My Ex

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    Jul 24, 2013 5:28 AM GMT
    Basically o ave to work with my ex fiance, we split up after I borrowed his phone ( he bought a new one) and he hadn't deleted his stiff properly.


    Well anyway I plugged the phone into the computer to upload a pic and I saw a whatsapp icon on the internal hard drive and clicked on it and all these combo's popped up where he had been sending nude pics of hi.self to men and then I found logs of him saying things like on my way round now and then an hour layer, your clock is massive thanks for the sex.


    All things like that, I'm devastated still but we also live together, what do I do because everything he answers his phone now or goes out or I'm at work and he isn't I I'm.ediatly think he has someone round the house shagging their brains out.


    I don't know how to handle my anger in this instance, any advice?
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    Jul 24, 2013 5:33 AM GMT
    Hmm, can't tell if typing in a cockney accent, or auto-correct is acting whacky. icon_lol.gif

    Anyways, you should move out. No point in living under the same roof if it's bothering you this much. Time to move forward in your life.
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    Jul 24, 2013 12:42 PM GMT
    Buy your own phone next time.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 24, 2013 12:54 PM GMT
    Accept it, learn from it and move on.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Jul 24, 2013 12:58 PM GMT
    be happy he is "ex".
  • thatirishbast...

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    Jul 24, 2013 1:03 PM GMT
    HETERO__DOLPHIN said'YOUR CLOCK IS MASSIVE'



    ahahaahha WHAT icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Yeah. Isn't your clock massive? I have a massive clock. We all do. Didn't you get the memo?

    220px-Clock_Tower_-_Palace_of_Westminste
    Pictured above: My massive clock thrusting upwards into the virginal skies
  • CityofDreams

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    Jul 24, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    thatirishbastard said
    HETERO__DOLPHIN said'YOUR CLOCK IS MASSIVE'



    ahahaahha WHAT icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Yeah. Isn't your clock massive? I have a massive clock. We all do. Didn't you get the memo?

    220px-Clock_Tower_-_Palace_of_Westminste
    Pictured above: My massive clock thrusting upwards into the virginal skies


    You beat me to it! I was just about to post a pic of Big Ben. Haha!
  • JackDoyle

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    Jul 24, 2013 2:21 PM GMT
    stab him
  • CityofDreams

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    Jul 24, 2013 2:22 PM GMT
    JackDoyle saidstab him


    With his massive clock?
  • madsexy

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    Jul 24, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    To the OP:
    Sorry, dude, but you just learned the first rule of men - they're often dogs/pigs/liars and at minimum it takes a lot to be certain you've found a good one, much less the right one.
    Really sorry you're going through it, but make the break as cleanly as you can and move on. That means if you can't physically move on/out/away (given living situation and work situation) work toward it. But emotionally you can. KNOW you made the right choice and that you deserve better. Remind yourself of that and take comfort in the fact that you found out sooner than you might have and took action. The guy you deserve is out there somewhere - don't lose hope, but look harder and be more watchful.

    About BigBen:
    Now THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT - a massive c(l)ock, jutting proudly upward, always ready, always performing. (Damn, I knew I shouldn't have logged onto RJ horny at work! I won't be leaving my desk anytime soon!)
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    Jul 24, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    Do u still live together????? take that clock of his and smash it against his pathetic skull. And throw his whoring ass hole out the window.
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    Jul 24, 2013 4:24 PM GMT
    Bloody clock lol, sorry all that was meant to say cock bit Damn HTC 1 don't like many words it appears, thanl you all for your jokes, and thank you Massey, just the advice I need at the moment, thabks icon_smile.gif


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    Jul 24, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    mcsolutions saidBloody clock lol, sorry all that was meant to say cock bit Damn HTC 1 don't like many words it appears, thanl you all for your jokes, and thank you Massey, just the advice I need at the moment, thabks icon_smile.gif


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    Oh ffs bloody phone1 thankypu Madsexy for your advice lol
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    Jul 24, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    And again...icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 24, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    Joust played payphone in the office, he knows what the song was played for and sat staring daggers at me, yes moving on...
  • PR_GMR

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    Jul 24, 2013 5:07 PM GMT
    Ooohh, boy! Reason no 125 why you should never work with an ex. And you're living with him?! You need to get far, far away from him and pronto!
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 24, 2013 5:15 PM GMT
    OP:
    Sad.
    Try to move out as soon as you can (or if it's your place, get him to leave). In the meantime, avoid being around him as much as possible. Initial anger is a good thing, but letting it fester can make you more unhappy. You probably don't want to hear this, but you're young - there can be better relationships in your future.
  • NYCjock

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    Jul 24, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    first off you need to learn how to speak and write properly. Second, its never a good idea to stoop through anyone's phone. A lot of texting and sending of photos is, at times, just play. It does not mean anything at times. We all need to express ourselves and many write and text lewd messages and add pics and never intend to meet. It's just play.

