"The person who views you repeatedly" rant

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    Jul 10, 2013 1:38 AM GMT
    When the same person views your profile over and over again and never utters not one word? How does this make you feel? Do you feel annoyed, flattered, or uncomfortable?

    Do you have any solutions to the situation which could result to blocking or ignoring them


    I believe this question has been asked before i could be wrong but i am not sure.


    Personally, I don't have a problem with a member viewing my profile or not sending a message but when it is done over and over again and is the same person it is down right annoying and a little creepy.



    Feel free to express your opinions here if you'd like.


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    Jul 10, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    Idc that much about it.
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:43 AM GMT
    Yes, it happens. Every time it does I cry myself to sleep that night.
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:43 AM GMT
    EdwardV1 saidWhen the same person views your profile over and over again and never utters not one word? How does this make you feel? Do you feel annoyed, flattered, or uncomfortable?

    Do you have any solutions to the situation which could result to blocking or ignoring them


    I believe this question has been asked before i could be wrong but i am not sure.


    Personally, I don't have a problem with a member viewing my profile or not sending a message but when it is done over and over again and is the same person it is down right annoying and a little creepy.



    Feel free to express your opinions here if you'd like.



    I was just talking about this today!

    I don't find it creepy or weird - I just get self-conscious. It's that same feeling you get when someone in person keeps glancing at you and you think that maybe you have something on your face or you're doing something weird.

    I just really wish they'd just say hi. Lord knows I enjoy all the emails I get here. And I'm a nice person....right?
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:48 AM GMT
    Some members click your profile to see what you've been posting..
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
    Does anyone really have enough time on their hands to constantly check to see who has checked their profile? OMG...get a hobby off of the internet! Or change your profile accessibility to be only when you and the other person are logged in to RJ....use the BLOCK and the IGNORE....or just put all pics in the locked area....It's the web and you are here on your own volition....the site is free and open to everyone....all of you OCD, type-A, control freaks just need to take a few breaths and get a grip of what that means...and the log off and go for a walk. Not a big deal, REALLY.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
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    EdwardV1 saidWhen the same person views your profile over and over again and never utters not one word? How does this make you feel? Do you feel annoyed, flattered, or uncomfortable?

    Do you have any solutions to the situation which could result to blocking or ignoring them


    I believe this question has been asked before i could be wrong but i am not sure.


    Personally, I don't have a problem with a member viewing my profile or not sending a message but when it is done over and over again and is the same person it is down right annoying and a little creepy.



    Feel free to express your opinions here if you'd like.



    I was just talking about this today!

    I don't find it creepy or weird - I just get self-conscious. It's that same feeling you get when someone in person keeps glancing at you and you think that maybe you have something on your face or you're doing something weird.

    I just really wish they'd just say hi. Lord knows I enjoy all the emails I get here. And I'm a nice person....right?




    Thats all i wish they would do. Have some balls and say something other than i feel like you are wasting my time just staring at me like i am a portrait on a wall?
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:55 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidDoes anyone really have enough time on their hands to constantly check to see who has checked their profile? OMG...get a hobby off of the internet! Or change your profile accessibility to be only when you and the other person are logged in to RJ....use the BLOCK and the IGNORE....or just put all pics in the locked area....It's the web and you are here on your own volition....the site is free and open to everyone....all of you OCD, type-A, control freaks just need to take a few breaths and get a grip of what that means...and the log off and go for a walk. Not a big deal, REALLY.icon_biggrin.gif

    Oh it isn't a bad thing! I know for me I notice it more when it's a really hot guy who keeps viewing me and I just want him to talk to me. Not that I'd ever try anything actually physical but just knowing that a hot guy online wants me and isn't just looking at me because I have something weird on face is satisfying enough. icon_cool.gif

    Wow - did we go back to high school or what?
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    Jul 10, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    angrygarbagestateresident saidi really don't care who views my profile or how many times someone wants to look @ my profile. feel very indifferent about it. they can do whatever they want. look and view it as much as you want. i won't judge you or think you're creepy or whatever. take the pics and put them in your jerk off folder. put it on tumblr. okay, don't put it on tumblr. that would be scaring the shit out of me. if you want to say hi or bye, meesage me just to talk about whatever, you can do that too. i don't get annoyed unless i'm provoked. icon_biggrin.gif if you don't care about looking at my profile, that's fine too. profiles were made to be looked at.

    i see some people getting annoyed with people looking at their profiles and i see some people get upset when people don't look @ their profiles. icon_lol.gif i dunno.



