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    Jul 30, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    icon_mad.gificon_mad.gif If you have been reading my previous posts, short version is there is this guy who seemed to like me alot but was too shy to say anything to me for the past 2 years. I do like him too. And last week he became buddy buddy with my other girl friend. And he even asked about me, and said to her I was attractive. So yesterday, I decided to be bold and I asked him for some staples for my stapler ( I had them). hE WAS SITTING ALONE UNDER A TREE My intention was to make him more comfortable around me.

    NOTHING COULD HAVE PREPARED ME FOR HIS REACTION. HE KINDLY SAID NO HE DIDNT HAVE ANY. BUT HE WAS VERY DISTANT, AND VERY UNCOMFORTABLE. THEN I SAT ABOUT 5 METERS AWAY FROM HIM. THEN A MINUTE LATER HE TO THROW AWAY A BOTTLE OF COKE IN A NEARBY TRASH CAN. wHEN HE CAME BACK HE SAT MUCH FURTHER AWAY FROM ME ALMOST 20 METERS, AND SAID NOTHING!



    IM DONE WITH THIS GUY! I REGRET THAT I WAS SO EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN THIS GUY. i FEEL LIKE SUCH A FOOL.icon_evil.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 5:51 AM GMT
    I'M SO SORRY THAT YOU WERE SNUBBED AND THAT HE WAS SO DISTANT. HOW DARE HE THROW THAT BOTTLE OF COKE FAR FROM YOU AND SIT ALONE UNDER A TREE.
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    Jul 30, 2013 5:56 AM GMT
    PR_GMR saidI'M SO SORRY THAT YOU WERE SNUBBED AND THAT HE WAS SO DISTANT. HOW DARE HE THROW THAT BOTTLE OF COKE FAR FROM YOU AND SIT ALONE UNDER A TREE.


    HE IS IN MY GEOLOGY CLASS, AND NOW I JUST WANT TO TREAT HIM LIKE HE DOESNT EXISTicon_mad.gif I DONT WANT TO EVEN LOKI AT HIM.
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:00 AM GMT
    IF THATS EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT I'VE BEEN MISSING SOMETHING..

    WHY ARE WE ALL YELLING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
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    KILLING WITH CAPS!!
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:05 AM GMT
    boomerangOz saidIF THATS EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT I'VE BEEN MISSING SOMETHING..

    WHY ARE WE ALL YELLING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    I am not yelling. I am emphasising.
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:11 AM GMT
    #thirdworldproblems
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:12 AM GMT
    I would not come to a conclusion too soon...

    There might be other reasons...you'll never know the real reason, until you go and ask him directly!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 30, 2013 6:18 AM GMT
    Your gf told him you were her bf
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:24 AM GMT
    Harry7785 saidI would not come to a conclusion too soon...

    There might be other reasons...you'll never know the real reason, until you go and ask him directly!


    yes, that I have 6 heads! lol!
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidYour gf told him you were her bf


    She knows Im gay. Unless, she really did coz she secretly wants me too.icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:29 AM GMT
    WEONA, QUÉ BRUTAL mJkN9WB.gif
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 30, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    Two years is a long time to wonder about someone, who might not even be gay. At least you finally tried to talk to him, and found he wasn't interested. Sounds like you were fantacising about him the whole time. Before you let another 2 years go by, why not go to a gay bar or other gay hangout where you know the others at least will be gay? Bloemfontein is a big place - there must be some gay places there.
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:34 AM GMT
    BillyD_964 said
    Harry7785 saidI would not come to a conclusion too soon...

    There might be other reasons...you'll never know the real reason, until you go and ask him directly!


    yes, that I have 6 heads! lol!

    Don't be absurd.
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:37 AM GMT
    Suetonius saidTwo years is along time to wonder about someone, who might not even be gay. At least you finally tried to talk to him, and found he wasn't interested. Sounds like you were fantacising about him the whole time. Before you let another 2 years go by, why not go to a gay bar or other gay hangout where you know the others at least will be gay? Bloemfontein is a big place - there must be some gay places there.


    I wont go to gay bar. Not my thing. Can anyone really find a guy interested in an ltr in a gay bar, other than a fuck? What I should do is come outicon_cool.gif

    I need to get ready for class. later
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    Jul 30, 2013 6:59 AM GMT
    ataraxia said#thirdworldproblems



    LMFAO!
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    Jul 30, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
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    /////DANCE THE DANCE OF LIFE///////


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    Jul 30, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    You asked him for staples? I don't really consider that a roaring request for a date...

    And if he does like you then of course he acted that way. You make him nervous. He's trying to avoid you so he doesn't get his hopes up and get hurt. If he didn't like you or was apathetic, he wouldn't have cared and stay at the starting distance.
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 30, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    BillyD_964 said
    Suetonius saidTwo years is along time to wonder about someone, who might not even be gay. At least you finally tried to talk to him, and found he wasn't interested. Sounds like you were fantacising about him the whole time. Before you let another 2 years go by, why not go to a gay bar or other gay hangout where you know the others at least will be gay? Bloemfontein is a big place - there must be some gay places there.


    I wont go to gay bar. Not my thing. Can anyone really find a guy interested in an ltr in a gay bar, other than a fuck? What I should do is come outicon_cool.gif

    Then come out. And YES, one can encounter a guy in a bar that can become an LTR - it has happened many hundreds of thousands of times. I don't know what it's like to be a gay African in the Free State, although I would imagine you might get a lot of hate - so all the more credit for you if you come out. But there are gay organizations in SA that you should investigate - At least you would know that any guy you met there would be gay, which you don't even know of the object of your crush for the last 2 years.