"Text me sometime" how long do you wait?

  • glowstik

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    Jul 25, 2013 3:22 PM GMT
    I wanna text him right now!! But how do you play it right when you just had a hot hook up last night and you're tired at work the next day :p
  • Fable

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    Jul 25, 2013 3:48 PM GMT
    you text him?
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    Jul 25, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    A next-day txt to say that you had a good time lets him know that you really are interested in meeting again. But txting every day (or worse, twice a day) is a bit creepy and may force him to push back.

    But what do I know, I'm a fossil.
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    Jul 25, 2013 5:18 PM GMT
    Send him a txt -brief - but then let it rest for a while, and give him space to think about texting you back. Like mindgarden said, too frequent texting would make him think you're overly needy. Don't put a lot of expectations on a good response - most hookups don't really want to get involved, even if they say they do.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 25, 2013 5:51 PM GMT
    Text:
    Last nite was awesome, let's get together again soon, if/when you are game
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    Jul 25, 2013 6:01 PM GMT
    This is why I always make sure I am the one who says "text me sometime" first.
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    Jul 25, 2013 6:02 PM GMT
    I usually just wait until I see them in a dark alley and then put it in their butt. Probably the best text you can do.
  • glowstik

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    Jul 25, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    Ohno saidThis is why I always make sure I am the one who says "text me sometime" first.


    Yeah that makes sense lol what can you say to that..."no, you text me!". That wouldnt be good but

    Anyways I already sent a cute funny text refernecing last night and now I'll just think about the next guy for now :p
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    Jul 27, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    TrevorMark saidI usually just wait until I see them in a dark alley and then put it in their butt. Probably the best text you can do.



    So that's why you never texted?
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    Jul 27, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    Wait until the next day.

    If a guy I'd hooked up with waits days to text me, my feeling would be that he just isn't that into me.
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    Jul 27, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    Hate when guys tell you to text them and when you do text him he gives you one or two word responses when you write a couple of sentences. Why is this? ESP if the conversation between you two have always been good?
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    Jul 27, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    BCmasc1 saidHate when guys tell you to text them and when you do text him he gives you one or two word responses when you write a couple of sentences. Why is this? ESP if the conversation between you two have always been good?


    He could be busy or it is a bad time when you text. That is part of the difficulty with communicating via text. You don't get all the nuances like when talking in person or even talking on the phone.

    As far as the OP's original question, my thoughts are that you text him the next day. If you don't hear back, maybe send a second text a few days later. If you still don't hear back, that's probably the answer....
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    Jul 27, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    Wait no later than the evening.

    Text him with a, "Dude I'm totally worn out and can't get this grin off my face! ;-)"

    Schedule a repeat. It could be LOVE banging on your backdoor!
  • Felony84

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    Jul 27, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    Wait at least a day or two. If you text immediately then you seem to eager and may turn him off. It was a hook up, not a date. Some are in the moment of the hook up, but that's that. They're not looking to make it a habit with the same person.
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    Jul 27, 2013 9:13 PM GMT
    Ohno saidThis is why I always make sure I am the one who says "text me sometime" first.


    This.

    Although if I am put into that situation, I'm usually not afraid to text immediately. I don't like that guys have to pretend that they're not too interested. It's a waste of time, in my opinion. I prefer to be texted immediately, so I do the same.

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