Gay sex books....

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    Nov 09, 2008 2:43 AM GMT
    This is just a general question. Does anyone know of any gay sex books.
    Me and my partner have a very fulfilling sex life (about 16-20 times a week, honestly). The only thing is I would like it to last longer sometimes.
    You know when it just becomes an exact science, literally, if we are in a hurry we've got it down to like 3 min.

    I wanna see if we can make it last longer. Hmmmmm.... Any suggestions. We don't use drugs either so that's out of the question.
  • Timbales

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    Nov 09, 2008 2:54 AM GMT
    I think there is a Kama Sutra of Gay Sex.
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    Nov 09, 2008 5:22 AM GMT
    I think the best way to explore this is not through books but through fantasy.

    As lovers, you two seem to have a very active sex life. But, like most people, you are still wanting. What is it that you desire? Longer sessions is one thing, but what would you like to happen in that time? For example, BDSM relationships are not about penetrative sex exclusively, but can have hours long foreplay involving paddles, clothespins, and pincers. Exploring the headspace of yourself and your partner can uncover gems of sexual psychodrama to be played out in the bedroom.

    go get 'em.
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    Nov 09, 2008 2:39 PM GMT
    Zombie, I love you...
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    Nov 09, 2008 3:50 PM GMT

    Fuck less... but when you do, get a movie out, drink some booze, cuddle up and chill out and nurse your boners.
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    Nov 09, 2008 4:43 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidZombie, I love you...


    right back at ya
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    Nov 09, 2008 6:52 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidI think the best way to explore this is not through books but through fantasy.

    As lovers, you two seem to have a very active sex life. But, like most people, you are still wanting. What is it that you desire? Longer sessions is one thing, but what would you like to happen in that time? For example, BDSM relationships are not about penetrative sex exclusively, but can have hours long foreplay involving paddles, clothespins, and pincers. Exploring the headspace of yourself and your partner can uncover gems of sexual psychodrama to be played out in the bedroom.

    go get 'em.


    Ever thought of becoming a gay counsellor?
  • GQjock

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    Nov 09, 2008 7:53 PM GMT
    The guys have been telling you the truth ....

    If you want longer sessions then shoot for them .... Sorry wrong choice of words icon_wink.gif
    Start out by not going for the Dicks right away
    Make it a game ... Have some fun
    Explore some fantasies
    You'll learn alot about each other
  • healthseeker

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    Nov 11, 2008 7:41 PM GMT
    I think Zombie deserves his own column.