SHOPPING FOR AN RJ BOYFRIEND.....

  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 19, 2013 12:20 PM GMT
    OK, now we all get messages from guys interested in knowing us on a personal level. Most are friendly and I almost always respond in a varying way, but always try and be polite.

    Yesterday I received a message from a guy with various positive commentary, comments like "beautiful", etc. I responded and thanked him, but explained that I'm seeing someone, but happy to be a friend.

    This morning I received a copy again. Perhaps he has adopted a "mass marketing approach" for a new boyfriend via RJ members. Interesting. He should keep it clear on who he's messaged and who he hasn't yet.. haha.

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    Jul 19, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    At least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.
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    Jul 19, 2013 1:13 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.

    I used to get the female messages until about 2 years ago. I have no idea how they picked me out, an old guy on a gay site. Same with the English-challenged guys from Third-World countries who would contact me, on their first day as RJ members, then disappear. I often wondered if some of my RJ nemeses had spammed my RJ account to international dating sites, just to be nasty, or if they were sock accounts meant to mess with me, and maybe with others here.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 19, 2013 2:49 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.


    That's hilarious....I assume from other social outlets than this one..haha
  • PR_GMR

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    Jul 19, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    You're very hunky looking, Kansan, so I'm not surprised you get many 'boyfriend' requests here. I've been getting some myself. The thing is--I don't post here to meet men that way. I just post here for the social aspect. It's sad to see men from halfway across the world messaging me and hoping to meet. It's tremendously unrealistic. I'm not open to dating anyone unless you live in the NYC/NJ area. Anyone that's too far needs to find someone nearby.
  • PR_GMR

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    Jul 19, 2013 3:16 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    PR_GMR saidYou're very hunky looking, Kansan, so I'm not surprised you get many 'boyfriend' requests here. I've been getting some myself. The thing is--I don't post here to meet men that way. I just post here for the social aspect. It's sad to see men from halfway across the world messaging me and hoping to meet. It's tremendously unrealistic. I'm not open to dating anyone unless you live in the NYC/NJ area. Anyone that's too far needs to find someone nearby.

    Does that mean it's over? (sob)
    I'm taking the ring back, you swine!


    I'm sorry, Sharkie.

    But...

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    ...

    There's plenty of other fish in the sea! (/Badumpdump!) icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 19, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.

    It's because you're so manly looking….no one can tell if you're gay or str8!

    I get the proposals for dating too but they're usually from guys that are about 10,000 miles away and with no pictures or profile data …..HA!
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    Jul 19, 2013 3:51 PM GMT

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    Jul 19, 2013 3:54 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.



    Hey... Last time I looked I still have a penis... icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidOK, now we all get messages from guys interested in knowing us on a personal level.


    We do? icon_confused.gif

    ... Don't really get any myself ... icon_cry.gif
  • thatirishbast...

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    Jul 19, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    I got a message from a 23 year old underwear model from Belarus who's looking for a boyfriend and hoping we can get to know each other. I think it's love.
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.


    That's hilarious....I assume from other social outlets than this one..haha


    No, I get them here with reasonable frequency. It's strange.
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    TheQuest said
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.



    Hey... Last time I looked I still have a penis... icon_confused.gif


    Haha, I am quite aware. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:37 PM GMT
    thatirishbastard saidI got a message from a 23 year old underwear model from Belarus who's looking for a boyfriend and hoping we can get to know each other. I think it's love.
    You mean to tell me they don't really want to be my boyfriend???
    It's not Love???
    It's not Real?!?
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    Well, I guess I've been doing it wrong. Please expect my PM spams later today. I have to go through the formative writing process to figure out what my personal ad will say.
  • mybud

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    Jul 19, 2013 4:45 PM GMT
    Shopping fo a bf on rj???????????Duh large shopping carts are kept in duh back.
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.

    This. All of this.
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:49 PM GMT
    mybud saidShopping fo a bf on rj???????????Duh large shopping carts are kept in duh back.


    Ready now. Thanks.

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    Jul 19, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    Well, to be charitable about it, unless you keep a cross-referenced database, it's not easy to keep track of who you may have sent messages to in the past. I myself may have tried to start a conversation with a few people more than once. Although certainly I can remember it for more than a few days. Usually.
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    Jul 19, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    TheQuest said
    mybud saidShopping fo a bf on rj???????????Duh large shopping carts are kept in duh back.


    Ready now. Thanks.

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    oooooh. shopping for serious lumber, I see icon_wink.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Jul 19, 2013 5:46 PM GMT
    brokebackpoundin saidsome people take this site way too seriously. some people don't realize that simply because we see our posts on the computer, our pictures and shit like that doesn't change the fact that we're still strangers who don't know each other. like if you were to put all the real jock members together in one room to talk, it would be ONE awkward ass meeting. folks would be all shy, nervous and scared to look @ each other. folks that were all dissing each other, ready to fight will be hugging it out or scared to fight. icon_lol.gif it's that some members on here try way too hard to put across an impression such as being models, sexy, or vicious BUT it's like an act though.


    Wisest thing I've seen you post.
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    Jul 19, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    I only get marriage requests. icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 19, 2013 5:59 PM GMT
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.


    There are women on here?? I hate when I see a cute guy and then realize he's a lesbian. I thought I was safe from that here.
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    Jul 19, 2013 6:01 PM GMT
    mindgarden said
    TheQuest said
    mybud saidShopping fo a bf on rj???????????Duh large shopping carts are kept in duh back.


    Ready now. Thanks.

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    oooooh. shopping for serious lumber, I see icon_wink.gif


    Yes. There is room for you on one of those carts. Hop on.
  • MikeW

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    Jul 19, 2013 6:37 PM GMT
    uoft23 said
    showme saidAt least yours are from guys. I get the women who want to get to know me better. Apparently unclear on the whole gay thing.


    There are women on here?? I hate when I see a cute guy and then realize he's a lesbian. I thought I was safe from that here.

    LOL, yeah that happens to me too. Totally messes with my brain.