Nov 10, 2008 7:48 PM GMT
2 years ago .. when I decided I want to come out of the closet I felt it was my destiny and my identity .. I was proud and willing to fight all the abstecles on the way ..
But now .. I'm just thinking : what's the point from completely leave the closet ?? Can't a gay person be successful , happy , active without revealing his sexual preference to everyone ??
I mean .. it's mostly the sex itself , it's about the gender we want in bed .. it doesn't have to be our identitny or definition in places it's irrelevant ..
Yes .. I'd want some of my friends to know .. and of course if I have a boyfriend I'll not try to hide it ... I'll be proud of it ..
but meanwhile .. I don't think I need to run and tell all my friends / classmates / relatives .. myself is the human and not the sexual orientation..
It's nice to make hot guys wonder about you sometimes ..