    Have a sit-down with your ex and tell him your concerns and that you love him and want to save the relationship. See what he says. Tell him you were not snooping but saw the messages. I think if it really meant so much to him, he would have deleted or destroyed his old phone. It may just be play, passing the time for him and making your relationship more passionate and fulfilling.

    good luck
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 24, 2013 5:56 PM GMT
    NYCjock saidfirst off you need to learn how to speak and write properly. . . . A lot of texting and sending of photos is, at times, just play. It does not mean anything at times. We all need to express ourselves and many write and text lewd messages and add pics and never intend to meet. It's just play.

    good luck

    Most of us were able to understand (he was typing on a phone) what he said, and could discern that he said it happened, whether "play"or not.

    His Ex could have said, "Vidi, vici, et veni."
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    Jul 24, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    NYCjock saidfirst off you need to learn how to speak and write properly. Second, its never a good idea to stoop through anyone's phone. A lot of texting and sending of photos is, at times, just play. It does not mean anything at times. We all need to express ourselves and many write and text lewd messages and add pics and never intend to meet. It's just play.

    Have a sit-down with your ex and tell him your concerns and that you love him and want to save the relationship. See what he says. Tell him you were not snooping but saw the messages. I think if it really meant so much to him, he would have deleted or destroyed his old phone. It may just be play, passing the time for him and making your relationship more passionate and fulfilling.

    good luck



    Well thankyou for the feedback, just to point out my English Is fine just dodgy predictive text.


    We are no longer together as I found proof of his other sexual activity.
    I'm senior to him at work by a longshot so no worries there, we share a house because neither of us can afford our own places.
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    Jul 28, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    Don't try to make him miserable.

    HE ISN'T WORTH IT.

    Trying to give someone the payback you think they deserve

    TAKES TOO MUCH OF YOUR OWN ENERGY.

    Focus now on what can make you happy.
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    Jul 28, 2013 4:22 AM GMT
    Suetonius said
    NYCjock saidfirst off you need to learn how to speak and write properly. . . . A lot of texting and sending of photos is, at times, just play. It does not mean anything at times. We all need to express ourselves and many write and text lewd messages and add pics and never intend to meet. It's just play.

    good luck

    Most of us were able to understand (he was typing on a phone) what he said, and could discern that he said it happened, whether "play"or not.

    His Ex could have said, "Vidi, vici, et veni."


    Veni, vidi, vici.

    I came, I saw, I conquered.
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    Jul 28, 2013 4:23 AM GMT
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    Jul 28, 2013 4:49 AM GMT
    JackDoyle saidstab him


    No! No!! NO!!!





    Much too quick. Put roofie in his morning drink and then keep him in a continually doped up state in a dungeon. Then, slowly, ever so slowly begin to "train" him to focus solely on you (he won't have much choice if you keep him in dungeon).

    Send texts to everybody he knows that he's leaving for North Korea and not to look for him. Then, send the phone to North Korea to throw everybody off the trail.

    By the time anybody catches on, you will have had decades of wanton pleasure and forbidden enjoyment with your "secret love".

    Big dildos and locking butt plugs are key.

    THAT will teach him for cheating on you!

  • Suetonius

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    Jul 28, 2013 7:51 AM GMT
    turbobilly said
    Suetonius said
    NYCjock saidfirst off you need to learn how to speak and write properly. . . . A lot of texting and sending of photos is, at times, just play. It does not mean anything at times. We all need to express ourselves and many write and text lewd messages and add pics and never intend to meet. It's just play.

    good luck

    Most of us were able to understand (he was typing on a phone) what he said, and could discern that he said it happened, whether "play"or not.

    His Ex could have said, "Vidi, vici, et veni."


    Veni, vidi, vici. I came, I saw, I conquered.

    @turbobilly: That may be what Caesar said, but this guy saw first and came last.