fuckyoupayme saiddude, this goes back to my main point.
you and some of these members on here NEED to stop taking this site too seriously. let's be real here. 99% of the people that see on here, you WILL never meet in your life and even that, you do NOT know them, you don't know if they're real people or aliases, and etc. some members MAY try their hardest to convince you otherwise BUT that often is NOT the case. you really don't know who is who on here and you can't rely on skype or google chat to draw your conclusions.
sure, i can get advice and etc about my problems on here from people that are willing to give it BUT as i said before, i live in the world outside of real jock. if anybody wants to meet me off real jock, i can chose to go ahead and meet them or not to meet them according to how i feel. this shit right here is NOT my life even if i try to spill every aspect of it for you and everyone else to see. unless you meet me in person, live inside my house, meet the people in my circle and really get to see shit for what it is, you don't know. i am here damn near everyday, how many hours off and on BUT @ the same time, nothing on this site affects me offline. it doesn't and even if there is a potential situation that could make that happen, i do my best to control it so it doesn't diverge into my real life affairs unless i want it to.
hell, if you met me face to face, spoke to me and etc, you probably would have a hard time believing the things that i said online or was exaggerating shit.
If that's your main point then it reveals a lack of integrity. That's something you can work on fixing. I see it a lot on this forum with other posters, not just your one example here.
Your life ultimately is about you regardless of your interactions in the world. So it doesn't matter if you are interacting virtually or in person or on the phone, or at home or at work or at play, with friends or family or wildlife or for that matter whether your body is awake or whether your are dreaming consciously or not, in how you act with and respond to all of those dream elements and characters and situations.
Without integrity, nothing works.~~saying