When guys online want to get to know you without revealing themselves...

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    Jul 09, 2013 3:34 AM GMT
    I'm cool with a guy to having private face pics and being in the closet ONLINE. But when he emails me wanting to know more information, wanting to get to know me or even receive advice yet keeps his face pics locked and minimal info on his profile, I'm pretty short in my responses.

    If my "transparency" interests or could benefit you in some way, why would you expect to have access to even more with no investment? I don't think that makes me a dick does it?
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    Jul 09, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
    These are the guys that want to win you over with their personality first, before they reveal themselves.

    Will he be a stud? Or a dud? icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jul 09, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    No it doesnt!!!!! it makes you careful!!!! for all u know he could be a rapist!!!!!!!icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    Jul 09, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    I agree with ya on this. I need to be able to trust the person or know some level of information in order for me to continue what I'm all about.

    At least being verified, having face pics, and something in the about me section will do it for me oh and being different with messages not just a "what's up"

    You just never know who you might really be talking to...
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 09, 2013 6:37 AM GMT
    Yeah it's really annoying. Especially on hook-up sites

    no pic no chat
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    Jul 09, 2013 6:40 AM GMT
    block them icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 09, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    I'm with Myol! I'll give him the chance to chat it up but after a while and if has chosen not to reveal his pic, then my patience starts to run out. I mean for god sake, they're 1000+ miles away....I think that's a given that there's nothing to worry about!
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    Jul 09, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    I'm with Myol on this. I've come to a point that if he does not have pics and profile info to get my interest, I cant be interested to reply.
  • DrobUA

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    Jul 09, 2013 4:10 PM GMT
    Yea, I don't talk to blank profiles or body parts.
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    Jul 09, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    Trust is a two way street. If he wants you to trust that he is who he says he is, how can you return that trust if he's too afraid to show his own face online...which makes no sense icon_rolleyes.gif