Only in to white guys

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    Jul 26, 2013 12:26 PM GMT
    So I am a black guy in Houston tx and I am only into White Guys. The other day one of my roommates and I were talking about black men that only date white people.

    He said something that I have never heard of before. He thinks it is because of classical conditioning through Porn.

    There are more porn videos with White people in them than any other race.

    When I was in the 5th grade I walked in on my mother and her boyfriend watching porn.. After that when they where gone, I would watch their porn videos. Over the years there were many different porn videos in the house all around 2 or more hours long.

    so out of all this porn, I remember watching only one porn clip with only black people, one porn clip a black guy and a white girl, one with a white guy and a black girl , I watched the Rkelly porn and that is it... all the other were all white...

    if you guys know the ex porn star Peter North aka Matt Ramsey, he was in a lot of the porn videos that were at my house. so I learned who he was at a very young age.

    I am very much interested in knowing what people think about this ...

    Can years of watching mainly white porn turn a person into " White only?"

    Also, I have meet a lot of black guys that were only in to White guys..

    My best friend in fact in... so there are a lot of us.
    And there are a lot white guys out there that are only in to White Guys.

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    Jul 26, 2013 12:29 PM GMT
    again? why are some of you intent on causing racial threads seriously
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    Jul 26, 2013 12:30 PM GMT
    why is it that usually the very ethnic minorities love white men (blacks, asians, dark skinned latinos with ethic features, the dravidians) and the racially ambiguous ones (the latinos with western features, the other east indians, the arabs etc.) usually don't care about race?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 26, 2013 12:43 PM GMT
    Interesting question. I think you'd have to talk to a psychologist about this question, you could be right, we all get "conditioned" so to speak. Conditioning, however in this case, can be limiting. There are HOT men of any race. To limit yourself is really unfortunate.
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    Jul 26, 2013 1:04 PM GMT
    btb4198 said...

    Can years of watching mainly white porn turn a person into " White only?"
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    Sure! Just as years of watching mainly straight porn turn a person into "straight only".

    Be careful watching animal documentaries!
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    Jul 26, 2013 1:12 PM GMT
    here we go
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    Jul 26, 2013 1:17 PM GMT


    Sure! Just as years of watching mainly straight porn turn a person into "straight only".

    Be careful watching animal documentaries!
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    so GAMRican

    you are saying that you know straight guys that watch gay porn? or you know Gay guys that watch only straight porn?

    because I do not ...

    I think if you only watched straight porn from the time you where in grade school than yeah you are straight / would be straight ...

    When I was a kid I watched gay porn online... again only white people and anime porn...

    but I did not watch only straight porn...
    funny...
    thinking about it now, I used to be bi... and I even had sex with a girl once... only once in high school... but when I went to university I just went all gay and started only watching gay porn ...

    idk

    I would never have sex with a girl again..
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    Jul 26, 2013 1:17 PM GMT
    Tired of these stupid ass race threads


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    Jul 26, 2013 1:18 PM GMT
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    Jul 26, 2013 1:22 PM GMT
    Edward89 saidTired of these stupid ass race threads


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    Jul 26, 2013 2:07 PM GMT
    Does this make you happy or unhappy?
    That's all that matters.
    Don't let all the C.R.A.P. (contrived racial attitude propaganda) here influence you.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 26, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    I think it's entirely possible for early influences to determine what we find attractive or sexually stimulating later in life.

    I also think it's possible for some people, regardless of race, to be attracted to people of different races for no particular reason whatsoever.

    I've found myself attracted to men of all races and colors, to me - a hot man is a hot man.

    Don't worry about it, you know what turns you on and what doesn't - just enjoy it and don't worry about trying to figure out why it is or feel like to have to explain yourself to others.
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    Jul 26, 2013 2:35 PM GMT
    I see sexy guys of all races that I like, it's hard for me to have a preference.
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    Jul 26, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    I like MEN, could care less if they are white, green, purple etc. Porn has no effect of my desire to be with men. Now I do prefer men who have some hair going on and are muscular. But I sure wouldn't throw a nice looking smooth guy outta my bed. I don't really think exposure to white only porn is a factor in what type of men one prefers. icbw
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 26, 2013 3:11 PM GMT
    There are people that do not watch porn at all and still have those same desires. As in the other thread on tanning, it is more likely due to a desire to have what you do not have.
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    Jul 26, 2013 3:14 PM GMT
    a black man who only Likes white guys.... wow thats rare icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 26, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    Actually I feel porn helped open me up lol... I started only liking white guys also.. I do kind of blame that on media.. television... kid shows are predominantly white and when there is a black character they are usually the fool or if they are smart the shows writers have to make sure to show that they are one of a kind and learned their good behavior from white people.. not just in kid shows just Everywhere... Also the black made media I saw didn't do great either portraying us

    Anyways.. I started watching only white guys in porn thinking I was only attracted to whites but then of course other porn popped up and I clicked and I clicked and I clicked.. ( lol icon_redface.gif ) Until I TRULY LOVED every race of man on the world.... I'd probably do an alien right now if they had standard Penises.. the internet is so dirty nowadays.. lol

    Now that is just a distant memory I almost forgot.. I do have time where I am in the mood for maybe Hispanic guys.. over the rest then 2 weeks later Asian guys and so on.. but I Pray that stays in more porn habits.. I don't want to get a "craving" for another race when I actually do get in a relationship...

