What's so bad about fem guys?

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    Jul 14, 2013 4:59 AM GMT
    I mean isn't this "issue" very similar to the thought of a straight person thinking having a gay person around will make them gay... or having a gay team member will make the rest of the team look bad like "sissies" do

    I see so much HATE for them online and its generally excepted it would seem, yes people defend them from time to time, yet in the end I don't feel anyone ever really say much more than an elongated STOP! As if it just doesn't really matter to them, they just felt it was necessary.. also the "Queens" online seem to be perfectly fine with it, as if they have given up but chose to go with it, maybe even making it a fetish to be talked down to in their heads (which should be left for the bed) as if the "masculine" guy was just flirting with them with harsh words... [ -_- ]

    As a teen with experience being talked about in grade school because I'm not the most masculine guy in the world, even though I can fool people and well still do sadly.., I would have expected fellow gays to like everyone equally or at least give each other an equal chance... not for love.. you like what you like but dissing anyone just to get your point across so a fem guy wont even bother contacting you is straight up Rude and Mean... You cant fight for equality when your still not mature enough to see everyone is born at your level...An Equal

    Plus MOST of those guys were closet cases themselves, frequently switching from teasing me, being friendly, flirting, then back to be aggressive with there MACHONESS

    Also... without more fem guys.... who would Tops get to bottom!? Even when both guys are masculine... things would get Pretty Boring If the bottom wasn't at least a Lil Fem! icon_lol.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 14, 2013 5:03 AM GMT
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:09 AM GMT
    TheRece25 saidI mean isn't this "issue" very similar to the thought of a straight person thinking having a gay person around will make them gay... or having a gay team member will make the rest of the team look bad like "sissies" do

    I see so much HATE for them online and its generally excepted it would seem, yes people defend them from time to time, yet in the end I don't feel anyone ever really say much more than an elongated STOP! As if it just doesn't really matter to them, they just felt it was necessary.. also the "Queens" online seem to be perfectly fine with it, as if they have given up but chose to go with it, maybe even making it a fetish to be talked down to in their heads (which should be left for the bed) as if the "masculine" guy was just flirting with them with harsh words... [ -_- ]

    As a teen with experience being talked about in grade school because I'm not the most masculine guy in the world, even though I can fool people and well still do sadly.., I would have expected fellow gays to like everyone equally or at least give each other an equal chance... not for love.. you like what you like but dissing anyone just to get your point across so a fem guy wont even bother contacting you is straight up Rude and Mean... You cant fight for equality when your still not mature enough to see everyone is born at your level...An Equal

    Plus MOST of those guys were closet cases themselves, frequently switching from teasing me, being friendly, flirting, then back to be aggressive with there MACHONESS

    Also... without more fem guys.... who would Tops get to bottom!? Even when both guys are masculine... things would get Pretty Boring If the bottom wasn't at least a Lil Fem! icon_lol.gif


    Appearently I'm to fem to be a topicon_smile.gif
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
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    Did the OP go over your head? icon_biggrin.gif
  • Fable

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    Jul 14, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
    TheRece25 said
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    Did the OP go over your head? icon_biggrin.gif


    did that gif go over yours?
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 14, 2013 5:24 AM GMT
    Now, we can't start our new week off without a new "fem guy hate" thread.
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidNow, we can't start our new week off without a new "fem guy hate" thread.


    NEW!?

    I had a feeling there may be another I just didn't see one
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:31 AM GMT
    fable said
    TheRece25 said
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    Did the OP go over your head? icon_biggrin.gif


    did that gif go over yours?


    If I gave you a witty comment as a comeback Im sure you wouldn't get it or simply turn it on me as you did above.. so I'll just ignore you icon_wink.gif
  • Fable

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    Jul 14, 2013 5:36 AM GMT
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:40 AM GMT
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  • HottJoe

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    Jul 14, 2013 5:56 AM GMT
    There's nothing wrong with being fem!icon_mad.gif

