How much do you need to cuddle to feel appreciated?

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    Jul 20, 2013 4:37 PM GMT
    I like lots of cuddling and affection. It hurts when i go without. Working the same schedule as my partner would be ideal, if he couldn't support me that is, or i couldn't support him. I have lots of work to do on my comic and stuff before I can say I'm retired.
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    Jul 20, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    Cuddling shouldn't really be a show of appreciation or approval, it should be something to make yourself feel better and relaxed.
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    Jul 20, 2013 8:12 PM GMT
    IrishDarren saidCuddling shouldn't really be a show of appreciation or approval, it should be something to make yourself feel better and relaxed.


    Says who? What would I be relaxing from or for?
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    Jul 20, 2013 8:23 PM GMT
    To me, even though i like and its common to play sports with your partner, competitive attitudes should be left on the field/court.

    "Quit playing games with my heart"
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    Jul 20, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    Cuddling's for girls. I have more important things to accomplish, but thanks for the blow job.
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    Jul 21, 2013 4:17 PM GMT
    I personally don't like to be cuddled or touched. I get mad right away if I am O.o
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    Jul 21, 2013 4:22 PM GMT
    I love to cuddle, makes me feel safe and loved.
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    Jul 21, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    I love to cuddle and be cuddled - to be held in a muscular embrace is wonderful ! Real men cuddle !
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:10 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidCuddling's for girls. I have more important things to accomplish, but thanks for the blow job.

    Amen brother! You can say that to me any time as you zip up and leave.
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    Gabriel_Munoz saidI personally don't like to be cuddled or touched. I get mad right away if I am O.o


    You got issues.....icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:24 PM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidI love to cuddle and be cuddled - to be held in a muscular embrace is wonderful ! Real men cuddle !

    I'm not the only one, then icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    Looking_to_come_out said
    secondstartotheright saidI love to cuddle and be cuddled - to be held in a muscular embrace is wonderful ! Real men cuddle !

    I'm not the only one, then icon_biggrin.gif


    Yeah like I said men cuddle - barbarians and neanderthals hump and leave
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidI like lots of cuddling and affection. It hurts when i go without.

    My husband & I fall asleep touching each other most nights. Not a full cuddle, that would make us too warm. But always something, and again in the morning as we awake, that reminds me how fortunate I am to have a loving man next to me.

    But this interests me: in your RJ profile you put that you are a "video editor that warns epileptic people".

    I happen to be an epileptic. So what does that consist of, how do you "warn" epileptics?
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:46 PM GMT
    Hillie said
    Gabriel_Munoz saidI personally don't like to be cuddled or touched. I get mad right away if I am O.o


    You got issues.....icon_lol.gif



    maybe I do......icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 21, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    Well cuddle can be bad if its comforting over without the right set of emotions. I really do believe it all comes down to the set of vibration/feeling that you're giving, cause we all are humans not humanoids.

    If you do sense and observe you can tell a cuddle or hug that is genuine by just feeling it.

    How much? well that first 1 minute will tell you that the receiver is mutually feeling it that said without interfering whatever that is on the mind...and obviously you can feel how much your physically heart is actually pumping that warmth to the other. By that I don't mean heart beat or rate. Something only a very sensitive heart can tell..icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 21, 2013 6:59 PM GMT
    Cuddling is great, especially after wild, raunchy sex.
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    Jul 21, 2013 8:57 PM GMT
    I'm a compulsive cuddler. I've been known to cuddle for 6-7 straight hours (watching tv, listening to music, napping and talking included). But I can get by with a few hrs a week as we watch some show or something.
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:03 PM GMT
    Har19 said
    If you do sense and observe you can tell a cuddle or hug that is genuine by just feeling it.

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    Exactly. If there is love there, you can really sense it when you cuddle, and you can feel it more strongly than when you look into another man's eyes because there is physical intimacy being shared.
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:22 PM GMT
    I'm not gonna lead somebody on and tell a guy to drop everything and rearrange their life though just to mac, how rude would that be? He'd probably think i was joking anyway.
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:26 PM GMT
    Cuddling is great but like sex, it's really better with someone you love and trust
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    I'm a cuddle camel, a good cuddling session leaves me sated for months and months.
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:53 PM GMT
    I love cuddling, its shows affection and its greatafter having sex.
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    Jul 21, 2013 9:57 PM GMT
    I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
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    Jul 21, 2013 10:21 PM GMT
    i love spooning icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 21, 2013 11:51 PM GMT
    I don't really need to cuddle to feel appreciated but if I'm not having sex, I'm cuddling and spooning. We take turns with who is going to be the big or little spoon. Whoever is "flat" on one side after a few hours of sleep, turns - and then the other turns with him, and the spooning continues through the night. Spooning often turns into a little something else though, so................