    I like this. very well put


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  • HottJoe

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    Jul 10, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    I'm pretty sure my biggest stalkers are in stalker mode anyway.icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    i look at HotJoe a lot.... icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:33 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'm pretty sure my biggest stalkers are in stalker mode anyway.icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif



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  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 10, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    I click on people's profile repeatedly just to mess with them sometimes.

    tee hee
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    i always wonder what exactly keeps 'em coming back.
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:53 AM GMT
    TBH I find it flattering if someone views me often. There was some guy on here I forgot the name, but I use to click on his profile often and he actually emailed asking me whats the deal? I told him he always wrote things that intrigued me so I would click on the profile after reading a comment of his. I guess it can get annoying for some if you view them a lot and they keep seeing your image on their recent views. I know now to just uncheck that option in preferences, and now I can look at whomever I want over and over without seemingly like I'm harassing/stalking them. But to be honest I think the super fit model type hotties of RJ probably get so many views from guys that no one guy stays in their recent views long enough for them to gripe about it.
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    EdwardV1 saidWhen the same person views your profile over and over again and never utters not one word? How does this make you feel? Do you feel annoyed, flattered, or uncomfortable?

    Do you have any solutions to the situation which could result to blocking or ignoring them


    I believe this question has been asked before i could be wrong but i am not sure.


    Personally, I don't have a problem with a member viewing my profile or not sending a message but when it is done over and over again and is the same person it is down right annoying and a little creepy.



    Feel free to express your opinions here if you'd like.




    I do the very thing you accuse some people here of, and as a person that does such, I have absolutely no problem with doing so.
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:56 AM GMT
    I don't have my contacts in. I see some lumpy flesh that looks appealing. I click it. Then I realize I just clicked it 10 minutes ago and go back to clicking.
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:57 AM GMT
    The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about. - Oscar Wilde


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    Jul 10, 2013 3:58 AM GMT
    Why do we even bring up such topics here? Is anyone's time that cheap to spend discussing such things ! waste !!
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:07 AM GMT
    mpyear2010 saidWhy do we even bring up such topics here? Is anyone's time that cheap to spend discussing such things ! waste !!


    . . . and SLAM! There went that topic!
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    onejock saidi always wonder what exactly keeps 'em coming back.



    Me too


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  • secondstartot...

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    Jul 10, 2013 4:36 AM GMT
    same as in real life - cause you are too intimidatingly good looking - but so beautiful I feel compelled to look until like in real life you give me a dirty look and say "what?!" or something
    sometimes it backfires in a sadly good way once upon a time when I was gyming enthusiastically there was this incredibly hot guy I used to but gawk at from a far ....many years later I found him on facebook on a friends page I contacted him and he said " why didnt you say hi ? I thought you were really sweet but not interested " I had moved countries when I went back to visit a few months after this facebook chat I hooked up with him ....the best week of my life ....but no not even he was enough to make me want to move back to South Africa ....
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:45 AM GMT
    hmm..There are few guys who visit my profile quite often, I thought they want to say something to me, but nothing happens...and if they keep on visiting my profile, I'll try to initiate a conversation like "Hi! do you want to say something" etc.,. (I think it's not an appropriate conversation starter...)
    Anyway, I don't get any reply from them and then they'll stop visiting me!
    quite strange to me... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    Sad, sad me... I get depressed when I see that my "who's viewed you" list hasn't changed in 3 days. And I even stay logged into RJ when away from my pc to encourage views. God, I'm needy and pathetic.... icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:49 AM GMT
    I'm gay, so sometimes I just want to look at your face again, and again...and again. But maybe you are too far, or you sound ridiculous, or maybe I don't think I am your type, so I don't say anything. Or maybe I'm reading your profile for some reason or reading your posts. Frankly, I wouldn't care if someone did it to me.