Can you be top and submissive at the same time?

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    Jul 23, 2013 7:16 PM GMT
    Hey guys, good day,icon_biggrin.gif
    This is my first gay topic ever, and I'm new at all these things, but there's something I'm curious about.
    Are tops strictly aggressive and bottoms strictly submissive at bed? Or can they both be aggressive with the only difference that the bottom is penetrated while the top is not?

    I'm a top, but sometimes I also like being submissive on bed without getting bottomed (that is, to be penetrated); I like being wrestled down, tied up, forced to do oral and stuff, but I don't know if that is only for bottoms, since media usually portrays bottoms as the only receivers of these gifts before getting penetrated, but what if I like these fetishes without being penetrated? is that compatible?

    What do you think?
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  • OJ89

    Posts: 106

    Jul 23, 2013 9:00 PM GMT
    I don't recall there ever being a rule book written.
    I'm top and sometimes find it really hot when a bottom guy is dominant.
  • TheBizMan

    Posts: 4091

    Jul 23, 2013 9:53 PM GMT
    I wouldn't say I was submissive, but I am definitely affectionate.

    People seem to get the two crossed sometimes.