Dating a transsexual or transgendered guy

  • yeahhh1

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    Jul 23, 2013 11:10 AM GMT
    What's your attitude? Feelings? Thoughts? :-)

    You met a guy - on-line or in real life. He's good-looking, funny, you share similar interests, start dating. You can see it going somewhere, but you only met him recently. Let's say he then tells you he doesn't consider himself gay but feels more like a woman inside. He's, though, not planning on changing his body to become one. He isn't feminine and seems confident. Moreover, he plays sports, loves traveling and meeting new people, and has a really nice personality. Has a goal in life. You really like him.

    Would it bother you? The fact that he isn't gay but transsexual or transgendered. Would it matter to you? Would you stop dating him right away? Or would you accept it and keep dating him? Would you see yourself spending the rest of your life with such guy if you feel that he's the right person?
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    Jul 23, 2013 11:49 AM GMT
    Hell it wouldn't matter to me one ioda if he /she is transgender, I personally thhink it would be a real thrill to datesome one like that, Hell it'd be really neat to have sex with a transgender guy /girlicon_biggrin.gif
  • MixedJock91

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    Jul 23, 2013 1:20 PM GMT
    hell no
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    Jul 23, 2013 1:20 PM GMT
    It's hard to say, hypothetically. But I know I'd wonder if he'd want to go the surgical route in the future. And that possibility might well make me hesitant to get too deeply involved.
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    Jul 23, 2013 1:20 PM GMT
    Da fuck?
  • Karl

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    Jul 23, 2013 1:22 PM GMT
    there's nothing that matters to me but if you do , stop dating him.
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    Jul 23, 2013 1:49 PM GMT
    somersault saidWhy would you date a woman with a cock?


    Honestly, from my experience in the last 2 years many gay...uh... never mind. I'm going to piss a lot of guys off on here if I say anymore lol. Carry on....
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    Jul 23, 2013 2:09 PM GMT
    yeahhh1 saidWhat's your attitude? Feelings? Thoughts? :-)

    You met a guy - on-line or in real life. He's good-looking, funny, you share similar interests, start dating. You can see it going somewhere, but you only met him recently. Let's say he then tells you he doesn't consider himself gay but feels more like a woman inside. He's, though, not planning on changing his body to become one. He isn't feminine and seems confident. Moreover, he plays sports, loves traveling and meeting new people, and has a really nice personality. Has a goal in life. You really like him.

    Would it bother you? The fact that he isn't gay but transsexual or transgendered. Would it matter to you? Would you stop dating him right away? Or would you accept it and keep dating him? Would you see yourself spending the rest of your life with such guy if you feel that he's the right person?


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  • The_Guruburu

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    Jul 23, 2013 2:27 PM GMT
    Alpha13 said
    yeahhh1 saidWhat's your attitude? Feelings? Thoughts? :-)

    You met a guy - on-line or in real life. He's good-looking, funny, you share similar interests, start dating. You can see it going somewhere, but you only met him recently. Let's say he then tells you he doesn't consider himself gay but feels more like a woman inside. He's, though, not planning on changing his body to become one. He isn't feminine and seems confident. Moreover, he plays sports, loves traveling and meeting new people, and has a really nice personality. Has a goal in life. You really like him.

    Would it bother you? The fact that he isn't gay but transsexual or transgendered. Would it matter to you? Would you stop dating him right away? Or would you accept it and keep dating him? Would you see yourself spending the rest of your life with such guy if you feel that he's the right person?


    Drugs don't make a man! It's total brainwashing by big pharma that long lterm use of hormones replacement drugs is sustainable.

    LOL!
  • Fargo

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    Jul 23, 2013 2:54 PM GMT
    How can a transgender not be feminine? Isn't this an oxymoron?

    I would never date transgender at any rate.
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    Jul 23, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
    I couldn't.

    Would I be friends with a transgendered person? Sure. But as far as dating, I just don't think I'd be able to get used to the idea.
  • LaxJock26

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    Jul 23, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    If you and this person 'click' then I don't see the problem. Yeah, it can be a shock to learn that people aren't who you perceive them as, but does it matter in the end? If you like this person, then go for it.

