Body Dysmorphia: How Do U See Urself?.....

  • TannerMasseur

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    Jul 18, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    Are u overly critical or are u satisfied with the way u look? Do u let what u consider ur "flaws" hinder u or do try to see urself in a positive light, regardless of what u think are ur "flaws"? Do u let ur "flaws" prevent u from being happy or do accept urself as u are & try to live ur life no matter?.....
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    I'm way too heavy. My lovehandles are too prominent. My chest, too small. My arms, little. My nose is big and there's a noticeable bump on my right side. My chin is non-existent when I don't have a beard. My teeth are too small and I really don't see what other people see in me when they call me beautiful or handsome.
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:37 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidI'm way too heavy. My lovehandles are too prominent. My chest, too small. My arms, little. My nose is big and there's a noticeable bump on my right side. My chin is non-existent when I don't have a beard. My teeth are too small and I really don't see what other people see in me when they call me beautiful or handsome.


    Just looked at ur site icon_smile.gif U have 2 very photogenic pics: ur main pic & the one of ur face up close with just ur right eye & nose & upper lip icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
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    'Nuff said.
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
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    'Nuff said.


    Was this the girl from Little Miss Sunshine?! icon_smile.gif No, I think that one had a bumblebee outfit on icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
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    'Nuff said.


    Was this the girl from Little Miss Sunshine?! icon_smile.gif No, I think that one had a bumblebee outfit on icon_smile.gif .....

    Wait a minute, is that u when u were a kid?! icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    No, that actually is Miss Breslin from Little Miss Sunshine but thank you for proving my point. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    I used to have a problem with some features, but after going to two prides this summer, I received tons of compliments which really boosted my confidence. I'm fine with myself now. :^]

    That might sound a little backwards or conceited, but it made me feel better about myself.
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    Jul 18, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    IceBuckets saidNo, that actually is Miss Breslin from Little Miss Sunshine but thank you for proving my point. icon_lol.gif


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  • HottJoe

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    Jul 18, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
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    'Nuff said.

    At least you're color coordinated.
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidI used to have a problem with some features, but after going to two prides this summer, I received tons of compliments which really boosted my confidence. I'm fine with myself now. :^]

    That might sound a little backwards or conceited, but it made me feel better about myself.


    We should all feel good about ourselves shouldn't we?.....It's just easier for some than others because they have all the desired assets that society at large deems desirable.....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    brokebackpoundin saidi've learned not to stare at myself in the mirror. my aunt warned me back like 12 years ago to not do that shit. she's right. the gym is FULL of mirrors so of course, if you're NOT confident with your appearance. you're gonna be looking @ yourself like that.

    i really don't give a fuck about my appearance to be honest with you. i really don't care about my body and the way it looks. it is what it is.


    It's a double-edged sword: at one way u want people to care how good u look & at another u want to be happy with urself regardless of how u look....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:04 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidimages?q=tbn:ANd9GcR977M3QPFuM0y00agWKSg
    Some days I feel BIG and curvy like the Honey Boo Boo Child!
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    Sassy too!


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    Jul 18, 2013 3:05 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    IceBuckets saidz8uw.jpg

    'Nuff said.

    At least you're color coordinated.


    Right?! icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    I'm slowly but surely learning to be comfortable in my own body. I'm probably in the best shape of my life but still think I can use improvements. Especially with regards to the little love handles I think I have. Some people can't see them, but it's obvious to me.

    Other stuff like my height and big ears I've embraced, just my chest area is always a concern.

    Though Miami is no place for guys with body issues. I'm at the beach almost every weekend hanging with some beautiful men from all over the world. I really had to step my gym routine up since moving here....icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    IceBuckets saidz8uw.jpg

    'Nuff said.

    At least you're color coordinated.

    Heh baby I know. icon_cool.gif
  • TannerMasseur

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    Jul 18, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI'm slowly but surely learning to be comfortable in my own body. I'm probably in the best shape of my life but still think I can use improvements. Especially with regards to the little love handles I think I have. Some people can't see them, but it's obvious to me.

    Other stuff like my height and big ears I've embraced, just my chest area is always a concern.