    But I will NEVER say I agree with people who aren't attracted to a certain races or only one.. it just sounds ignorant to me... childish... Makes finding love Way harder.. there are so many races In this world and to only stick to one... odd, but whatever I would never waste much thought on a guy who wasn't into me
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 26, 2013 5:31 PM GMT
    TheRece25 said


    But I will NEVER say I agree with people who aren't attracted to a certain races or only one.. it just sounds ignorant to me... childish... Makes finding love Way harder.. there are so many races In this world and to only stick to one...

    Puhleeze - People are attracted to whatever they are attracted to, and some attractions are a lot stronger than others. TO imply that others (can't speak for you) ought to be attracted to everyone, or men of every race, is ridiculous. Attractions just are. They are not created after intellectual considerationi. Some guys only like women, some only guys, some fat guys, some abhor fat guys, and some are obviously only attracted to children, or want sex with animals. Yeah the latter groups should restrain their inclinations, but telling them they should be attracted to something else isn't going to make that happen.
  • SaniBasco

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    Jul 26, 2013 6:44 PM GMT
    Being that I am biracial, and racially ambiguous to many, I can attest from experience that there is beauty in all men and I am attracted to all men across the racial spectrum. Because I have great pride in being brown and see beauty in my features, the men I tend to really swoon after also tend to be brown. Mostly of mixed black/white heritage like myself, but certainly not limited to. It irks me to read these pathetic posts from other black men that really feel the need to voice their proclivity for white men only because it leads me to really believe that you don't find beauty within yourself. No matter what kind of exscuse is used to justify it. From experience, the only white men I've known who really loved black men were size queen, dirty sluts who just want a bbc to dick them down. So for all of you black men who have sole preference for white men, dont expect to find many men who will find beauty in you as a black man, when you can't even find the value in yourself.
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    Jul 26, 2013 6:50 PM GMT
    I know I shouldn't be feeding the fire, but I did run into a guy who said from his own mouth that he was only into white guys, so after that I lost interest that moment, and never thought about it twice, a month later he asks me out on a date.

    has anyone ever experienced this? I mean what do you say to a guy like that?
  • SaniBasco

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    Jul 26, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidI know I shouldn't be feeding the fire, but I did run into a guy who said from his own mouth that he was only into white guys, so after that I lost interest that moment, and never thought about it twice, a month later he asks me out on a date.

    has anyone ever experienced this? I mean what do you say to a guy like that?


    I think you did the right thing....I would have reacted in a similar manor, anway. It's hard for me to give people like that the benefit of the doubt when it comes to their reasoning, especially when speaking in absolutes in regards to racial dating preference, which I find to be a turn off and immature. And it's normally the sub-par black men who feel the need to only reach for white men to have their validation. I saw this one dudes jack'd profile and he stated he was only into white and hispanic men and I was appalled at the contents of his profile. Dude looked ghetto, trashy and I was just thinking to myself that no self-respecting white man would want him.....unless its the aforementioned size queen slut who just wants bbc.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 26, 2013 7:03 PM GMT
    SaniBasco saidBeing that I am biracial, and racially ambiguous to many, I can attest from experience that there is beauty in all men and I am attracted to all men across the racial spectrum. Because I have great pride in being brown and see beauty in my features, the men I tend to really swoon after also tend to be brown. Mostly of mixed black/white heritage like myself, but certainly not limited to. It irks me to read these pathetic posts from other black men that really feel the need to voice their proclivity for white men only because it leads me to really believe that you don't find beauty within yourself. No matter what kind of exscuse is used to justify it. From experience, the only white men I've known who really loved black men were size queen, dirty sluts who just want a bbc to dick them down. So for all of you black men who have sole preference for white men, dont expect to find many men who will find beauty in you as a black man, when you can't even find the value in yourself.

    I get where you're coming from (because you're saying what people say endlessly on these threads) but I think it's very insulting to stereotype all white men the way you do. You're wrong, and you're just painting people in a corner, imo.
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    Jul 26, 2013 7:08 PM GMT
    Why porn? I mean American media is so heavily dominated by white men and women? Never wondered that could have contributed too?
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    Jul 26, 2013 7:09 PM GMT
    SaniBasco said
    Mesmer saidI know I shouldn't be feeding the fire, but I did run into a guy who said from his own mouth that he was only into white guys, so after that I lost interest that moment, and never thought about it twice, a month later he asks me out on a date.

    has anyone ever experienced this? I mean what do you say to a guy like that?


    I think you did the right thing....I would have reacted in a similar manor, anway. It's hard for me to give people like that the benefit of the doubt when it comes to their reasoning, especially when speaking in absolutes in regards to racial dating preference, which I find to be a turn off and immature. And it's normally the sub-par black men who feel the need to only reach for white men to have their validation. I saw this one dudes jack'd profile and he stated he was only into white and hispanic men and I was appalled at the contents of his profile. Dude looked ghetto, trashy and I was just thinking to myself that no self-respecting white man would want him.....unless its the aforementioned size queen slut who just wants bbc.


    It just bothers me when guys speak in absolutes especially when it comes to color, if you only like white guys then you better honor your words, and don't go back on them because the people on the receiving end gets crushed because something like skin color is something they can never change, and it hurts when people say that. Was I hurt when I heard this guy say he only liked white guys; ABSOLUTELY. And when he told me he wanted to date me, I was furious.

    I've also been on dates where a guy said he doesn't like asians, I eventually told him I was half asian. I see you are mixed too, do you ever experience this? sometimes I feel like I have an Identity crisis, especially when it comes to dating.
  • CityofDreams

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    Jul 26, 2013 7:23 PM GMT
    These threads are seriously pathetic! HaHaHa!