I have heard it used, but not just on me, I was told that by a former high school mate after I told him I was gay, and he said it seemed that it seemed that I was trying too hard to be someone im not.
Didn't you just say in another thread that at some point you had tried to force yourself to be str8? And wasn't that in a thread about forcing yourself to be a top? And now a thread on trying too hard?
Do you see the pattern here?
So you're saying I shouldn't try to be a top if that's not in my nature, and I shouldn't dictate my nature to make others happy?
you should be a psychotherapist hehe
EDIT: But i would like to try and actually be able to top, i want to know what the experience feels like, so the parallel here isn't entirely justified.