Ever ran into someone in person you turned down online ?

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    Jul 10, 2013 2:24 AM GMT
    At the mall the other day and saw this guy who tried to ask me out online from here .... i was like OMG, luckily i noticed him first and i quickly slipped away before he realized who i was...
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    Jul 10, 2013 2:40 AM GMT
    I'd only recognize them without their heads.
  • starboard5

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    Jul 10, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    No. But vice-versa, yes.
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    Jul 10, 2013 3:58 AM GMT
    The more awkward part is when you make a forum post about it... if it's true he's on here lol
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:02 AM GMT
    This happen to me in Walmart. I hid in the woman's clothing section. This also happen to me in reversal(I was rejected online by him) and he came to buy something when i was at work. He came to my register with his mother and acted like he never seen me before. Boy that guy could act!
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    Jul 10, 2013 4:03 AM GMT
    S34n05 saidThe more awkward part is when you make a forum post about it... if it's true he's on here lol



    Not anymore, he deleted his profile, thankfully
  • wolven

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    Jul 10, 2013 7:01 AM GMT
    As long as you're nice about the way you turn a man down. There's no need to hide. Not everyone is going to find that person attractive or me attractive or you attractive. Its a part of life. If he has a problem with rejection.. Its his problem..
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    Jul 10, 2013 7:20 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    S34n05 saidThe more awkward part is when you make a forum post about it... if it's true he's on here lol



    Not anymore, he deleted his profile, thankfully


    And what makes you think he hasn't created a sock account?
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    Jul 10, 2013 7:23 AM GMT


    That would be like pungent not sour.
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    Jul 10, 2013 7:26 AM GMT
    Imagine how awkward it would have been HAHA
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    Jul 10, 2013 10:32 AM GMT
    Yes and the other way around, both scenarios happen to me way more often than they should, especially since I'm new to town and mostly looking for friends, they take it the wrong way lol
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:05 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidAt the mall the other day and saw this guy who tried to ask me out online from here .... i was like OMG, luckily i noticed him first and i quickly slipped away before he realized who i was...


    The fact that you had to hide speaks quite a bit about you.

  • Jul 10, 2013 12:06 PM GMT
    yea You
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:14 PM GMT
    I've had that happen >< And just like the OP I slid behind something and hid lol
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:32 PM GMT
    Blondizgd said
    CopperDevil saidAt the mall the other day and saw this guy who tried to ask me out online from here .... i was like OMG, luckily i noticed him first and i quickly slipped away before he realized who i was...


    The fact that you had to hide speaks quite a bit about you.


    Yeah, what's up w/ that?
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:42 PM GMT
    This has happened to me. I think nothing of it as it is no different than turning someone down in person and seeing them around. It's just going to happen. Be courteous online and in person. If they say hi I'll greet them in return but not to carry on a conversation. Boils down to human respect and courtesy.
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:55 PM GMT
    Honestly..online dating is not for everyone..

    ..The truth is some of us here (including myself)"translate"
    much differently or better in real life.

    Harboring resentment towards someone that turned you down online is a clear indicator that you are not ready for dating period.

    Rejection will always be apart of dating!..Always.
  • madsexy

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    Jul 10, 2013 12:57 PM GMT
    S34n05 saidThe more awkward part is when you make a forum post about it... if it's true he's on here lol

    You beat me to that one! And yeah . . . AWKWARD! icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 12:58 PM GMT
    pf0081 said
    I wouldn't give them the time of day after that , so why hide? Sounds childish.

    that doesn't sound petty/childish to you ?
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    Jul 10, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    Integrity11 saidThis happen to me in Walmart. I hid in the woman's clothing section.

    For camouflage? icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 10, 2013 2:11 PM GMT
    Blondizgd said
    CopperDevil saidAt the mall the other day and saw this guy who tried to ask me out online from here .... i was like OMG, luckily i noticed him first and i quickly slipped away before he realized who i was...


    The fact that you had to hide speaks quite a bit about you.



    The fact that you can make an asinine assumption about me from just this post says alot about you too, i hid because i didnt want to make the situation awkward, i'm actually a polite person ... with polite people, some of you people can really be disrespectful
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    Jul 10, 2013 2:15 PM GMT
    pf0081 said
    Hillie said
    Blondizgd said
    CopperDevil saidAt the mall the other day and saw this guy who tried to ask me out online from here .... i was like OMG, luckily i noticed him first and i quickly slipped away before he realized who i was...


    The fact that you had to hide speaks quite a bit about you.


    Yeah, what's up w/ that?


    I don't get it either. If someone turned me down online, I wouldn't give them the time of day after that , so why hide? Sounds childish.


    Have some respect. this topic is not supposed to be a bitchy one so dont make it one


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    Jul 10, 2013 2:17 PM GMT
    I dont think I would care.
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    Jul 10, 2013 6:48 PM GMT
    Yes and the worst moment is when you realize they look much better in person than the photos!
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    Jul 10, 2013 6:52 PM GMT
    tanbod saidYes and the other way around, both scenarios happen to me way more often than they should, especially since I'm new to town and mostly looking for friends, they take it the wrong way lol
    Hahaha, awwww. Poor you.