"Although I respect conventional marriage, it’s not the right choice for me. I’m not a true pair bonder. Building my children’s home life on the shifting sands of love and intimacy with an individual partner would be uncomfortable. I like to be part of an extended community in which family life is a shared experience. Apparently I'm not alone, as services such as Modamily.com match partners who want to be parents, but aren't interested in falling in love. Everyone is interested, however, in creating a family."