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  • rawjack

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    Jul 14, 2013 6:02 AM GMT
    I have no hatred for the queens or indeed anybody. I don't care for the company of feminine men and don't engage with them. This is not any kind of statement it's simply my personal choice. I don't care for the company of pushy people either. Or arrogant. Or loud. Or obnoxious or bullshitters or frivolous or ponderous or un funny or men who dress in women's clothing or men that are flabby or lazy or boring or.... well you get the point. It's all strictly personal choices and I make no appologies. I am sexually attracted to masculinity. Not femininity. That's the way I was born. I have never been sexually attracted to feminized men have always wondered how a gay male could think that by adopting a feminine persona he will be attractive to men who are attracted to the masculine.
    But that's me. And I speak for no one but me.
    Cheers,
    Jack.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 14, 2013 6:04 AM GMT
    rawjack saidI have no hatred for the queens or indeed anybody. I don't care for the company of feminine men and don't engage with them. This is not any kind of statement it's simply my personal choice. I don't care for the company of pushy people either. Or arrogant. Or loud. Or obnoxious or bullshitters or frivolous or ponderous or un funny or men who dress in women's clothing or men that are flabby or lazy or boring or.... well you get the point. It's all strictly personal choices and I make no appologies. I am sexually attracted to masculinity. Not femininity. That's the way I was born. I have never been sexually attracted to feminized men have always wondered how a gay male could think that by adopting a feminine persona he will be attractive to men who are attracted to the masculine.
    But that's me. And I speak for no one but me.
    Cheers,
    Jack.

    U mad?
  • mybud

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    Jul 14, 2013 6:12 AM GMT
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    Jul 14, 2013 6:25 AM GMT
    Fems will always be blamed for representing the stereotype in the gay community. Sort of like if you ask a Philipino guy if he is Chinese, they will find it very offensive. It is not like they hate Chinese people they just hate the ignorants who think that every asian in the world came from fucking China. The same thing happens in the gay community, most masculine gay guys dont really hate fems at all but they do hate to be stereotyped as something they are not.


    that gif was hilarious tho lol. Just another fem thread...
  • TroyAthlete

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    Jul 14, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    So nice to see RealJock is back to it's regularly scheduled programming now that official Zimmerman trial is over.

    Where's the thread with some "straight-acting" guy whining about Pride?
  • mybud

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    Jul 14, 2013 6:31 AM GMT
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    Jul 14, 2013 6:31 AM GMT
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    Jul 14, 2013 6:45 AM GMT
    Nothing, as long as they don't talk. lol j/k icon_smile.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 14, 2013 7:04 AM GMT
    pf0081 saidNothing, as long as they don't talk. lol j/k icon_smile.gif

    Not funny
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:04 AM GMT
    I think being gay is very complex. You have gays who are masculine and are just into men, period. But then you see gay men who are feminine. I think it has more to do with sexual orientation at this point. Same thing goes for lesbians who are "butch". You're crossing over into "gender identity" territory in some of these instances. The whole thing ain't black and white - it's very gray. That's part of the problem why most people (gay or straight) don't understand it.
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:15 AM GMT
    hellass saidI think being gay is very complex. You have gays who are masculine and are just into men, period. But then you see gay men who are feminine. I think it has more to do with sexual orientation at this point. Same thing goes for lesbians who are "butch". You're crossing over into "gender identity" territory in some of these instances. The whole thing ain't black and white - it's very gray. That's part of the problem why most people (gay or straight) don't understand it.


    wise,
    Im not really that interested in this old chestnut anymore. You are what you are. I will admit to admiring young feminine gay guys that live openly as themselves in small towns and conservative areas. Its brave
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:52 AM GMT
    I think there needs to be a difference established between guys whose actions are more feminine and guys whose behavior is, well, "flaming" for lack of a better description.

    I don't think all fems are flamers. For instance, I know someone that would be classified as fem, but is very shy. His mannerisms, tastes, etc. would be considered less masculine than most. He isn't loud, not a drama queen. Then I also know someone that is the complete stereotype. Big, bold, everything is major drama, very arrogant, very bossy, rude.

    I think most fem types fall somewhere in between. I don't think anything is wrong with that, but I do believe it's a case where everyone gets a bad wrap for the actions of a few.
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    Jul 14, 2013 8:00 AM GMT
    Oh I thought this thing was long dead haha.. thx for commenting everybody.. the OP took a good min to type.. haha
  • fitartistsf

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    Jul 14, 2013 9:48 AM GMT
    If I wanted to fuck a chick, I'd fuck a chick...

    Why do fem men act more female than a female???