New to this type of social life

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    Jul 29, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    What up? icon_biggrin.gif

    Can anyone enlighten me on the ways of homosexual life? I recently just opened up to my friends and family about my sexuality and hell yeah it feels great, now I don't have to ride solo anymore. But real talk it feels great!!!

    But when I opened up to some of my family members, I was laughing the whole time during my conversation with them, and since I guess I am the only gay one, it looked like this:
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    for my mother, but it's all cool now since she was like oh well I have 5 other sons who can pass on the family line LOL!!!

    But yeah, I just wanted to say hey and well be happy to learn a few things of two icon_smile.gif.

    THANKS icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 29, 2013 3:33 PM GMT
    Welcome to the gay brotherhood! It's kinda awesome icon_biggrin.gif

    I opened up to my mom, family, friends, and anyone who wondered about a little over a year ago. Everyone was accepting, except my mom at first, but now things have changed tremendously. My boyfriend actually stayed with us for a month, and my family fell in love with him. So did my friends! And we live in Bible Belt Alabama so that's saying something.

    Anyway, just like the "straight community" (lol) you're going to find people who are mean, people who are nice, people who are strange, people who you click with, people who you don't. Just get out there, and meet some new people!

    You're going to hear a lot of stuff about how gay men are shallow and rude. That may be true, but that can be true for anyone actually. Just put yourself out there and have some fun icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 29, 2013 8:31 PM GMT
    Congratulations on coming out!
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:12 AM GMT
    Thanks, any advice for me?
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:17 AM GMT
    I have some advice:
    Make sure u lube ur hole up real good before anal.
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:28 AM GMT
    good luck =picon_lol.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



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    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    armorettes_back_room_burlesque_10-47-00.

    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.


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    Jul 30, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    HottJoe said
    Scruffypup said
    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:55 AM GMT
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    Scruffypup said
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.
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    Jul 30, 2013 1:56 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

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    Jul 30, 2013 1:59 AM GMT
    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Be yourself -- there's no "right" way to be gay.
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    We're not a type of social life. We're an orientation.

    Please leave contact info for your recruiter so we know where to send the toaster oven.
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    theantijock saidWe're not a type of social life. We're an orientation.

    Please leave contact info for your recruiter so we know where to send the toaster oven.

    Damn it, I was hoping they upgraded to a DVR by now.icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Scruffypup said
    HottJoe said
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

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    If I ever visit New Orleans, would you take me to a straight bar?
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
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    theantijock saidWe're not a type of social life. We're an orientation.

    Please leave contact info for your recruiter so we know where to send the toaster oven.

    Damn it, I was hoping they upgraded to a DVR by now.icon_sad.gif


    Sorry. No one really ever buys one, so it's tough to burn through the inventory.

    Though I thought for certain you of all people would catch that obscured social life/lifestyle reference.
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:18 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

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    If I ever visit New Orleans, would you take me to a straight bar?


    Sure
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:25 AM GMT
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

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    If I ever visit New Orleans, would you take me to a straight bar?


    Sure


    But but but the best trashy male strippers in the country are at a gay bar, the Corner Pocket. And if you go on amateur night you get a lot more for your dollar. icon_eek.gif
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

    icon_razz.gif

    If I ever visit New Orleans, would you take me to a straight bar?


    Sure


    But but but the best trashy male strippers in the country are at a gay bar, the Corner Pocket. And if you go on amateur night you get a lot more for your dollar. icon_eek.gif



    Define "best." I mean, John Waters seems to think so. His favorite "go-go boy" as he puts it, is a good friend of mine. I've just never cared for strippers really. And the Corner Pocket is about as trashy as it gets. Have you ever been to that place?
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:30 AM GMT
    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?


    First off, CONGRATULTIONS!! on entering a world of beauty, vanity, self conciousness, and shade.

    I would recommend on getting a gym membership, because that is, going to go hand in hand with your gay card.

    haha, na, i'm just kidding. Welcome to the party. we welcome you with open arms.


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    Jul 30, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
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    TheJester saidThanks, any advice for me?



    Yeah. Stay out of gay bars. Generally speaking, they're cesspits of shallow, gossiping queens, engaging in excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs and casual sex. Oh, and they think drag shows are the best and only type of entertainment on Earth. Unless that's the kind of life you see for yourself, then of course have at it.

    That's such a horrible thing to say! I know you prefer straight men, and straight bars, but still, you don't have lie to him, or act like gay people are scum. They're not.

    The gay bars I go to are friendly and casual. I mainly go with friends.icon_smile.gif



    You write about your experiences....I'll write about mine. And I never said all gay people are scum. I'm gay too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif Not all gay people segregate themselves to gay bars.

    I always get beat up at straight bars for being so fem.icon_sad.gif


    Stop lying.

    icon_razz.gif

    If I ever visit New Orleans, would you take me to a straight bar?


    Sure

    Yay! icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    theantijock said
    HottJoe said
    theantijock saidWe're not a type of social life. We're an orientation.

    Please leave contact info for your recruiter so we know where to send the toaster oven.

    Damn it, I was hoping they upgraded to a DVR by now.icon_sad.gif


    Sorry. No one really ever buys one, so it's tough to burn through the inventory.

    Though I thought for certain you of all people would catch that obscured social life/lifestyle reference.

    Oh, haha, I got it!