  • Kazachok

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    Jul 23, 2013 3:14 PM GMT
    Well if he feels he is a woman then no, I would not.
    If he is a transman then yes.
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    Jul 23, 2013 3:15 PM GMT
    yeahhh1 saidWhat's your attitude? Feelings? Thoughts? :-)

    You met a guy - on-line or in real life. He's good-looking, funny, you share similar interests, start dating. You can see it going somewhere, but you only met him recently. Let's say he then tells you he doesn't consider himself gay but feels more like a woman inside. He's, though, not planning on changing his body to become one. He isn't feminine and seems confident. Moreover, he plays sports, loves traveling and meeting new people, and has a really nice personality. Has a goal in life. You really like him.

    Would it bother you? The fact that he isn't gay but transsexual or transgendered. Would it matter to you? Would you stop dating him right away? Or would you accept it and keep dating him? Would you see yourself spending the rest of your life with such guy if you feel that he's the right person?


    Hmmm...OK so I meet a guy and he tells me he's not gay but feels like a woman inside, which would indicate to me he feels like he's in the wrong body.

    Why would he want to go out with me?
  • Bakerboy

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    Jul 23, 2013 3:16 PM GMT
    I'm shocked no one's pointed out that "transgendered" isn't a word.
  • Sebastian18

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    Jul 23, 2013 3:24 PM GMT
    Personally, I have dated transmen in the past (female to male transgender persons/FTM) and apart from the plumbing, found them to be as masculine, if not more masculine in some cases, than many of the biological guys I've been with and it didn't impact our sexual relationships one bit. I can't say my thoughts on dating male to female transwomen, but I wouldn't be opposed. I try to keep an open mind on these things.
  • The_Guruburu

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    Jul 23, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    A member since 2012? Only one forum post? Could this be...a troll thread?
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  • secondstartot...

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    Jul 23, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    Fargo saidHow can a transgender not be feminine? Isn't this an oxymoron?

    I would never date transgender at any rate.

    he is turning himself into ....
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  • owen19832006

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    Jul 23, 2013 5:17 PM GMT
    woman with a cock!! LOL!!!

    now being open minded and everything i dont think i could do it.
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 23, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    The_Guruburu saidA member since 2012? Only one forum post? Could this be...a troll thread?
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    Duh . . .
  • str8hardbody9

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    Jul 23, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    somersault saidWhy would you date a woman with a cock?


    hahahaha I totally agree NO NO NO
  • yeahhh1

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    Jul 23, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    Fargo saidHow can a transgender not be feminine? Isn't this an oxymoron?

    I would never date transgender at any rate.


    No, I don't think they all are. Like not all women are feminine or not all men act in a masculine way. Some women have balls, some men don't (metaphorically speaking) icon_wink.gif

    Let's say he's not only intelligent, graduated from a top school, nice and funny but you also find him really attractive physically. Meaning normally you would want to spend a night with him, date him, or more.

    Let's assume he'd be one of those guys:
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    Would you still never date or go to bed with such guy that's transgender? Or maybe you'd accept it? Let's say he tells you he's accepted his body, was born this way, and not planning on changing it, and not making a big deal out of it.

    Also to answer one question - not a troll thread but thanks for the analysis and warning icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 23, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    Too much for me to take, but i do remember having a crush on lesbain before. she was on that america next top model by tyra. GOd that girl was hot i think it was season 15 or 16, where they had the britz compete with american girls. Shit that girl had swagga for days
  • deezee

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    Jul 23, 2013 7:09 PM GMT
    somersault saidWhy would you date a woman with a cock?


    why not?
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    Jul 23, 2013 7:15 PM GMT
    This thread reminds me of one of my ex-roommate and a couple guys I met through some of the LGBT groups/center. To summarize it, I met a couple guys that do drag and wanted to have an Operation! I'm actually good friends with them. I even went to a Gay latin/asian bar and saw them did drag too! They're pretty! As far on the dating level goes, probably not because lol I want a man with a dick (not wanting to cut it off in Thailand or somewhere) and I like the smell of sweaty men, not girls/make-up. And they told me that they wanted to be with *straight men who like *trans-guys so yeah, it's all good. I think it's a more complex issue than just being gay!!