How often do you hook up?

  • trl_

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    Jul 14, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
    So I might be meeting up with a guy this week to do the deed and I'm just curious how often you all hook up?

    I'm new to this entire world and am slightly paranoid about STDs to be honest. Have any of you ever gotten one?

    In general, is your experience with hooking up positive or negative?
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    Jul 14, 2013 4:49 PM GMT
    Hook safely ;)
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    Jul 14, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    Havent did it since my B-day..... well one more during that month,,, April...
    Im waiting for love, in fact I make sure to think of STD's to stop me from hooking up now

    Plus the last guy I did it with Was.. The.... WORST!!! Ugh.... icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 14, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    I don't have time to reply right now, I've got a hookup.
  • trl_

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    Jul 15, 2013 12:02 AM GMT
    I'm just nervous since I haven't done it before. I'm wondering if there's anything to be worried about.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 15, 2013 12:46 AM GMT
    trl_ saidI'm just nervous since I haven't done it before. I'm wondering if there's anything to be worried about.

    He could be a potential killer. He may be HIV positive and not know his status. He may have any number of assorted STD's. His apartment might burn down while you are fucking. Your city might be nuked during your canoodle sesh.

    See where I am going with this?

    There is always an excuse to be worried. It will always be up to you whether or not you trust a potential partner enough to meet up and have sex.

    That being said. I hooked up recently. It was great, we went out on a date and then we went back to his apartment and banged.

    It's all a bit of fun. But you NEVER know what's in store.

    As for being nervous meeting up the first time.. well that's normal.
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    Jul 29, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    Never had a hookup ><
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 30, 2013 7:20 AM GMT
    Trl, Its been more than a week since your post - how did things work out?

    Advice? It's been a number of years since I had a casual sexual encounter, but I had a lot of them, and 95% of them were positive, good experiences. I wasn't into quickies, so almost all involved the prospect of spending a night with someone, which is different than the 20 minute hookup of today. And yeah, diseases are out there, and you will probably catch something eventually, but there is a cure for everything except AIDS and hepatitis.

    AIDS and hepatitis - prevent by using condoms for anal (And you can get vaccinated to prevent hepatitis A and hepatitis B. B is the more deadly of the two, and contracted through anal sex. There is no vaccine to prevent hepatitis C).

    Herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts, crabs, and scabies - no way to prevent (You won't get syphilis or gonorrhea if you limit yourself to jacking off). You're in Korea? Less likely to get STDs if you stick to economically well off partners, who will have gotten treated right away if they contracted one. Avoid lowclass prostitutes.

    If you're really paranoid about getting syphilis or gonorrhea, you could prevent it by taking a course of penicillin after your hookup, although most doctors would not recommend doing that.