First Meet

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    Jul 14, 2013 7:24 AM GMT
    So, I haven't dated anyone for almost 4 years. Meeting a guy for the first time soon. I'm very confident about myself, but I have NO idea what to do on a gay date. Is it like a date with a girl, or is it completely different? Help please!
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:45 AM GMT
    I've never dated anyone before...but I would do this

    1. Tell him in advance that it's your 1st date with a guy...so that he may spare any awkward moments.
    2. Improvise.
    3. Be who you are, don't try to impress.

    To your question, I think it'll be just like talking to a male friend.
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:58 AM GMT
    Thanks, Harry! That helped. So it's nothing out of the ordinary, in your opinion. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 14, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    Dude relax, even when things aint going that well dnt show it, fake it till u make it!!!!!!good luck hope all goes well
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    Jul 14, 2013 6:06 PM GMT
    Danke! Fingers crossed.
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:14 PM GMT
    If I decide I like them, my trick is to put my foot on top of their foot under the table (with shoes on). If they don't move their foot away that's a good omen for getting a nice snog at least. I do it after about the 3rd drink.
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:17 PM GMT
    Regardless of gender, how did your first date go? Did it go well? If it did, then you already know what to do.
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    Jul 14, 2013 7:21 PM GMT
    Ohno, that sounds good!
    Erik, my first daye ever was a trainwreck. But I got the general idea of what you meant icon_biggrin.gif