Getting out of a hookup/ date

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    Jul 18, 2013 9:14 PM GMT
    Last night i made a hookup date with a guy i shouldnt of. Im not physically attracted to him. I just kept talking and wouldnt shut up.Anyway im trying to get out of it. When you guys are in this situation, how do you handle it? What do you say without sounding like a jack ass?
  • Apparition

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    Jul 18, 2013 9:21 PM GMT
    90% of guys dont show up, why shouldnt you be any different?
    Just call and say you have to cancel.


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    Jul 18, 2013 9:27 PM GMT
    I felt the same way.... but I went anyways

    I felt disgusting.. Washed my mouth with soap on top of Listerine and brushing and took a shower.. EW! icon_eek.gif
    Sounds like rape but no I just REALLY screwed up and No Longer hooking up.

    DONT DO IT!
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    Jul 18, 2013 9:28 PM GMT
    Just saying something came up is not really being dishonest. Something did come up, you decided you were not attracted to him. You don't know him, so all you really owe him is the courtesy to tell him you are not going to make it, not a reason why. Just don't get on the hook up sites or apps tonight.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 18, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
    just meet him and get a quick blowjob then say you gotta go be cause your wife thinks you just ran to the store icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 11:05 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidjust meet him and get a quick blowjob then say you gotta go be cause your wife thinks you just ran to the store icon_lol.gif

    +1
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    Jul 18, 2013 11:11 PM GMT
    Say to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 18, 2013 11:27 PM GMT
    Ohno saidSay to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif


    This!
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    Jul 19, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Ohno saidSay to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif


    This!


    But what if he says..... " it's fine mine are swelling up too icon_smile.gif "
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    Jul 19, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    Were you under the influence of alcohol?
    Just let the guy down lightly. A nice person should always know the nice way to do things.
  • Apparition

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    Jul 19, 2013 10:16 PM GMT
    TheRece25 said
    GAMRican said
    Ohno saidSay to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif


    This!


    But what if he says..... " it's fine mine are swelling up too icon_smile.gif "


    well you win either way right? cancel.
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    Jul 19, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
    Just tell him that you're not physically attracted to him. Why make up an excuse when you can actually tell him the truth?
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    Jul 19, 2013 10:20 PM GMT
    mike34 saidLast night i made a hookup date with a guy i shouldnt of. Im not physically attracted to him. I just kept talking and wouldnt shut up.Anyway im trying to get out of it. When you guys are in this situation, how do you handle it? What do you say without sounding like a jack ass?


    So we're not meeting in the Denny's restroom tonight? icon_mad.gif
  • josephmovie

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    Jul 19, 2013 10:21 PM GMT
    Just text him with "Sorry, am gong to have to cancel. My apologies. I've got few things going on at the moment".

    And leave it at that.
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    Jul 19, 2013 10:24 PM GMT
    mike34 saidLast night i made a hookup date with a guy i shouldnt of. Im not physically attracted to him. I just kept talking and wouldnt shut up.Anyway im trying to get out of it. When you guys are in this situation, how do you handle it? What do you say without sounding like a jack ass?


    Be smart about it. Plan ahead. Have a friend call you maybe ten minutes after they arrive just for a random reason. If you're into the guy, just say "Oh hey, let me call you back." But if they guy is not what you're into, excuse yourself. Take the call in another room then come back and say you have a little emergency and need to leave immediately. Apologize profusely and bolt. Works every time.

    Also, it would be wise to meet someone in a place other than your home if its a first meet. (Just in case this was the situation)
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    Jul 19, 2013 10:28 PM GMT
    Send him a letter with a local morgue's letter head. Have the letter explain that you died in horrific accident and therefore cannot bump uglies. Also, let him down easily by hand delivering the letter.
  • mybud

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    Jul 19, 2013 10:36 PM GMT
    Tell him the truth...Tell him you had second thoughts...Wish him well...Be a man about it.
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    Jul 19, 2013 11:04 PM GMT
    Ohno saidSay to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif


    LMAO that is good...I'll go with that
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jul 19, 2013 11:21 PM GMT
    Go but just be up front with him and then you will for sure know there is 0 chem and he will get the message

    No need to be a coward or a fake ass like people are telling you to be icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 19, 2013 11:25 PM GMT
    Scream "My cat is on fire!" and run away to your house.
    Works every time.
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    Jul 19, 2013 11:46 PM GMT
    mike34 said
    Ohno saidSay to him "my herpes has flared up is that a problem?" Result: hookup cancelled and no guilt icon_twisted.gif


    LMAO that is good...I'll go with that

    You mean the time of when this hook up was to happen has not yet passed? Hook ups have gotten so complicated today. Back in my single days there wasn't any planning ahead with time to post a thread on the internet, it was just "Your place or mine?" or "Where do you want to meet?" followed by "Okay, see you in a few minutes."
  • d_1M

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    Jul 19, 2013 11:48 PM GMT
    thats how you become a FLAKE
    no biggy!!
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    Jul 20, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidJust tell him ASAP that you can't make it. This way he can go about his day/evening and make plans and just move on.

    He'll get the hint.

    This.
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    Jul 20, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidJust tell him that you're not physically attracted to him. Why make up an excuse when you can actually tell him the truth?



    I totally agree! icon_smile.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 20, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
    mybud saidTell him the truth...Tell him you had second thoughts...Wish him well...Be a man about it.


    Agreed

    Or go into great detail about your frequent explosive diarrhea