Issues With Women

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    Jul 18, 2013 3:32 AM GMT
    Alright, guys! We've all gone through this: the time when you spent many moments of your life with a chick or two, and then, they say, "I like you," or flirt with you, or throw themselves at you for attention, and have to try to "gently" break their heart when you tell them you're gay.

    That, or when you're doing something with a girl, like working out or getting coffee, they tell you, "You're my gay best friend." Of course, you give a weird look and don't know how to react but simply say you don't like that kind of identifier. As a masculine guy like me, I've gone through these things and had some interesting reactions from these scenarios.

    What happened to you in these situations? Don't be afraid to go in to full detail, haha.
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:53 AM GMT
    You know there are some gay men who love hangin with girls....swapping fashion ideas and stuff.That is my fiancée.I m the gay who prefers hangin with men.No problem with socializing with women I just prefer hangin with men.Ry
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:56 AM GMT
    Pump n Dump.
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    Jul 18, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    1) if a girl likes me I'm probably happier than when a cute guy likes me, it's a sense of "yeah, you want this, ain't neva getting it"

    2) MANY gays are masculine as well, what does that have to do with a girl considering you her gay best friend? At the end of the day you're gay and if you're good friends, well, who would've known, you're the gay best friend! Has nothing to do with how you act lol
  • killercliche

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    Jul 18, 2013 6:29 AM GMT
    I like when the hot girls like me, but I try not to get very involved with women in general.

    "Got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one" etc.
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    Jul 18, 2013 6:38 AM GMT
    I was in a gay bar, all men except for one girl.
    She was seriously putting the moves on me.
    And, she kept saying, "How do you know if you've never tried it ?"
    Well, I know I wouldn't like to be stabbed in the eye. I don't need to try it.

    I always wondered what she expected to find in a gay bar, other than GAY MEN.

    But, I also think that a LOT of women think they could switch gay men to straight, if they could just get them into bed. Roll my eyes.
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    Jul 18, 2013 6:40 AM GMT
    rippedcollegeguy said

    That, or when you're doing something with a girl, like working out or getting coffee, they tell you, "You're my gay best friend."



    I was working out with a female friend. She INSISTED on doing my leg routine, just at a lighter weight. She ended up puking. I felt bad, kinda.
  • BmwKid92

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    Jul 18, 2013 6:43 AM GMT
    i like the pump n dump remark... yea try that
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    Jul 18, 2013 6:46 AM GMT
    None of this has ever happened to me ... icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 7:27 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidI was in a gay bar, all men except for one girl.
    She was seriously putting the moves on me.
    And, she kept saying, "How do you know if you've never tried it ?"
    Well, I know I wouldn't like to be stabbed in the eye. I don't need to try it.

    I always wondered what she expected to find in a gay bar, other than GAY MEN.

    But, I also think that a LOT of women think they could switch gay men to straight, if they could just get them into bed. Roll my eyes.


    icon_lol.gif Maybe she was a tranny! You mean...like how a lot of gay guys think they can switch a straight man if only they can get his pants down?
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    Jul 18, 2013 10:29 AM GMT
    If a woman said I was her gay best friend, I'd take it as a compliment. icon_cool.gif
  • secondstartot...

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    Jul 18, 2013 11:13 AM GMT
    I Adore my girlfriends !!!!
    and they are all proud to be my ....
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    Jul 18, 2013 11:16 AM GMT
    My sister asked me if I was gay when I was 16. I confirmed. She then got excited and said we could have slumber parties with her friends and do hair and stuff. I said, no we couldn't.

    Since then, I'm her boring gay brother.
    Oh well.
  • spacemagic

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    Jul 18, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    Having a girl crush on me has only ever been an actual issue once, but we were able to work through it and have been very close friends for years. I was in her wedding, actually.

    I also reject the notion that a gay guy hangs out with girls to become, basically, "one of the girls". I've always gotten along better with females, but they respect that I'm a man and have interests you'd expect from a typical male, gay or straight. Besides, a lot of my female friends are some of the coolest dudes I've ever hung around.
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:04 PM GMT
    Women keep falling in love with me.
    Men? Not so much.
    (Although if things work out with the present guy I'm courting - I'll never complain again.)
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:17 PM GMT
    As long as she not calling me girl, we and her are cool. Do u know that saying, all girls need a gay friend I hate it, it make gay men look like an accessory. but those moments when u see that a girl is in to u, are always awkard.
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    Jul 18, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    I've always gotten along better with women. Of course, most just assume I'm straight since I'm not flamboyant about it. I've been thinking about just coming out and telling my closest female friend, but the right time never comes up.

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    Jul 18, 2013 3:55 PM GMT
    gayinterest saidMy sister asked me if I was gay when I was 16. I confirmed. She then got excited and said we could have slumber parties with her friends and do hair and stuff. I said, no we couldn't.

    Since then, I'm her boring gay brother.
    Oh well.

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  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 18, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    mostly fem guys make girl friends ... the rest of us make guy friends icon_biggrin.gif
  • secondstartot...

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    Jul 18, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    and us balanced ones make friends with gays and straights and girls and everyone inbetween
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    Jul 18, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    My sister is 2 years younger than me, and always complained that her friends would always fall in love with me. They couldn't believe I was gay.

    I don't have a problem with women so it never bothered me. Let them by you your drinks, meh.. see if you can get a car out of them.

    What? They do it to guys all the time. icon_confused.gif

    I'm just kidding ...
  • spacemagic

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    Jul 18, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidand us balanced ones make friends with gays and straights and girls and everyone inbetween


    Thank you. That's the point I was trying to make myself.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jul 18, 2013 5:05 PM GMT
    humm, see i never have that problem. i don't hangout with a lot of women. most of the my buddies are men and straight. i do not like shopping or doing girl talk so women do not usually hangout with me unless they are a lesbian. ha ha ha
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 18, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidmostly fem guys make girl friends ... the rest of us make guy friends icon_biggrin.gif

    Unless you're like the Angelina Jolie of fem men.icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    I do not have relationships with women and I don't have gal pals. I find women and their endless chatter tiresome and god help you if you cross them. They're vicious.

    Not too long ago an acquaintance of mine and my BF greeted us as we walked into a party with a loud: "Hey! My two favorite gay men! I want you guys to be my gay husbands! I just love you guys! Please be my gay husbands!"

    Ugh! So annoying.