    Though Miami is no place for guys with body issues. I'm at the beach almost every weekend hanging with some beautiful men from all over the world. I really had to step my gym routine up since moving here....icon_cool.gif


    Ain't that the truth---Miami & body issues don't mix! I love that embrace icon_smile.gif Learn to accept / embrace all that u are icon_smile.gif .....U can only improve urself as best u can icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:24 AM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    HottJoe said
    IceBuckets saidz8uw.jpg

    'Nuff said.

    At least you're color coordinated.

    Heh baby I know. icon_cool.gif


    "Work it!" icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:28 AM GMT
    brokebackpoundin said
    spgem said
    brokebackpoundin saidi've learned not to stare at myself in the mirror. my aunt warned me back like 12 years ago to not do that shit. she's right. the gym is FULL of mirrors so of course, if you're NOT confident with your appearance. you're gonna be looking @ yourself like that.

    i really don't give a fuck about my appearance to be honest with you. i really don't care about my body and the way it looks. it is what it is.


    It's a double-edged sword: at one way u want people to care how good u look & at another u want to be happy with urself regardless of how u look....


    well, i've grown to the point where it doesn't matter anymore. maybe back in the last two years of high school and college because i actually cared a bit about looking attractive. now, i realized that it's pointless. i can't control what the next person thinks about how i look. people have their own taste. if they think i'm cute, cool. if they think i'm ugly, cool. it makes no sense to worry about the uncontrollable. that's one reason why OCD had my mind and me on lockdown. i let my life be controlled around my fear of the uncontrollable. what i ended up doing was stupid shit and actually letting my life be controlled around that stupid shit thinking that it was going to make people think i'm attractive, make me feel smarter, make good things
    happen for me. sheit, it was horrible.

    well, i can't control what the next person thinks of me. body dysmorphia is just another way of someone trying to seek acceptance through others by way of their body. i'm content with what i have. content enough where i really don't care what other people think and am not looking for other people's approval.


    We should all be more like u brokeback icon_smile.gif U got it right icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    spgem said

    "Work it!" icon_smile.gif

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    Jul 18, 2013 3:33 AM GMT
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:34 AM GMT
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    'Nuff said.


    I knew you would post something like this. STOP IT!! You're frigging GORGEOUS AND ADORABLE!!! icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    brokebackpoundin said
    spgem said
    brokebackpoundin said
    spgem said
    brokebackpoundin saidi've learned not to stare at myself in the mirror. my aunt warned me back like 12 years ago to not do that shit. she's right. the gym is FULL of mirrors so of course, if you're NOT confident with your appearance. you're gonna be looking @ yourself like that.

    i really don't give a fuck about my appearance to be honest with you. i really don't care about my body and the way it looks. it is what it is.


    It's a double-edged sword: at one way u want people to care how good u look & at another u want to be happy with urself regardless of how u look....


    well, i've grown to the point where it doesn't matter anymore. maybe back in the last two years of high school and college because i actually cared a bit about looking attractive. now, i realized that it's pointless. i can't control what the next person thinks about how i look. people have their own taste. if they think i'm cute, cool. if they think i'm ugly, cool. it makes no sense to worry about the uncontrollable. that's one reason why OCD had my mind and me on lockdown. i let my life be controlled around my fear of the uncontrollable. what i ended up doing was stupid shit and actually letting
    my life be controlled around that stupid shit thinking that it was going to make people think i'm attractive, make me feel smarter, make good things
    happen for me. sheit, it was horrible.

    well, i can't control what the next person thinks of me. body dysmorphia is just another way of someone trying to seek acceptance through others by way of their body. i'm content with what i have. content enough where i really don't care what other people think and am not looking for other people's approval.


    We should all be more like u brokeback icon_smile.gif U got it right
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    actually, i can't cosign that. follow the advice BUT don't be like me because i'm fucked up.


    Aren't we all?! Some more than others, but it's the common denominator among all of us icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    spgem said

    "Work it!" icon_smile.gif

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    Love that movie! icon_smile.gif It's in my DVD collection icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:40 AM GMT
    Not satisfied with my weight, but have been slimming down and trying to build some strength. As far as my face, I think I'll look better when I drop some pounds, but I'm still not thrilled with my looks.