I lost it for the first time at 16 ... and for the second time at 19 the first was with a girl and it was ok... alot of fumblin around :p but the second time was a charm ... hooked up with a very sexy guy and it was great
Gone at 13...with a girl...was fun, she was older than me so we had a good time, I was a mumbling idiot but she knew how to work it....then it grew back....lost again at 21 when I hooked up with a very nice guy..again he was older than me and we had a great time. It was never scarry or bad the first times...I think I was more concerned with what would happen after, how would I feel and what would I do, but they are both great memories in my mind.
16 with my mother's housekepper, she was 4 years older and really hot. Before that it was a lot of "playing doctor" with mainly guys I knew. Men got my juices flowing 100%.
For me it happend at the age of 13 with a nice classmate(boy). And with 15 i tried it 2 times with girls, but there was no way that I could have done it.
Mine was this year when i dated someone who for once i didnt hold all my expectations of having a rationalized gay identity with a man. It always made me feel uncomfortable, it being sex. So when i found a partner whom i enjoyed his company i knew would be patient and it would be a laughing fun experience. i dove right in so to speak. It was mechanical but i think im getting better at it as time goes on.