Attracting hotter girls than guys

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    Jul 20, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    I've been noticing that in mostly-straight settings I generally attract girls who are 8/10, while when going out with the gays I generally attract 6/10 guys. With girls, I attract all kinds, while with guys, I only get Asian, black or brown.

    My friends say it's "cuz your Asian", and gays don't like Asians. Is this a new thing?
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    Jul 20, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    The ethnicity on your profile says " white " ...
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    Jul 20, 2013 8:07 PM GMT
    You can always pretend to be Korean if you aren't already.

    Gays of all stripes make exception for Korean men for some reason... that's the "new thing", whereas most Asians in general have always been at the bottom of the totem pole, which anyone would notice if they haven't been living under a rock.
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    Jul 21, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    But I have no problems with the ladies. This "totem pole" seems to be a gay thing... why?
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    Jul 21, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    Yes Korean businessmen are hot.
  • offshore

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    Jul 21, 2013 1:06 PM GMT
    Fuck Asians! They will all die alone and not getting any sex for eternity.

    Not *ANOTHER* Asian race thread.
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:11 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidThe ethnicity on your profile says " white " ...


    #BUSTED!
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    offshore saidFuck Asians! They will all die alone and not getting any sex for eternity.

    Not *ANOTHER* Asian race thread.


    That's not a cool thing to say mate!
    AND.. It's not true..
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:17 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    offshore saidFuck Asians! They will all die alone and not getting any sex for eternity.

    Not *ANOTHER* Asian race thread.


    That's not a cool thing to say mate!
    AND.. It's not true..


    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sarcasm
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:21 PM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    APOLOGIES.. I think I need coffee.. icon_sad.gif

    I'm sorry Offshore..
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:28 PM GMT
    Go straight!
  • starboard5

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    Jul 21, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    I've had a similar experience all my life. I think it's because women are more complex than men; they're attracted to a much wider menu of characteristics.
  • offshore

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    Jul 21, 2013 1:37 PM GMT
    starboard5 saidI've had a similar experience all my life. I think it's because women are more complex than men; they're attracted to a much wider menu of characteristics.


    Women are somewhat less visual oriented in selecting sexual mates than males.
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    Jul 21, 2013 1:39 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidThe ethnicity on your profile says " white " ...


    ,,,,, +1
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    Jul 21, 2013 2:28 PM GMT
    I guess I kind of see what you're trying to say.
    I've met and know a fair number of beautiful girls who have awesome personalities (mind you, partly the reason why I think they are so beautiful is because of their personalities).
    Every now and then I always wonder that if I were straight, would I have actually ended up in a relationship with one of them?

    I click heaps better with women than I do men, and I am honest enough with myself to know it's at least partly due to me probably being more effeminate than masculine if we were to compare between the two categories.

    Not that I'm judging people who have this particular lifestyle but where I live, there is a big culture of hooking up amongst my generation. Unfortunately I really am wired differently because that doesn't appeal to me at all.

    Anyway coincidentally I have also never really been interested in having a relationship either so it works out I guess. I just meander through life doing whatever I feel like.
  • backonline

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    Jul 21, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    I have a similar problem - the ladies love me. Im not out which complicates things, so Im always getting numbers or friends telling me so-and-so is interested. And these are really attractive girls. its kind of awkward. i dont try at all. I think that is part of it. not giving a fuck makes them want you more... basic psychology. Whereas with guys im super shy and dont know what to say. i also think gay men are more superficial than straight women - a 10 gay guy will only want to be with a 10 guy, where as a 10 girl is more open-minded.
  • jmanorlando

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    Jul 21, 2013 5:51 PM GMT
    Maybe you just come across more carefree and social while out at regular bars and maybe more closed off a gay clubs. This can change who might approach you.

    I would say, does it matter if someone if a 4, 6, 8 or 10? In life do you want eye candy or a partner? An ass who is a 10 is never as awesome as a cool, interesting and fun guy who isn't.
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    Jul 21, 2013 6:21 PM GMT
    Gay guys are weird about who they'll even be friends with, much less date.
  • Buddha

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    Jul 21, 2013 6:43 PM GMT
    leo23 saidIt has nothing to do with your race.


    ... necessarily.

    Race can really be a deal-or-no-deal for some people. If it wasn't we wouldn't see a thread about it every week.
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    Jul 21, 2013 7:20 PM GMT
    offshore said
    starboard5 saidI've had a similar experience all my life. I think it's because women are more complex than men; they're attracted to a much wider menu of characteristics.


    Women are somewhat less visual oriented in selecting sexual mates than males.


    i would disagree with above statement. For one, its a well known fact ( in academic studies) that woman are less willing to date outside their race then men are. i would say its about the same.
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    Jul 21, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    The saddest part about this thread is how the OP thinks he'll be "found out" on this website if he lists himself as Asian, instead of White. icon_lol.gif Please seek professional help.
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    Jul 21, 2013 8:06 PM GMT
    I can relate. As a fairly successful young black male, I come across very attractve women who are interested in me, esp black & white. But I am told by friends (gay & straight) that "I would not have thought you were gay" so maybe that is why I get better female options (I'm not bi) than male options although I'm not really complaining about the later.

    But I'm okay with women finding me more attractive then men do. That seems to be my case.
  • ai82

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    Jul 21, 2013 8:06 PM GMT
    I still don't understand this number system...7's and 8's and 10's. If a person is attractive, they're attractive, if not, then not. It sounds like the people ur most attracted to are not approaching, so perhaps you should approach them.
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    Jul 21, 2013 8:11 PM GMT
    ai82 saidI still don't understand this number system...7's and 8's and 10's. If a person is attractive, they're attractive, if not, then not. It sounds like the people ur most attracted to are not approaching, so perhaps you should approach them.


    It's about popularity. This is not in the eye of the beholder. Some people are very sought-after, others are not. The higher the number, the more sought-after they are.
  • The_Guruburu

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    Jul 21, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    So, basically, you're concerned about why you can get hot girls of all races, but you can't get hot white guys, and are pulling not-as-hot colored dudes. Perhaps you'll find some insight within these threads?