
in_this_corner saidYeah, I'm not much for movies on a first date, but ample time for those on subsequent dates. ;)
For a first date, I like finding a small, intimate restaurant (nothing too fancy) where you can order a handful of small plate items (tapas) or sushi...something where you can share a few items which are not too filling. Split a bottle of wine if you both drink.
Follow that with a nice walk, through a park, or through some nice downtown neighborhoods with cool architecture...or somewhere scenic.
Find a place where you can watch the sunset from a good vantage point.
My aim on a first date is to simply provide an environment for good, quality conversation where we can learn a bit about each other without too many distractions. Keep your phones off. Be engaged and pay attention.
By then you'll have an idea of what your next steps should be. If you both are feeling it, end it with asking him out for a second date. I think a good second date is at home, make dinner, control music and mood. And maybe a movie.